ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Hehe thanks angel. Hope you're enjoying dh being home!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy dont get upset, youre not out til af gets you And i know what u mean, but if u think about it, even if we cover all our bases we still only have like that 1 in 4 chance of actually getting pg Which sounds horrible but, at least u know its not your fault when you covered all bases Keep calm, a baby is coming xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

its so quiet on here, HOW DARE U LADIES HAVE A LIFE OUTSIDE OF THIS FORUM hahaha! Sorry just talking to myself...XD

So tired, just waiting for x factor to come on, trying to resist the urge to waste my one and only frer on diluted clear tea infested pee xxx

 

[mommylov]

Lol don't do it Natasha!!

I'm just really trying to get out of my funk. I told dh I want to make an appointment for a fertilty clinic and he said "we still don't even know if we are pregnant".

 

[TTCSecrets]

Lol! Im not even entertaining my frer, ive locked it in my car and given DH the keys lol! And when he gets up early tomorrow and goes work i wont be able to give in lol!

Awww when are you testing again? xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Lol that's sounds like a good plan. I have been using my cheapies and have been testing every day since 8dpo I tested this morning and still bfn. Af is due to arrive on Halloween or the day before so if I don't get a + by then, then I'm going to look into getting checked out to see if something went wrong with my d&c. I got pg on the first try before that so it really is scaring me that I'm not falling

 

[lilesMom]

amy that really good web site , cant remember the name that we were talking about before says u only may get bfp from 2 days before af, it says not to test before then and not to get down hearted cos at 12 dpo its not a def bfn , cos its too early, xxxxx so if 12 dpo is too early then 10 dpo def is, love u, still keeping fx hard for u xxxx

natasha well done on not poas i know it is so hard to hold off, keep strong xxx well done , i woudl so love a big rash of bfps this month xxxxxxxxxxxxx

angel hon, happy bd . hope the storm bypasses ye, but if it comes ur way i hope its mild and ye can pass the time bding xxxxxxxxxxx
what eactly is storm prep? do ye need to bring everything inside and tie stuff down?
hope ye be ok sweetie, kup cos we be worried about ye. xx

u too jen , hope ye be right as rain xxxxxxxxxxxx
hope ur feeling better, sorry ur sick xxxxxxxxxxx
have agood rest now chick, u and bub need it xxxxxxxxx

bethany we miss u xxxxxxx i knwo im like a broken record but come back !!!!
i hope u havent moved to storm country too xxxx

horsey where u at chick? xxx

jessica hope alls well with u xxxxxx

oh and jen the hb rate was 164, she said was good and strong, it was way nicer scan place cos was private , i watched it all on a massive telly at my feet
was so nice to see i feel way better now about it all, im beyond where i had trouble with lile and i now feel like a normal preg person,
i wish they had told me properly last time, or my doc had told me this time about last time. lile was most likely blighted ovum cos the sac was empty last time , i would have felt so much better after my forst scan if i had realised that. it was only in talking to OH that i realsied it cos he can see the screens all the time, in the hosp i cant.
so anyway, rambling , I am now a much happier mama
ye all be with me soon honeys , xxxxxxxxxxx
loads of xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

So so so glad to hear great news about your scan!

Thanks for the info... I know the last time I got pg I didn't get my bfp until the day af was due but at the same timely body isn't running like it was before so I don't know what to think. Was really hoping to get some promising symptoms or something to tell me my bfp is coming. Thank you girls for being so encouraging. I really hate being like this, so pessimistic but my heart is just really aching and I don't feel like anyone else would understand.

 

[lilesMom]

oh amy i do understand hon, i was so gutted when iw astold id have to wait over my liver, it felt like alife time xxxxxxxx u will be with us soon cos u r too nice and will make a great mommy xxxxx plus ur obvs very fertile after having proved that last time xxxxxx xxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Aww you are a sweetheart. You have been one of my motivations. To see what you have been through and now are expecting is just so wonderful. I just really fear that something happened after the mc... Like my body isn't the same as it was before. It terrifies me it's funny how we never notice things with our bodies and now that we are ttc, every flutter and ache and twinge gets our hearts racing in hopes that it s pregnancy related.

 

[lilesMom]

i know hon if people in my life actually knew the percentage of my day i spend obsessing about bub they would be gob smacked, im surprised i can hold conversations sometimes its all consuming isnt it i wasnt this bad at all last time, its totally normal with all we been through. it heightens the good and the bad of ttc and preg i think xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

oh and ps , we all think that, that our bodies arent the same, it does throw hormones out and timings off for a bit but with opks and tracking we can take care of that. i am of the school of thought that thinks it actually readies our bodies for a good preg. we r startin out with clear wombs, good thick lining cos it seems to bring our cycles to more like what they were when younger. ( not that we r old xxx) and our bodies know what to do to get preg so its easier for it. xxxx oohh i cant wait for ur bfp sweetie xxxxxx
also this is way tmi and too graphic but i wonder if birth will be easier cos of it too. hope this doesnt offend anyone or upset anyone, but if we have been dialated before will it make birth easier? xxx

 

[lilesMom]

i gotta go to bed, my eye lids and head r drooping. xx
hope u r ok amy xxxx chat soon x

 

[mommylov]

oh and ps , we all think that, that our bodies arent the same, it does throw hormones out and timings off for a bit but with opks and tracking we can take care of that. i am of the school of thought that thinks it actually readies our bodies for a good preg. we r startin out with clear wombs, good thick lining cos it seems to bring our cycles to more like what they were when younger. ( not that we r old xxx) and our bodies know what to do to get preg so its easier for it. xxxx oohh i cant wait for ur bfp sweetie xxxxxx
also this is way tmi and too graphic but i wonder if birth will be easier cos of it too. hope this doesnt offend anyone or upset anyone, but if we have been dialated before will it make birth easier? xxx

You know I never thought of that regarding birth but maybe! That's for the great words of advice... You all are the best!

Sweet dreams Laura!

 

[jen435]

Amy you ovulated late like I did hang in there sweety! I was late on AF by 3 days before I got my bfp. Its coming sweety I am praying! Try to stay strong I really pray that you will have some anwsers if that witch shows her ugly face please call your ob and try to get a scan to be reassured that your ovaries and fallopian tubes are okay. Is this your second real cycle after d&c? I know my obgyn said that it takes 3 real cycles to get regulated so dont get discouraged your BFP will come! I know how hard the wait is sweety and we are here for you! I hope you cheer up!

Natasha very strong will power! Praying for that BFP sweety!

Angel oh yay about DH!! So glad I was able to let you know about Frankenstorm!! Darn Sandy Hurricane and the Winter storm hitting the East Coast!! We could be out of power for a week So not looking forward to this but we have our generator for our subpump thank god! We havent ever used it though so we pray it works. I am not looking forward to having a crazy house either. My SIL never prepares for these storms and always losses her power so I know my nephews BIL and SIL will be spending a few days here... Gag me! I love them but with my headaches it will not be fun! I did all the laundry and cleaned the entire house today!! How is that for not feeling well! I feel like I finally did something. Water check flashlights check batteries check canned vegs check nutrigrain bars check snacks for DH check blankets all washed and ready check what am i missing??? We will have no heat I wish we had a kerosene heater or wood stove but we dont. Angel what were your preperations? Are you ready? What am I missing?? I hope this storm will be a fluke but its aiming right at NJ and over all of PA and its saying LIKELY for power outtages for days... Really not looking forward to this! Id rather have alone time with my pup and my DH but my sil will have nothing for her kids and cant have the kids suffer. Trav likes the craziness.... Im done. Hope your okay and ready Angel!! Also tons of babydust your way!!! Did you ovulate yet???


Laura oh yay!!! We are both 9 weeks!! I am soo excited for you!! Sounds like we will be having boys!!! My obgyn said that heartbeat at this gestational age is usually a boy!! YAY for healthy babys!!! Im so sorry Lile was a blunted ovum but she is a sweet angel watching over her little sibling (probably brother)!!! Im so glad you had a private scan and have some peice of mind! Your baby must be getting big too!! The tech goes wow i cant beleive how fast your baby grew in 8 days! I just smiled! Nov 5th is tooooo far away! How are you feeling?

So barbituates/antinausea meds/antibiotics i feel like a terrible mommy. But im keeping down vitamin water only orange flavor though! I think perhaps the B6 in it has something to do with it. My DH brought home Aquafina and I got excited! I tried to drink a bottle up it came. GRRR! All well my vitamin water and I are friends for now! Baby also likes Reeses and Almond Joys okay im guilty as charged eatting the trick or treaters candy! Poor kids. Anyone doing anything for halloween?

Jessica thank you! Thats so sweet your DD still gettings compliments! I feel its important for a child to have a positive self of steam as long as it doesnt get to their head the wrong way that is! Do you celebrate halloweeen is so what will she be?

 

[jen435]

Laura you raise a good point! I wondered that also! I was in my second trimester when i was dialated. My obgyn said that i could deliver before my EDD because of my d&c I also read that in the What to Expect book. Easier delivery would be so nice after all we been through and are still going through! I wish an easy delivery for EVERYONE of you ladies!!! But first lets get some more BFPS on this thread! I pray daily for that to happen.

 

[mommylov]

Thanks Jen, this is actually my third cycle. We waited for me to have one cycle before we started trying. I know Laura got her bfp on 10dpo, since you o late, when did you get yours? I just deal so defeated

 

[jen435]

hugs amy! i am sorry the tww is terrible. cycle 4 was the cycle i had my bfp. i tried right after d&c. so i know what your going threw sweety. i hope this is it for you but dont throw in the towel just yet. i didnt get my bfp til 15dpo. from my positive. so dont give up!

 

[jen435]

i just realized that laura and i had d&c close together! perhaps 4 cycles is the luckiest one? idk please dont lose faith!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Thanks Jen, this is actually my third cycle. We waited for me to have one cycle before we started trying. I know Laura got her bfp on 10dpo, since you o late, when did you get yours? I just deal so defeated

I'm on the same cycle as you Amy. I am trying not to feel defeated but its hard. I am sure you have no fertility problems, plus you are not out of the woods yet, it is still early on. So tired ,got home a little while ago from Halloween shopping for my little girl, the one on my avatar. The stores are so jammed and it was just so stressful, especially because I feel like I have horrible pms, which means that I am probably out this cycle too . Oh, well there is always next cycle. Oh and btw, I don't feel pregnant at all.