ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Enjoy.ur movie and have fun shopping! Glad that baby was there he needed a reminder

 

[mommylov]

He says he wants a baby but wants to see what his dr says to be safe. I get that but there is never going to be a right time so idk. I think he will want to go for it come Tuesday fx. I have a 20 days pack.

 

[Storked]

Amy, fingers crossed!

Jen, no need for threader now
I am taking your long AF to be a good sign! Maybe you had a lovely thick lining eh?

 

[jen435]

Hmm nvr thoight of that hopefully!
Amy start cycle day 5.... First sight of blood even a drop.is cd 1. Is it the yes/no one???? Thats the one i used and got pregnant right away after 14monthes of trying. I know it works. Im using it this cycle too. So go for it dh doesnt need to know. It stresses my dh out when he knows im using stuff. He knows i buy em just doesnt know when i use em. Makes sure u take it at same time each day. It really works. Im cycle day 6 and used 2 sticks so far... Expect my yes next weekend either sat or sun.

Goodluck amy! Dh wanted it so much when you got the ok. What happened? Believe its the stress :/

 

[mommylov]

He just came in and talked to me. I starred crying and said I just felt defeated with everything from the mc to his knees. He reminded me that all of our ducks have fallen in place ...got married, made the move to co, bought a brand new suv ready for a family, built a house... He said that this too will come. He also said that he didn't want me to use the test this month because he wanted to see what happens with his dr apt and wants to make sure he can take care of me while pregnant but that doesn't mean that we can't still try after his apt. He said no opk test doesn't equal no trying, he just didn't want to water $50 incase we need it next month lol. Do I guess I feel better now and esp now knowing I'm not out this cycle just yet

 

[jen435]

Aww he makes sense and sounds so sweet! Youll be okay.amy you have a.good husband bfp is coming dont u worry your pretty little head! relax and enjoy ur first real cycle. Watch u may not even need it

 

[mommylov]

Thanks girls just having a moment today I guess. He is really sweet!

 

[Storked]

Yep Jen that rainbow will be here before you know it! Same for you Amy! And you DH sounds sweet

 

[aaronswoman79]

He just came in and talked to me. I starred crying and said I just felt defeated with everything from the mc to his knees. He reminded me that all of our ducks have fallen in place ...got married, made the move to co, bought a brand new suv ready for a family, built a house... He said that this too will come. He also said that he didn't want me to use the test this month because he wanted to see what happens with his dr apt and wants to make sure he can take care of me while pregnant but that doesn't mean that we can't still try after his apt. He said no opk test doesn't equal no trying, he just didn't want to water $50 incase we need it next month lol. Do I guess I feel better now and esp now knowing I'm not out this cycle just yet

Awww your husband sounds so sweet. He is really looking out for you and is really thinking about the future. He is actually hoping to be in the best of health to take care of you while pregnant! I think right now all of us are so anxious and ready to get pregnant right away, especially because all that we have been through, and sometimes we need our husbands to see the bigger picture! And they are just looking out for us. I know how you feel, I am just waiting anxiously for my cycle to return and sometimes I feel I just wanna get pregnant no matter what. I don't want to wait, and I know I need to wait until my body is pregnant to try again, but if I had my way I would have tried to get pregnant way too soon. So in comes my husband to tell me that we have to look into the future, and if I get pregnant too soon my body might not be ready, and we don't want to put me in danger for another miscarriage.
You husband sounds really responsible and just about ready to expand your family with you. God bless him.

 

[mommylov]

He just came in and talked to me. I starred crying and said I just felt defeated with everything from the mc to his knees. He reminded me that all of our ducks have fallen in place ...got married, made the move to co, bought a brand new suv ready for a family, built a house... He said that this too will come. He also said that he didn't want me to use the test this month because he wanted to see what happens with his dr apt and wants to make sure he can take care of me while pregnant but that doesn't mean that we can't still try after his apt. He said no opk test doesn't equal no trying, he just didn't want to water $50 incase we need it next month lol. Do I guess I feel better now and esp now knowing I'm not out this cycle just yet

Awww your husband sounds so sweet. He is really looking out for you and is really thinking about the future. He is actually hoping to be in the best of health to take care of you while pregnant! I think right now all of us are so anxious and ready to get pregnant right away, especially because all that we have been through, and sometimes we need our husbands to see the bigger picture! And they are just looking out for us. I know how you feel, I am just waiting anxiously for my cycle to return and sometimes I feel I just wanna get pregnant no matter what. I don't want to wait, and I know I need to wait until my body is pregnant to try again, but if I had my way I would have tried to get pregnant way too soon. So in comes my husband to tell me that we have to look into the future, and if I get pregnant too soon my body might not be ready, and we don't want to put me in danger for another miscarriage.
You husband sounds really responsible and just about ready to expand your family with you. God bless him.

You girls are right. When he came in to talk to me I starrted breaking down and crying and explained to him how I felt. I told him that its not so much that im in a rush because of my age, but because of my age I feel like there is a smaller window. We talked about having the first one and then taking a year or do before the next do that we aren't overloaded and can enjoy both kids but now I feel like we have to have them back to back to more we wait. Im scared to have kids after 35 and I will be 32 on the 17th. It's hard for them to understand sometimes but I gotta give him credit because he does try. After the mc I did tell him that I wanted to wait atleast one cycle just to make sure my body had a chance to rest. It's hard when a really good friend of mine went through the same thing this year and is now pg and due in jan have me hope. I was due in feb so seeing her posts on fb and all just reminds me that our kids won't be a month apart. Her and I are 3 months apart and our parents have been friends since before we were born so it would've been cool. She even told me "so what if they are now going to be 6 months apart?? They are still going to be as close as we are ". I know we will all get our rainbow babies and I'm do glad we are doing this together. I just have to stop and remind myself of all the blessings I have, which includes you girls. Thank you so much for talking me off the ledge once again.

 

[jen435]

Hugs amy i know what you mean. My friend and i were three monthes apart too. And she just had her baby boy. Im so jealous and resentful towards her. She wasnt tryin and when she foind out i was tryin for 11monthes she fell pregnant right away. As for me 3monthes later bfp came. She.posts picks on fb and i cant help but be upset not at her but just that her son is healthy and mine wasnt and because of my sons poor.heart.and.organs i had to terminate his life. Right after my loss i found out my other friend got pregnant she is a reminder of when i lost liam and her baby is due.in feb thats the.month i found out i was pregnant and her babys due on the same date as my bfp. So i understand how.hard it is.

Amy im glad your husband is.strong and thinking of you in every step of the.way. Our rainbow.babys.are coming!!!

 

[mommylov]

Hugs amy i know what you mean. My friend and i were three monthes apart too. And she just had her baby boy. Im so jealous and resentful towards her. She wasnt tryin and when she foind out i was tryin for 11monthes she fell pregnant right away. As for me 3monthes later bfp came. She.posts picks on fb and i cant help but be upset not at her but just that her son is healthy and mine wasnt and because of my sons poor.heart.and.organs i had to terminate his life. Right after my loss i found out my other friend got pregnant she is a reminder of when i lost liam and her baby is due.in feb thats the.month i found out i was pregnant and her babys due on the same date as my bfp. So i understand how.hard it is.

Amy im glad your husband is.strong and thinking of you in every step of the.way. Our rainbow.babys.are coming!!!

to you too Jen. It is so hard to be happy esp for those that were pg when we were and now have thier healthy babies or soon will isnt it?? My friend that I was talking about who is due in Jan.. she mc in jan of this year and her sister in law was pg at the time so she went through this too. She is now going to be giving birth exactly a year later. I too think we are all due for our bfp!!!

Bad af cramps today and more bleeding... oh how I didnt miss her the past few months when I was pg.

 

[mommylov]

Oh... Daily dose of to you girls today!

 

[mommylov]

Turns out af is in FULL affect now for me. I read that when some women give birth, it takes them months to get thier period back an for thier body to regulate (flow wise). I was spotting yesterday and thought this is it? Today... OMG! I thought that I would only spot for a day or two but nope... cramps, heavy flow.. the whole nine today. Didnt expect this for the 1st cycle after my D&C so if this is any indicator I think the same is going to happen after I give birth . I kind of enjoyed not having a period for a few months while I was pg and was looking forward to that lasting a little bit after I gave birth lol.. oh well

 

[xxserendipity]

hi looks like this post has gone on for months wondered if i could join in i had a d&c 3 weeks ago yesterday and want to start ttc asap but was still having bfp til last friday so think its gonna take a while for af to arrive already feels like its taking forever and i just wanna be pregnant again

 

[lilesMom]

hey guys, big hugs xxx amy ur hubby sounds lovely xx
my bro had a baby 2 days after my erpc and my other bro wife is due 2 days of my due date so lots of reminders, i know il always look at my niece/nephew and think they should be same age as lile but i cant be jealous cos both mommies in both cases have had losses and it makes me glad for them that things ok now is sad for me though xx
look on full af as good sign amy, it means ur body will come back to normal fast xx

 

[lilesMom]

hi serendipity, we posted at same time, welcome hon xxx
course u can join xx we all know how long the wait can be and its nice to have some support and company xxx

 

[Storked]

Serendipity, and welcome. Sorry for your loss- we all understand as we want to be pregnant again as well

Jen, so sorry. I am friends with girls who were due a week before and a week after me and their FB posts just kill me. But our healthy beans are coming. And our angel are watching over us.

Amy, I am not as old as you but I worry about my age because I want quite a few kids and the women in my family hit menopause early. Not quite the same but still

Love you ladies and hope you have a great weekend.

 

[Storked]

Laura, you are a ray of sunshine and I love reading your posts
I agree with you fully on the AF bit! And my sister had a baby not long after I lost mine and I was happy for her too because she has had so many MMC :/

 

[lilesMom]

bethany, loves ya lots , thanks xx