ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

Jen. Sorry you are so exhausted...its all for a good cause! That pesky Rhogam shot...so needed for your lo now and in the future!

Laura. It is so normal to feel as you do right now. This is your sticky bean, your rainbow! I'm sending warm comforting thoughts your way!

Amy. What a relief not seeing those guys around anymore. But how dreadful that you still have that lingering thought that you have to be cautious. Tomorrow will be much better, you'll get your BFP and be ushered in the TWW!

Lamb. One day at a time doll. I'm sorry if I've missed it, but are you going to try straight away or have you decided to wait for one cycle?

Bethany...moving is the pits! Hope you guys get settled in quickly and there is no delay in your internet service! haha!

Natasha, Horsey & Jessica. Thinking of you! Sending baby dust your way!

AFM~thought AF was going to leave as she came, but that is NOT how she plays! She morphed into a Category 5 hurricane yesterday and is now just a tropical storm (beach analogy!)...I'm guessing a good flow is sign that things are in proper working order!

 

[jen435]

Angel yes a good sign fxd for u this cycle!

Laura so sorry sweety what amy said is correct. Your LO is safe and lile is watching over you both. I know how easy it is to worry but keep ur mind happy so baby can grow. June will be here before u know it! Hugs

Amy sorry u still have fear I completely can umderstand why. So glad dh layed with u. im excited for ur yes amy!!!

They called me back 45minutes late Nd I was 30 minutes early. I took a nap waiting it was uncomfortable. I just learmed that this hospital will chRge me twice for delivery (4,000-6,000)... A hospital closer to me will only charge me 1,800-3,000. I would habe to chNge my obygn doctor though.... Idk if I should switch.... Idk if other office would care for my baby to check heRt and organs before twenty qeeks.. nyone know? That lower bill would be reallu helpful bc im not working but I habe no odea how sqitchimg works?

 

[Storked]

Chevcwgirl, welcome! What are you testing for?

Hi Lamb, how are you?

Jen, howdy! butt shot? Totally worth it- you will become very accustomed to it. Is it every day?
Not sure on switching though :-/

Praying, that is great news

Laura, everything will be just fine I promise!

Amy, HI nothing to report from me aside from waiting to O.

Angel, you're back WOOHOO! How are you?
And a good flow is a great sign!

AFM: darned husband came home early without warning me. Supper wasn't ready and I was scrubbing up the bathroom. Seriously annoyed me. I gots a schedule too dangit

 

[xoxo4angel]

haha Bethany! Were you showered?

Jen, if I am not mistaken, you should be able to go for a consult or interview before deciding if you want to use a certain Dr. I don't know what harm would come from calling around and asking various OB's. I know you can and are encouraged to do so with pediatricians. For sure try to make that switch...that is big difference in cost.

 

[jen435]

Aww lol bethany thats cute! dh coming home early

 

[Chevcwgirl]

@ storked going for bfp ! Hopefully! Wish full thinking.

 

[mommylov]

Angel, that's a great sign!!!
Jen, thanks Hun. Sorry you are so tired but I second what angel said, it's for s great cause Also, I think you can def consult before you switch. We switch when I was preg and did just that.
Bethany, Oooooooooooo baby! Fx you o soon!!! What a way that will be to christen the new place!
Laura I'm site went bedy by .., sweet dreams!
Chev, welcome dear and fx for your test!
Horsey, Hiya doll!

Natasha, Jessica, danni, and anyone I missed, hi!

AFM~ great news, +opk tonight! So just bd and dh is game for waking up early tomorrow morning and bd and bd tomorrow night as well fx!!!!!

to you all and have a great night, love you girls!

 

[Storked]

Angel, avoiding the shower until the morning

Jen, hate when that man arrives early! What if I was napping?

Chevcwgirl, oh did you mean 10 days past ovulation? Good luck!

Amy, yay for positive OPK!

AFM: watching Blood Ties with the spouse! The fertility blend for men WORKS...
I am worried because we haven't heard from Jessica in a while

 

[mommylov]

Lol!

I know, Jessica where you be? And Danni, are you still around?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi girls.. I am back. OMG first off, I have actually been trying to follow all of you. But, I have not been up to anything, not even typing. Last Thursday I went to the emergency room (again) thinking I was having a heart attack. I had a heart palpitation, never really felt anything like that before. Then I felt dizzy, weak, etc. I went in, they did an EKG, chest x-ray, and heart ultrasound and sensitive blood test (they also did some of these tests the last time I went, about a month ago). I made sure they did EVERYTHING. Of course it all came back fine.

This is what the miscarriage on top of my stressful life is doing to me. As a matter of fact, they wanted to send me to the psychiatric ward. . So what they are telling me is that I most likely have PTSD. I feel completely screwed up, that is the only way I can put it. What has happened to me is basically like this: When I lost the baby and so far along. It all happened so quickly. 3 Hours before I found out the baby had died he had been moving around in me like crazy ( I started feeling the kicking at 13 weeks, so for 5 weeks I had this incredible connection with him, even knew his sleep patterns). Then 12 hours later the baby basically fell out of me. I was in complete shock and that day was a complete blur. About 1 month after this happened everything hit me. I now remember the baby very clearly (before I didn't). Then the panic started a ton of health problems etc.

To make matters worse, I am an extreme teeth grinder. Have been doing it for over 15 years. All my molars are flat. I have already had 4 teeth pulled due to them breaking apart, fillings falling out and then decay. Every night I suffer horrible nightmares (usually involving babies, won't go into details.. too depressing), and grind my teeth during those nightmares. Saturday morning woke up with a horrible tooth ache on a tooth that had an old root canal. The pain was like no other. This pain was worse than child birth. That bad. Relentless pain all day and night. Monday woke up with my jaw all swollen. Went right to the dentist. I have a horrible tooth abscess. Going to get the tooth pulled next Monday. Dentist told me I have horrible teeth genetics. Funny thing is my gums are healthy, its my teeth that are messed up. I always took care of my teeth, brush floss several times a day, but the grinding as well as my genetics, not good. Now I am on strong antibiotics and medication and I will be ovulating soon. So there goes this month. Today I finally got the strength and patience to actually come on here and type, so sorry I didn't chat for so long with you girls. I LOVE YOU ALL VERY MUCH.

 

[aaronswoman79]

I missed all of you so much. And it hurt to not be able to chat with all of you. I have been trying to keep up, because I want to know how all of you are doing. I have just been so out of it from the vicodin and the horrible antibiotics. Went out today for the first time to the health food store to buy some pro-biotics. It always seems like a bunch of bad crap always seems to happen right before ttc time.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jen and Laura, so glad your pregnancies are going by smoothly. That's a big milestone getting babies heartbeat! Fantastic news. Jen, how was Taken 2? Was it good?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Bethany, missed you tons . What else can I say. Its a pity we don't live closer. No more ttc this month for me. So hoping November will be the month. By the way, I am still using the opk, Because I want to know around what time I ovulate to get an idea, even though I know it can vary month to month. Oww my tummy hurts so badly. These darn anti biotics.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, sorry about those racist weirdos. I have seen the confederate flag before, and I have known people who use it and say they aren't racist, but it is funny they say that because they usually have a strong opinion about immigrants, and other ethnicities. So I wonder if they are in denial of their racism? I am sure there could be some who use it who aren't. But I have experienced racism my whole life. So I know how it feels. I am mixed obviously. And people have always told me I cannot be Hispanic because of features and skin tone. It is so ignorant because we come in all colors. My mother if from El Salvador and she is white looking so what do they expect, my father was a gringo (mostly Irish). Many times we go out and have gotten ignorant comments from people (and this is the ethnically diverse Bay Area). They will stare at my husband, then look at my children, then look at me with a puzzled face. None of us look alike. My daughters look nothing alike. We all have different skin tones, hair colors, etc. And I think it is awesome. Random people have actually come and ask us, what race we are, etc. I think its a little offensive to actually just come out and ask a stranger that, and make a weird face on top of it, and then have to audacity to ask why we look nothing alike. But I guess that's life and people can be very ignorant. I'm gonna put up some pics here soon. It use to piss me off, but now I don't really care anymore, unless they insult my kids or are flat out rude.

 

[Storked]

Jessica, so glad to hear from you
What did they expect, of course you were going to be traumatized after losing your son! And even more traumatized after having to deal with rude, unprofessional hospital staff on the phone afterwards! Oh honey I wish I lived closer- you could come to my house whenever you were feeling stressed or out of control
So sorry you are in so much pain and hurting. I love you so much! Hopefully, things will start going more smoothly for you after that tooth is pulled. Did you get your DH FertileAid?
How much longer do you have to take the antibiotics? Is the Vicodin helping you out with the pain much? Mouth pain can be so intense
Your rainbow will come soon. I can't wait for the day when you hold your baby in your arms

Also, slap the shiznit out of peeps who talk smack about your ethnicity or comment on your kids. Rude chumps. I cannot fathom why anyone would think that an appropriate thing to ask about. My exhusband used to get asked a lot if he was Jewish because he had a huge schnoz. And they always argued with him too. "No you can't be Hispanic because of that nose. That is a Jewish nose."
What, the Romans didn't have noses?
You and your family are beautiful

 

[lilesMom]

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Oh I love it!!!! The 4th one is great!!!!thank you sooo much for doing that :hughs:

I have what I think is O pain so if I get a +opk tonight or tomorrow then that will confirm it. Ive never had that pain before but after my d&c, seems like a lot has changed!

:wave: Angel! Happy catching up!

no prob xxx
i got Ov pain too for 2 cycles after d and e and i never had it before, the third cycle i didnt get it at all . xxxxx
fx for u, must be soon anyway, u have waited enough already xx

 

[lilesMom]

angel thanks hon welcome back xxxxx
that is a good sign that af picked up, xxx might not feel like it at the time but it is good
im a bit embarrassed by my mini melt down yest, i think hormones were making it worse too i feel better after sleep xxxxx

jen thanks honey xxxxxx
god that is a big difference in the bill between hospitals alright,
im not sure how it works there but here, they have to help if u r pregnant and in any kind of trouble , but i know our system is different . could u ring up the lower priced one and ask um ur qs?

bethnay thanks hon. xxx
it is annoying when they do that, im at home all the time for a bit now too,
sometimes he comes home early and someimes he wil go some where after work and not even text me to tell me. very annoying, espeacially if im bored and relying on him to keep me company
i really wanna tear my house apart and scrub it, but im too lazy.
i think i might do a room a day statin tomoro, for today i will go buy vinegar , lemons and cloths and stuff cos i cant use cleany things.
i think i have a new allergy now too, which didnt help the last few days, i think perfume is now off my safe list, doh!!! im gonna have nothing left and be stinky forever.

oooohhh amy yey, u be joining us in no time so xxxxxxxxxxxx
woo hoo, xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

oh jessica u poor love
so sorry for all ur pain xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
we missed u terribly and were getting worried about u xxxx
how awful a time u have had lately, wish i could help xx
one more month to help urself and get better, lots of tlc for u sweetie.
pamper urself , look after urself and get ur rest.
if they say u have ptsd, maybe would u think about counselling, they can be so helpfull.
my bro and Sil had a baby with ananchepely a few yrs back. at 20 weeks the anomoly scan showed it and she was told she could terminate r have her but that she wouldnt live beyond a few hrs. they decided to have her so went through 20 weeks knowing baby wouldnt survive , they only had her for a few hrs after and she passed. im tellin u this not to bring u more down but to let u know they went for counselling and asupport group for late loss and found it great. i know its scary and the first few sessions u would prob wonder why u r there but they stuck with it and got great benefit. it might help take away ur nightmares, xxxx
no wonder u r stressed if u cant sleep xxxxxxxxx
i wish i culd make it all better for u sweetie but only time and being good to urself can do that xxxx we r all our own harshest critic, be gentle with urself, u have been through a lot xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey ladies I'm at work with very little time to catch up but I have a question that's burning inside me lol !!! My fertility friend is showing that I o'd on Saturday . However I have cramping in my lower left hip/ovary , actually hurts when I walk lol but today I have had s huge abundance of ewcm ??? Does that mean ovulation is roughly now or is this normal after o? Just want to know whether I did o on Saturday or whether my ff was wrong ? It's just I never have a whole lot of ewcm and tmi but it's literally really abundant down there not just inside , normally I have to get it on my fingers from around my cervix but this is literally on my outer bits down there ? Will catch up later but at work tryin to slyly use my phone lol please help girls hope u all okay xxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hi natasha it could be like the girls before maybe ur body tried to Ov first time but for whatever reason egg was nt released. maybe this is really Ov , i would BD like mad today, tomor and day after just in case xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

See I know this is going to sound horrible ... But I've fell out with Chris since Tuesday and currently not talking to him and I needed to know because if it's ov I need to make up with him even though I'm right so we can bd bit don't want to make up if I'm not o xxxx