ttc after a d&c

[lilesMom]

thanks jen ur a pet xxxxxx
went to doc again today i be bankrupt but she gave me a letter to go for a scan and did a smear test so least im getting everything sorted at one time so i can hopefully have no problems sooon for ttc , im in a better mood now cos i feel like im gettin help and sorting it
fx for u jen, u deserve ur bfp , a positive opk is great, if u were gettin -ve and then got a pos then thats all systems go me thinks xxxxxxxxxxxxx

hi bethany how u doin chick? xxxxxxxx
known of it was ur fault chick , the docs should have told u what to do if u needed to be on them. hope it all goes well next time for us xxxx love ya lots x

ur never too old to go to momy amy mommy knows best mine does anyway hee hee. xxx glad its better now for u, yeah af can be weird after loss alright . hope ur scan goes well which im sure it will xxx
my OH has a dodgy knee for yrs from his raleigh bike he used to have , he was always messing around on his too, they r just just over grown boys really ha ha x

 

[horseypants]

liles mum, ive been thinking about our book. lets email eachother

mommylov, i am so sorry to hear about the biking accident and injury - oh dear!!!!!! hugs!

amy, the same thing happened to me sweety. please dont worry.

 

[Storked]

I love you Laura! How are you feeling lately?

 

[horseypants]

just got a positive opk but OH is making me sad. i got all dressed up to meet him for dinner and he'd rather go work out. he's leaving for an interview tomorrow and will be gone overnight too . i get so sad lately. if i were a baby, i wouldnt want to live inside of me, feeling what i'm feeling. whoah, right? im depressing sometimes.

 

[mommylov]

Bethany, I agree with Laura... it isnt your fault doll. Hang in there and keeping my fx for you babe. BIG to you... something good is coming your way!

Horseypants, so sorry dear... hugs to you! You arent depressing.. its totally understandable! You want to move on and try again so I would feel the same way. You will get your time with OH. I know when I get emotional sometimes, I have to stop DH in his tracks and voice my thougts and feelings to him. Sometimes men just dot get it and you have to draw it out for them to be like "Oh, I should probably be more sensitive to your feelings and listen more". Hang in there doll!

Laura, how ya feeling deary? Anymore news re the rest of your bloodwork results?

XOXO to everyone!

 

[Storked]

Thanks mommy! It is hard not to blame ourselves though isn't it? We worry about our babies.
How are you?

 

[Storked]

Oh and ladies...I should be moving overseas in a few months

 

[mommylov]

Thanks mommy! It is hard not to blame ourselves though isn't it? We worry about our babies.
How are you?

Oh and ladies...I should be moving overseas in a few months

Yes but please believe it is NOT your fault!!!!

CONGRATS!!!!!!!!!! How exciting!!!!! Have you looked into how you are going to take your kitty? Oh.. so excited for you guys!!!!

 

[Storked]

That I will! I believe I will just need to get a hold of the consulate and ask what must be done for kitty. And try to find out stuff for the airlines as to their regulations. I am so excited though
I try not to blame myself. Some days it is just hard isn't it? But we should moving when y baby was due. The Lord must have wanted me overseas. That is what I am telling myself.

 

[horseypants]

storked, i am stoked for you!!!!!!

 

[mommylov]

I definitley believe that. There are good days and bad days but really coming to terms with everything and knowing that you did everything you were suppose to is what you have to remind yourself. You are not alone in this either. We have all been there and will be your support.. thats what we are here for! I have always been a firm believer in everything happens for a reason and I think that your angel is watching down, guiding you and your hubby through this journey.

I can totally relate with having moments of saddness... DH and I bought a lot to build on in feb and moved into our new house on june 30th. My parents flew out and we had a priest come to the house that week to do a blessing ceremony. I was 8 weeks pg at that time. Well when I went in for my us on july 17th, thats when we saw the baby with no heartbeat and they told me that it measured only 8 weeks when I shouldve been 10 by then. I kept going back to that ceremony and thought why was my baby taken from us at that moment. It took me until a week or so after my D&C to understand that not only were we meant for a different path but that the baby couldve been developing wrong and the lord saved it from having a less than perfect life. This thursday will mark 4 weeks from my surgery. I think the pain will go away with time but the memory will forever be with us. We will all make it through this, stronger than ever. Again, just know you are not alone and we are here for you doll!!!

XOXO

 

[lilesMom]

horseypants being down is normal and i agree with amy , guys need to be told straight but nicely , subtle is wasted on any one with 3 legs hee hee

bethany that is great, u willl love it. u def be able to take kitty cat with u, thats great it is good to have something to occupy u in positive way arounf due date too xxxxxxxxx if im not ttc by then im gonna organise a different distraction xx

amy how u doin? no news on tests yet, they r so slow.
ive been given a letter to go to hosp to get a scan though , so im gonna go there tomoro and try and wrangle ny way in fast

cheryl long itme no hear , how r u?
hey jen xxx
xxxxxxxxxxxx to all

 

[lilesMom]

amy we posted at same time again.
i feel ur pain chick , some days r def better than other, 24th may was my erpc and i do feel much more able to deal with it than i did, i have made a certain peace with it but i do have my days when i think god is being an ass to me but obvs i dont know the reasoning behind it all yet and have to trust its for the better xxxxxxx big hugs to all my girlies xxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

i must go paly with my fave smallies, aka my niece and nephew, il be back later xxx

 

[mommylov]

amy we posted at same time again.
i feel ur pain chick , some days r def better than other, 24th may was my erpc and i do feel much more able to deal with it than i did, i have made a certain peace with it but i do have my days when i think god is being an ass to me but obvs i dont know the reasoning behind it all yet and have to trust its for the better xxxxxxx big hugs to all my girlies xxxxxxx

heheh we do that a lot dont we?? heheh have fune playing with the kiddos!

 

[Storked]

Amy, you are very right! I had a blessing too and felt betrayed when I was diagnosed with a MMC. Now I feel like the Lord has other plans for me.
We will have our babies and we will appreciate them so much more because of the past.
Laura, what you got in mind? *waggles eyebrows*

 

[mommylov]

Amy, you are very right! I had a blessing too and felt betrayed when I was diagnosed with a MMC. Now I feel like the Lord has other plans for me.
We will have our babies and we will appreciate them so much more because of the past.
Laura, what you got in mind? *waggles eyebrows*

Im not the most religious person in the world but I am very spiritual. My parents are VERY religious. I still said that I dont regret having that blessing done and you are so right... we will have our babies and will be so happy!!! I cant wait until we get the next BFP here!

 

[Storked]

I'm not really religious either but my husband is doing his best to get me there Amy
My oldest sister describes herself as spiritual too

 

[lilesMom]

i believe in god, angels etc just not the organised whole church bit so prob spiritual as well me thinks
lovely saying as well is, dont cry cos its over, smile cos it happened xxxxxxxxxx

bethany u have a dirty mind , hee hee. my niece and nephew!!!! im shocked ha ha

 

[Storked]

Laura, I often shock people. Including my spouse LOL!