ttc after a d&c

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Hope that everyone survives the food coma!

 

[Angel wings13]

I posted here awhile back...
I thither I would ovulate last week, but nope. When I got first AF after mc, on nov 2nd, I thought I would return to my 28/29 day cycles...

But nope.

FF predicted my "o" on turkey day, my fiance and I dtd at 230 am on turkey day....
IF ff is correct, I have a good feeling. But if I o'd last week, I don't have a good feeling..

I'm so confused...so lost...

 

[TTCSecrets]

Angel wings, you are on the same cycle as me , 2nd november , this is my fourth after d and c, but they are far from regular, i had a 26 day cycle, then a 25 then a 31, and now this one seems even longer, ff is telling me i o'd on cd8 but im prety sure i havent od yet ( or its today cos of the ov pains and ewcm ) hope youre okay xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Just popped in to say hi to you ladies!

As usual I am exhausted from the early hours...sales seem to be never ending. I am a bit worried that the lack of sleep and go, go, go is delaying ovulation...still no +ve OPK I suppose it's alright since DH and I have not had a moment alone.

I'll catch up here shortly...heading home tomorrow (I miss my bed!) xoxo

PS Laura ~ So happy your scan went well! If you can...post pictures!

 

[Storked]

Sorry Angel Wings, it can take months and months before things are normal. I miscarried in May and am still not regular.

Angel, the exhaustion must be circulating! I slept for nearly 12 hours. Whew. I hope you get those + OPKs! So are you shopping? Good luck tell me what you score

 

[mommylov]

Tash we'll miss you!!

Laura, so glad the scan went well!

Jen, how are you holding up?

Bethany, miss you mad!

Jess, how are you Hun? Did the spotting let up?

Horsey, hi!

Angel, hope you and dh get a moment alone. I thought of you last night/this morning. So my friends hubby wanted to experience Black Friday and we found out that one of he stores here was having a great sale on dysons (vacuums) so we got one at a steal! I'm so excited about my new vacuum! Lol

Anyone else I missed, hi! Hope everyone had a wonderful thanksgiving. I'm so tired from shopping last night and might be going out again now for those stores that are opening later (what am I thinking). As for my bleeding, it completely stopped a couple of days ago so now just waiting for af to come one more time and hopefully we can then start testing.

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys.
amy im so happy its stopped for u hon, hope af comes soon for u xxxxxx
mean time look after urself really well honey xxxxxxxxxxx

tash we wil miss u. xxxx
im goin back to work mon week so i wont be on as much either but i willl be here xxxxx

jen , hope ur sickness is easing, i stil have mine but its changed a bit again , its just indegestion and heartburn now, not as much nausea, its abit easier this way, hoping its ont he way out. hope ur well xxxxxxxxx

angel dont wear urself out in the sales xxxxxxxx

jess hope ur good honey xxxxxx

bethany, hope ur all good after ur rest now xxxxxxxxxxxxx

angel wings sorry for u r loss hon xx its normal for cycles to be all over hte place after a loss for months hon, not nice but is normal xxxxxxxxxx

horsey and lamb hi chicks xxxxxxxxx

hope i havent missed anyone and hope all is well xxxx

 

[Storked]

Amy, a dyson! That IS exciting
Hurray for bleeding stopping

Laura, aw are you sad to be going back to work?

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys ,

bethany im glad to be goin back to work it means im just a normal person again, in so far as i am now classed as a normal preg. with no complications (kind of, bar liver which is much better than it was )
im goin back to work mon week, but doc gave me a new letter saying i will be back to work for 3 days a week for a few weeks and then 4 days a week for a few weeks and then review the situation. i have yet to hear back from work cos i only posted it today if that doesnt do um , then i wont be goin back , but it should be fine id say i dont mind now anyway , i want to go back but if they dont want me on those terms then maybe im not meant to go back
i have a friends bday party tonight and an angel course on sunday , yey
lovely weekend


have to tell ye girls im so proud of me
ive been eatin way less (but still enough ) and walking every day.
i got my most recent liver test back in hosp on thurs too.
i had 4 different levels of liver tests elevated before , 2 are now within normal range, one is only 7 above and it had been 200 above and other one is still high ish but has come down by 150 , which is major hurray. happy laura super healthy liver here i come ha ha

hope all is well with ye xxxxxxxxxxxx

hi to all,
to all and
to all xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

I posted here awhile back...
I thither I would ovulate last week, but nope. When I got first AF after mc, on nov 2nd, I thought I would return to my 28/29 day cycles...

But nope.

FF predicted my "o" on turkey day, my fiance and I dtd at 230 am on turkey day....
IF ff is correct, I have a good feeling. But if I o'd last week, I don't have a good feeling..

I'm so confused...so lost...

hi babe sorry i didnt answer u very well yest, i was wrecked tired xxxxxx
sorry for ur loss hon, but it is normal for cycles to be all over hte place for a long time xxxxxx
i waited 5.5 weeks for my first af after d and c , my second one was a few days late and my third was on time but the af its self was differnet to before. xxx i would have always been 28 days too befor eso it is frustrating when u dont go right back ot normal, but ur body does readjust and come back to norm hon xxx
have u ever heard of smep? if u goolge it , u will see how to do it but lots of people swear by it i kind of did my own version of it without using opks
its more important to bd before Ov to give sperm a head start but try and bd a few times around Ov if u can xxxxxxxxx any time around Ov is enought o get u preg if luck is on ur side xxx
i found out i was preg within 12 days of starting to try this time
i waited 3 cycles cos i had liver issues at first xx
best of luck hon, i hope u get ut lovely bfp this month but dont be hard on urself if it doesnt happen xxxxxx it will happen once ur body is ready xxxxxxxx
did u get preg fast last time? it could possibly give u an indicaiton for this time but no guarantee xxxxxxxxx
fx for u hon xxxx
if u have any qs post here again babe, we r all in the same boat and after going through the same loss xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

hey again billion posts mc is back again
just wanna say thanks for puttin up with whingy worried me for a while xxxxxxxx
normal me is back now and back to stay i hope xxxxxxxxxxx

love to all xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

hey girls! i hope you are all okay?!
Bethany - Glad to see you back !! Hope all is well!
Laura - Glad you are feeling less worried and more positive yay happy Laura!
Jess - How are things going with you ? All good i hope!
Ames - So so so glad your bleeding has finally stopped!! Not long now til AF comes and you can start again and get testing!!
Horsey - Not seen you post for a while hope youre doing okay
Jen - How are u sweetie? Still going well? I hope so!!

Anyone else ive missed? Got a delicate brain today!! Hope youre okay

Well i let my defence down last night and decided that since i need to stop focussing everything on baby making, i decided last minute to have a gathering/party at mine last night, me chris, a few friends and my best friend all had a little tipple of alcohol! Obviously i didnt get too drunk i was just merry but got a headache this morning but not hung over in the slightest! Actually feel alot better than i have done for a while, i feel like my head is clear and im not obsessing over baby making!

( plus i wont lie, the tipsy baby dancing last night was both great and fun, which makes a nice change )

So im just catching up on the tele programs i missed last night, and getting the cleaning done...

Hope youre all okay xxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

sound like a nice nt tash x

 

[TTCSecrets]

Okay girls... So im gonna blow up, and implode.. Im so fucking angry, excuse my french girls, but i really am fuming...

You all remember me telling you about my cousin who was dating a married man? And then he left his wife for her, and then all of a sudden they were trying for a baby? And then all of a sudden he goes back to his wife? Well.. Update... Ill give you some background info first...

So my cousin quit smoking 11 days ago, which i think is brilliant, because she was a very heavy smoker.. I thought nothing of it.... Her statuss on facebook all week have been about how tired and sick she feels.. I thought nothing of it.... I saw her in ASDA the other day being quite shady and acted like she wanted to get away from me as soon as possible... I thought maybe she was in a rush...

My sister came round today and said.. Look Tash... I found something out a few days ago, and i didnt want to tell you because its gonna upset you, but i cant keep it from you so id rather tell you than you find out from someone else....

Sammie's pregnant... ( cousin )

Im in shock.... And ive text Sammie acting daft and not mentioning it, having a normal convo..
And her last text was, oh have you had AF yet? ANd i was like yeah just waiting to ovulate...

And she has text back saying a load of stuff that didnt make any sense in regards to asking me about AF.. And then she has text me saying, " Well the problem is...." And ive just text a question mark back.. And shes just replied saying she is pregnant...

Now... Either way im pissed off...

Shes either telling the truth, in which i am so fucking pissed off ( again excuse my language ) ... And i feel like slapping her in the face..

Or shes lying because her ex has gone back to his wife and she wants to stir up shit for him... So if shes lying, she will get a slap in the face, you just dont do that, you do NOT ly about being pregnant because then you have to fake a miscarriage...

Girls i swear to god i dont know whether to cry, scream, shout or just punch something, Please girls come online i cant cope xxxx

P.s Sorry for such long post xxx

 

[Storked]

Laura, so glad that all is well

Natasha, I am cheering you on! You deserve a good time. A stress-free time

Love you girls!

I finally froze my leftover turkey before I could eat it all and my husband is leaving on Monday so I won't have to cook anything. Oh the freedom!

 

[Storked]

Whoa Natasha, I am so sorry honey!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Home sweet home!

Jen ~ Hope you are well and you have had a good Thanksgiving. Fx the insurance has come through for you! (hope I didn't miss an update on this)

Laura ~ An angels class...cannot wait to hear about it! Also so glad the Dr has you starting back to work slowly! No need to over due it!

Bethany ~ You're back! I felt as stuffed as the turkey this year! The sales were AMAZING! 32" TV's for $97, laptops for $176, XBox for $150, Step2 Toddler Roller Coaster $67, mini Crockpots $3, large crockpot $10....just to name a few of the items on my sister's list! The chaos was in full force, but my sister and I survived the retail trenches!

Amy ~ Your flow stopped! Now to bring on AF for one last time! Fx. hope your shopping excursions were fun!

Tash ~ These past few days have been tough on you. Your cousin...I have a few choice words for her! She is trying to play the baby-trap game with that married man and I vote the slap in the face is warranted on sooooo many levels! I hope you are ok. And about you taking a break from the forum...we'll be here waiting for those moments you need us! Hurry back though! And fx your temps keep rising...perhaps you've O'ed late!

Jess & Horsey ~ Hope you ladies are well! xoxo

Angel Wings ~ I am so sorry for your loss. Getting back on track with AF has been a thorn in my side since my D&C. Fx yours straightens out quickly!

and To all of you!

AFM ~ I think I am broken. Really...still no +ve OPK DH looked over my OPKs this morning and hugged me. They are faint, haven't even started to get darker...If my sister gets a second she'll ask the Dr tonight if an HSG can either delay ovulation or cause an annovulatory cycle. DH wants me to call my Dr, I said if still not +ve I'll call Monday...I think he forgot its only Saturday! He has been super sweet...he said we had to BD today just in case it's a "stealth egg" trying to fly in under the radar. Praying a good night's rest in my own bed brings on my LH surge.

I've missed you ladies! Hope this finds you all doing well!

 

[Storked]

Angel, holy wow those were great deals! The only thing we got we picked up while shopping for FR clothing for DH a game chair for $30. The cat got DH's old chair and is currently sleeping in it. Too cute!
Do the OPKs normally turn positive for you? Don't lose heart, you may just have a quick surge this time maybe tell us what you hear back though if your sis or you asks a doc! you girl!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thanks Bethany. A short surge that I missed would be equally as bad though since DH and I didn't BD while we were gone. The plan was to get a hotel once I saw a +ve OPK (since ttc I have had a +ve every month)...no +ve meant no need for hotel. I just poas again and it looks darker...maybe tomorrow it will be +ve

Nice catch on the game chair! How sweet is kitty to have taken over the other one! Now they can play together.

 

[Storked]

Yikes Angel! Fingers crossed that the surge happens tomorrow!!

As for the chair, it is kind of wasted on DH since he isn't really a gamer hehe. The only "game" that he plays is all code. It is hard to explain and very weird/nerdy. I consider it very close to D&D lol!