First off, I am so sorry for your loss! I found out on June 17 (Father's Day) that my boyfriend and I were expecting for the first time! We were both so excited, and my boyfriend started buying baby books for us to read. The first few days after I found out, I started to spot and cramp a little, and this concerned the doctor and she wanted to see me almost twice a week to test my levels and make sure everything was ok. Around 7.5 weeks, my doctor had me start taking prometrium because my progestrone level was falling a little bit, but my ultrasound revealed a healthy baby and heartbeat. At 9 weeks, my boyfriend and I had intercourse, and I started bleeding bright red. I went in for a check up and everything was ok. My doctor explained the cervix is thin and more sensitive so to take it easy, but the ultrasound still revealed a healthy heartbeat. At my 12 week appt, we found out I had a MMC and lost the baby.
5 days later, I had a D&C. I didn't have much bleeding, and was not in that much pain either. While it was probably the hardest thing I have ever had to go through, I need to keep moving on. My boyfriend and I waited 2 cycles, and we have started trying again. This month I have started tracking my BBT in hopes to get a better idea of when I ovulate. I hope eveything turns out well for you, and remember you are not alone!