ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

my friend took her dog to canada with her so it is doable , she had to pay a good bit for it though and have vet proof of all shots and stuff u sound like u r pretty sure ur goin, so exciting
i hear u on the rut, i have had a few of those myself lately all part and parcel of this yucky business me thinks, glad u r feeling better though chick xx

50 shades the first book is juicy and worth reading , the second and third book feel rushed and badly written, i had to read um cos too many people were on about um
they r just porn really with a bit of a story but nothing wrong with that hee hee.

horseypants i have considered writting something about miscarriage too, maybe we should get together to write a book, a chapter each, mc from differnet perspective.

i was working today and went to see ted in cinema on the way home with my sis, very funny and stupid my kitty meowed at me till he got food and then fecked off out the window , lovely welcome home he wil be very affectionate then when he comes back in to make up for it
jen that sounds like agood plan, fx for this tiem for u xxxxxxxx
hows cheryl, u still on here.
any news amy? xx

 

[horseypants]

horseypants i have considered writting something about miscarriage too, maybe we should get together to write a book, a chapter each, mc from differnet perspective.

Yes, lets xo. Open invitation... Anyone else in?

 

[Storked]

I suck at writing. Just a reader here
Don't want to sound too confident about the job because it isn't a sure thing lol! I will do whatever it takes to bring my sweet kitty boy. Love him

 

[mommylov]

I think the book wouldn't sell if you had me write in it lol but I would gladly purchase and read it!!! Xo

 

[mommylov]

No news for me but my hubby was mountain biking with a buddy and fell off his bike. Spent this morning in urgent care he was all scratched up last night but this morning he said both his knees were bothering him. Uc said he tore both acl's and right mcl. Gave him pain meds but he wasn't happy with that doc so we are going to another dr on Tuesday for a second opinion on what to do.

 

[Storked]

Oh no mommy! Prayers for recovery

 

[mommylov]

So it's been 3 weeks since my d&c and I stopped bleeding about a week and a half ago. I've been having light cramping like its af coming but I thought it was too early. I just went to the bathroom and I'm bleeding I passed a clot that had hard pieces. I'm scared to say if but it almost looked like tissue but with a little spine and limbs that werent squishy they were hard but I couldn't tell. So sorry for the details but I'm so confused because I had a d&c so I don't know what this was. I don't think you can pass a fibroid so I have no idea what to think. Kinda freaking out...

 

[Storked]

Yikes! Can you call tomorrow Amy?

 

[mommylov]

I think so but the clinic I go to is closed and they will probably send me to urgent care. My dr won't be available until Monday

 

[Storked]

Crap

 

[lilesMom]

oh amy poor u, it sounds like they missed some tissue, u poor girl, hope u feel better soon,. its prob the end of it now but it doesnt hurt to check it out just in case. have u stopped bleeding now after passing it?
sorry bout ur hubby too, god everything always seems ot come together . feck it.
hope ye better soon xxx

 

[lilesMom]

having a shitty nt too, i get pain sometimes that i think is from fibroids, its bad this eve and i cant take pain killers cos of my liver, boo hiss. peed off

 

[jen435]

Im so sorry for all the sadness and suffering you ladies are experiencing i am definately praying we can pull thru this become healthy and normalized and concieve our LOs. Amy how are you coping im so sorry to hear your d&c wasnt complete i hope your able to get through this and that your body can finally normalize so u can find peace laura im wishing you health so you and dh can finally have the comfort you need to move forward to ttc soon.bethany i wish you and dh an anwser on his job so you can continue to ttc and know if youll have to do anything for your kitty if your moving. Im wishing you all happiness and comfort to accept what has happened always remember but. The strength to move forward. Its very scary emotional but know we have eachother and can get through this together. Horseypants i hope youand dh are doing ok and that you are able to find comfort and some fun in your days. Im wishing u a bfp this cycle also. We are hete for you either way.

Samsmum and cheryl how are you?

Hope everyone is having a nice weekend! to all!

 

[jen435]

Amy im so sorry about dh. How is he? I hope he finds a doctor he trusts. i will keep him in my prayers that he heals.

Lots of prayers going out for you ladies! Im really hoping we can make this a lucky thread of good health and in time we all have our bfps!

 

[Storked]

Jen you are amazingly sweet and we all love you
I hope that you are doing well. Where are you at TTC-wise?

 

[jen435]

Aww bethany thank you but im just speaking from my heart. you ladies also and youve helpped me so much already!

I actually had a + two days in row on clearblue digital opk. Im really early in my cycle dont recall the day though not keepin count like i thought i would. My af was only a day of spotting so after a 49 day cycle im trying not to obsess so much and if it happens it happens. I have appt with obgyn towards end of month so guess ill see whats hapening then. Not sure i trust opk but it felt good to get somethong other then a negative. time will tell i guess.

 

[Storked]

Good luck Jen

 

[jen435]

Thank you im just taking it one day at a time. Nothing else to do still testing wiith opk but thinking of giving up. Ive been taking my temp daily and writin it on my cell when it changes... But i dont understand bbt just doing it to show my obgyn.

Lovely day of work ahead of me. Im becoming so lazy. Just want to stay home. How was everyones weekebd? Hope all is well!

 

[mommylov]

Thank you so so so much for the kind words ladies.... you gals are such a blessing ! After I freaked out for a little bit, I called my mom (Never to old to go to mommy I say lol). She told me that she really didnt think it was anything from my D&C and what I was describing isnt anything from my mc which thinking back I think she is right. She said that it was AF and that it was going to be different than my periods I had before I got pg since this would be my first cycle since the surgery. I did have period like cramping the day before and then only bled for 2 days and now Im fine and no bleeding. I have my fu ultrasound this wed so I guess I will confirm with my dr then . As for DH, he is doing better.. he is going to see a specialist tomorrow just to get a second opinion on everything and make sure that all is well. After I knew he was doing better, I scolded him for doing that jump on his bike like I have told him not to do in the past . He does mountain biking and falls enough on regular trails when he rides with his friends as it is and I always worried when I would ride with him and see him jump off of things just for fun. He goes on easier trails with me so I guess he gets bored and thats how he entertains himself . They werent big jumps but none the less not needed. I said "ride your bike like a normal person and stop trying to do stunts!!" ... MEN!... grrr So I think he learned his lesson and wont be doing that again lol!
Thanks again for your kind words... I truely love you wonderful gals!

Laura, so sorry you were having a rough night with your fibroids.... are you feeling any better today??

Bethany, Thanks doll for looking out for me! Any updates on Thailand?

Jen, thank you too dear... how are you doing?? Praying for you as well and hoping you get that you get some good news soon re opk!!! And I agree, I have to think that we got a good luck thread going on here!! I hear ya on feeling lazy too... as much as a nightmare the D&C was, Im not going to lie.. it was great being home for those 5 days and everyday I get up and take a shower I look at my pj's and just want to crawl back into them!

How's everyone else doing??

Im at my desk and am in need of some coffee so gonna go grab a cup...Hope everyone has a great day!!!

 

[Storked]

No updates on Thailand yet but hopefully good news soon! My husband is feeling hopeful
So the current miscarriage book that I am reading actually did talk about factor V Leiden (I have the mutated version) and how there has been success with aspirin and heparin. It made me wonder if I was doing enough to save my baby. If the lovenox was enough. My husband and I decided that next time we will do aspirin and heparin.