ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

bd is baby dance and im not sure on df we posted at same time i think

Ohhh heheh got it! Thanks!

Yes, bath times are the best!!!

 

[lilesMom]

 

[mommylov]

dear fiance' xo

mommylov, i would totally want to go together

Ahhhhh, ok! Thats 2 new wrinkles I got in my brain today! hhehe

 

[mommylov]

argh u beat me i jsut checkin abrev page for it

rofl!

 

[Storked]

Hey Amy! Tonight's menu was Mac n cheese. Tasty next time I make it I think I will stir in some basil pesto as top with breadcrumbs...sounds good!
Horseypants, I hope DF gets over it and sperm meets egg!
Well girls, my hubby heard back from Thailand...and they are considering him! Feeling VERY hopeful and actually I need to go and change my passport to reflect my new surname. Which will be a huge pain. Anyone know where they sell Tyvec (sp?) envelopes?

 

[jen435]

Bethany sounds yummy! Dh was on his own for dinner tonight had a very long day at work. Fingers crossed on your dh job!!! Hopefully you'll move soon so you'll be ttc in no time.
Laura so glad to hear some good news!!! Still praying for other two tests to be normal and I'm sooo glad your feeling well again! Sorry dh works so late but glad your getting your cuddles!
Horseypants I must agree with Amy. when you are ready it will happen but I still hope dh gets romantic and you conceive your LO. Everything will be okay this time. I have faith. hope you enjoy your alone time maybe dh will come home in a good mood ready to try
Amy hope you enjoy your night also!
My mind is mush I can't remember anything 12 hrs of hygiene really took it out of me today but my patients where quite the character
Hopefully I'll well tonight.

 

[Storked]

HI Jen! *waves merrily*

 

[horseypants]

jen thanks so much - that was everything i wanted to hear. hugs everyone.

i was googling things and came accross this book review and all the comments were women having trouble ttc - it got my goat and i've been questioning everything this evening. wanna read it?

i'll say again, i had a mixed reaction to it. it was illuminating to read the comments and i felt less alone. i wanted my mom to read it and finally understand the pain i've been feeling - but then again, erading the comments made me feel even more in a rush! AND these women have no had mcs for the most part.... there's a bit of a push and pull over similar but different pain and worries.

anyway, it is a book review, so the book might be good. but again, it seems to be it's best for someone who's had jsut one very early loss at most. it doesnt seem that the author is particualrly sensitive to mc - and it's for the audience who's been trying with no bpf and no losses.

i wish there were good books about miscarriage. maybe i should write one, but i'm really too deep in it. it is hard to have perspective. that's why i rely on hearing what's happening with you all to keep me afloat. you know you all have good heads on your shoulders. there's a nice vibe on this thread. ...about to get caught at work be back tmrw
https://jezebel.com/5902610/theres-now-a-pregnancy-how+to-guide-for-type-a-overachievers

 

[Storked]

What book Horseypants? I'm currently reading Coming to Term by Jon Cohen and am really liking it so far! Do you have a goodreads account? This is a great thread

 

[Storked]

Oh and I mean that I like it as far as miscarriage books go. Quite good!

 

[mommylov]

Horseypants... I know things are going to get better for us all!! From the sounds of it, this book doesn't sound like something you are looking for in that like you said... It is written for a different audience. There have been a few times I have struggled with my loss and you gals really made me feel so comforted. Just know that you are not alone sweets and we are here for you.... For everyone. You'll make it through... Take this time to really enjoy time with dh and friends and family and if you ever feel like you need a *cyber hug*, I'm sure many of us can and would love to provide them! *chin up*

 

[mommylov]

Hey Amy! Tonight's menu was Mac n cheese. Tasty next time I make it I think I will stir in some basil pesto as top with breadcrumbs...sounds good!
Horseypants, I hope DF gets over it and sperm meets egg!
Well girls, my hubby heard back from Thailand...and they are considering him! Feeling VERY hopeful and actually I need to go and change my passport to reflect my new surname. Which will be a huge pain. Anyone know where they sell Tyvec (sp?) envelopes?

Yummy!!!! Fx deary!!

 

[horseypants]

Thanks for the recommendation storked. I have no goodreads account. Should i? Congrats on the possible thailand move. So exciting! Thanks much mommylov. Can u guys believe the thing I forgot on that post before quickly signing off was the link!!
It was on the clipboard at work too, and I had that feeling like there was something I'd forgotten. Here it is! https://jezebel.com/5902610/theres-now-a-pregnancy-how+to-guide-for-type-a-overachievers

 

[Storked]

Nah I was just asking of you had one and then I'd friend you and you could see my final review of the book when I finish it oh and there is another that I am expecting in the mail called To Full Term: a Mother's Triumph Over Miscarriage by...Darci Klein I believe. It had great reviews on amazon. I read another miscarriage book but it was more religious and I think was meant to reassure about how you'd see your baby in Heaven than the scienctific reassurances of: will this happen again? What can I do to decrease the odds? Etc
Yeah I really, really hope he gets the job!
I will check out the link!

 

[Storked]

Wow it has great reviews on amazon
Btw, I love reading the comments on Jezebel! Do you read Gawker too?

 

[jen435]

Im not much of a reader atm except for all the charts at work. Though id like to start reading shades of gray everyone keeps raving about it. Im glad you ladies have hbbies to help with the healing procesd. my puppy and i are laying in bed still he is just tooo cute! Dh went to work and im having a friend over for the night since we are heading to beach for the day tom. Hoping dh and i can manage to dtd tonite since its almost 42hrs now! We decided to try between every 24-42 hrs this cycle. Most importantly make it fun. I really hope we stick to it and it works. Kinda concerned though since our timing is like midnight and 1am! Really hoing that doesnt affect us! Id really love my bday gift in may to be a LO praying sooo hard it happens.

How are you ladies today?

 

[Storked]

Furbabies help
I find comfort sometimes and sometimes I just get down. Hard not to when you wake up and think "I should be this many weeks" or a friend posts a picture of their bump. But I to stay positive. Not always successful though. I was in a huge rut about 2 weeks ago :/

 

[Storked]

Oh and today I am just hanging out with spouse and kitty! How are you?

 

[mommylov]

Yes, I love my two boys (kitties). They can drive you crazy but can love you like crazy too!!! There is a girl I work with that read 50 shades and didnt care for it so it kind of put me off to reading it. The beach sounds like fun!!!

Fx Jen!!! Hope you guys have some great lovin time! Hehe

Sorry to hear you were in a rut Bethany but glad things are better!!

 

[Storked]

My kitty is a boy and he I just so affectionate! He loves to nap with me or just sleep in my arms. He will pet me with his paws. I adore him so much. If we move overseas I will have to figure out how to bring him because I refuse to give him to relatives. He is my baby dangit.