ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Thanks Jen!!! I hear ya on being scared and I know yiu don't want to be disappointed but I'm really praying for you and keeping me fingers crossed!!! Kup and let us know the second you pee on that stick! Ok maybe not that second as I'm sure you will want to share that with dh but you know what I mean no matter the outcome, we're here for ya dear

 

[lilesMom]

go jen fx chick, really hoping it happens for u sweetie xx
havent been on loads cos im a bit zombie like at d mo, kidney inf and antib s are killing my brain cells xxxxxxxxxxx to all x

 

[lilesMom]

aarons woman how u holdin up babe xx

 

[Storked]

Rest up Laura! How many more days of antibiotics do you have?

 

[lilesMom]

only on day 2 , i think day 2 always d worst, they only gave me 5 days, i usually get more but they r differnet ones and i think they r strong enough, im a bit wiped out anyway how u babe? x

 

[mommylov]

Feel better Laura... hope the next 3 days of AB goes better

Monday.... blah lol. I guess Ill grab some coffee and start my day

xoxo

 

[Storked]

What antibiotics are you on Laura?
Amy, I miss coffee. And tea. Mmmm. (sips a coke)

 

[mommylov]

Coffee/soda... Mmmmmmm hehe

When we ttc the last time, I stopped drinking it all about 2 weeks prior and went through caffine withdrawls... I dont even drink that much coffee and soda is rare too but I didnt want to go through that again so I have been trying to be good. I didnt even drink Sprite or anything when I was sick because I was so scared. Well, obv avoiding all that didnt work **sniffles** After the mc, I didnt have anything up until about 2 weeks ago. Had some Dr. Pepper... all I can say is OH-MY-YUM!!!! Dang... now I want a DR P lol.

 

[lilesMom]

bethany im on keflex, ( cefalexin), feelin bit better at this time, morn and nt r worse its alovely day here , its only about the 4th day all summer we havent had rain well technically its autumn but its nicer than summer was. every window in my house is open to blow away cobwebs
im not mad for fizzy drinks but i do drink tea and occasionally if im goin a bit mad i have pepsi max , ha ha

 

[mommylov]

nice breezes are wonderful, arent they? We are coming up on the end of summer.. kind of... and I too opened all my windows. It was nice and cold last night which is a great break from the heat we have had this summer. I wish I was at home lol

 

[lilesMom]

i wish we had some of ur good weather during d summer is home much different babe?

 

[mommylov]

better than work! I like my job and where I sit (I have a great view of the rockies from my desk) but dont care for a lot of the people. Plus Im one of the youngest ones here (Im 31 and everyone else is like 65+).. there are a few that are closer to my age.
But I would much rather be home with my boys (My two kitties)

 

[Storked]

I can't have tea or coffee because of my religion. Stinky!
I love rain! We finally got some here yesterday and it was very much needed. Hadn't rained in ages so ground was crunchy and cracked lol
Being home is awesome Amy. It can get boring but that is ok

 

[mommylov]

We had some rain as well but we too needed it and could use more! I hope we get lots of snow this year! Last year was nothing although I chalked it up to gods way of letting me get use to snow lol

I would be bored at home too... but hoping that I will have our little ones soon that will keep my busy. Im thinking Im going to stop working after our 2nd fx

 

[Storked]

Snow (shudders) just becomes ice here. I don't drive on ice lol
Hope you can stay at home with LO Amy

Am I a jerk for reacting badly when people make comments about how my life will change "when I have kids"? The people making these comments know I miscarried. Does that somehow not count as a child? Am I not a mother at all?

 

[mommylov]

Oh no, what was said??? I agree... I think life does change once you have a lo or 2 or 3 running around but to me it changes much sooner than that. It changes when your first get pg. I dont know about you, but my life is not the same now having gone through our mc. We are all mommies whether we have our lo's here with us or looking down on us from heaven. People that havent gone through it can sometimes be very ignorant and just dont get it.

 

[Storked]

Oh just two different people who both know of my loss have made comments like that. I didn't say anything mean but I was definitely angry. I think thoughtless comments like that run it into our faces that our babies aren't here with us.
Ok ok I am going to be more positive. Just needed to vent!

 

[jen435]

Amy where do you live? Sounds like our seasoms where the same this year. Dry hot.summer little rain our grass was dying and crunchy.... Then fall we had a day snow storm but it was the only snow for the year... Winter was mild. Wonder what itll be like this year. Im home today i work 2 1/2 days this week. Dh realize on my income to get by. We are praying he has a good christmas. Being a stay at home mom would he so rewarding. I hope you get to be one!

Laura i hope the antibiotic works and your feeling better. That antibiotic is very strong good thing youll be off it in three days. Any news on ur results? Have you heard of a cancellation to get ur test done faster?

 

[jen435]

Bethany hugs i can relate ppl say that to me all the time. Esp my sis in law and mom. Just wait til u have a kid i just want to strangle them. I think i had to make by far the hardest decision in choosing to terminate the pregnancy due to the baby going to be born a stillborn with serious complications. Ppl should be more considerate.

 

[Storked]

Absolutely Jen. How can they not know how mean it is to say such a thing to you? Isn't that just common sense?