ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

hi Amy Horseypants i just downloaded the app will start using it once af arrives (if it does) xx

 

[mommylov]

ooooh mommylov, my first green day is next wednesday too! we get to be in the 2ww together

hey take a look at my fertility friend calendar and tell me whether you guys have any guesses about why i have so many green and yellow days. is this what your chart looks like mommylov? or is there more ambiguity in mine. see why OH and i are planning to dtd everyday for a week starting tuesday?

what website is it on? I might make one now and as u say, dont take too much from it for this month, should i mark CD1 as my DnC or is it not worth making one until a few months time? Obviously if i dont get a BFP soon? xxx

The one I use is cyclespage.com Its different than the one that Horsey is talking about but is simple enough for me lol Although I may look into thier app and enter my info and use that one but both seem to work just fine

 

[Storked]

Horsey uses fertility friend and Amy you use...? They all look similar so yay!

Natasha, like Amy said the longer you use them the more accurate they become. Mine is still kind of a guessing game since my cycles have been wacked up since my loss but pretty sure things are normalizing

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thats true Horsey... I guess its the waiting game all over again!

Im going to request blood tests tomorrow, deep down im hoping its new pregnancy, but also just expecting the worst, i hope you all get your BFPs this month or next.. Would be nice especially since next time i get pregnant i dont want to tell anyone in case anything goes wrong, but will be nice to have support from the lovely ladies on here xxx

For sure!!! I dont plan on telling anyone except you ladies until I am at 20 weeks.. I MIGHT tell dh.. lol jk ofcourse I would tell him

I might even wait until my 3rd trimester to announce anything when I am preg. But I know a lot of people aren't stupid and are gonna see my huge stomach. I will just let them guess. I just don't wanna announce too early and have to tell everybody if something goes wrong.

See i said the same thing to the partner.. But he made a good point.. He said to be honest if u think about it, if someone has recently or in the past had a loss, i doubt they would want to ask you, because if you werent they would feel terrible, people will probably guess but not ask you, if that makes sense?

I think it will be hard for me to hold it, i was only three months at my MMC but i had put on a stone and a half and had a 6 month belly, hard to believe really, people started guessing when i was 9 weeks :/ xxx

 

[Storked]

Jessica, I think third tri is a great idea. I may adopt it for myself. Thanks!

 

[Storked]

Natasha I can't add any more names to my signature LOL! Even though my TTC buddies listed haven't been super active, I keep them there to show my support

 

[mommylov]

So this is a little random but I listen to all kinds of music.. at the moment some R&B came on my iphone and the song.... "Jeremiah - Birthday Sex" Good song but made me think of Laura since its her bday today and mine is on the 17th... lol Just thought it was funny!

 

[horseypants]

Can i still make a fertility chart thing like you guys have if i dont know anything about previous n future periods because of the DnC? Or is there a way around it thats accurate? x

i say dont worry about accuracy - jsut start it whenever and put in whatever information you get as it happens. that worked for me and my cycles were really ALL over the place. i had a mmc and then long periods of bleeding and looooooong cycles. like 25 days off and on spotting followed by 52 days of nothing

: (

then my cycles kept getting shorter and shorter, down to 37 and then 35 and 35 and then 31! when i got another bfp.

unfortunately, the baby stopped developing around 8.5 weeks and I had to have a d&c at 10 weeks. that was on may 10th and i'm still waiting for my cycles to normalise. my last one was 37 days and I think throughout my life 35 day cycles are normal for me, though i never really knew for sure before i started keeping track whilst ttc.

point is, you just put in info as it happens and it just makes life a little less mysterious as you go

 

[aaronswoman79]

Horsey, I think I was chill until this wait. Now I just want to know damnit but yay for peace at the workplace and a sweet spouse! Isn't it awesome when things fall into place like that?
Oh and for the list: CD22 and going to test on the 18th

Amy, hope your days are right! But get busy just in case
And I would go nuts (in the best way ever) if we did all get our BFPs at the same time!

Jessica, Texas is hot. And most likely too conservative hehe. You aren't missing out on much in Utah but what a freaking shame that his family would disown him like that. Totally not very Mormon of them- we are supposed to love our family, always and forever. Makes me sad for him. And how sad for the kids to have grandparents who would do that- thank goodness for your mom!

TTCSecrets, I won't tell anyone but the ladies on here when I get my BFP. And my husband and mom. But that is it. My support system. This is a great group of ladies!

Same for me, husband and mom. Those 2 are my main support system. and now all of you ladies on here. I feel this is the only safe place for me to be able to talk about my early pregnancy, and if something goes wrong I know I have all of you to understand. You all are a Godsend for me.

 

[mommylov]

To be honest amy i was just thinking of adding you great ladies onto my signature, your user and real name just so i dont forget in my sleep, like u i have a terrible memory, unless its song lyrics then i all of a sudden turn into an elephant lol xx

I hear ya!

 

[mommylov]

To be honest amy i was just thinking of adding you great ladies onto my signature, your user and real name just so i dont forget in my sleep, like u i have a terrible memory, unless its song lyrics then i all of a sudden turn into an elephant lol xx

Can i still make a fertility chart thing like you guys have if i dont know anything about previous n future periods because of the DnC? Or is there a way around it thats accurate? x

i say dont worry about accuracy - jsut start it whenever and put in whatever information you get as it happens. that worked for me and my cycles were really ALL over the place. i had a mmc and then long periods of bleeding and looooooong cycles. like 25 days off and on spotting followed by 52 days of nothing : (

then my cycles kept getting shorter and shorter, down to 37 and then 35 and 35 and then 31! when i got another bfp.

unfortuantely, the baby stopped developing around 8.5 weeks and I had to have a d&c at 10 weeks. that was on may 10th and i'm still waiting for my cycles to normalise. my last one was 37 days.......

point is, you jsut put in info as it happens and it just makes life a little less mysterious as you go

horsey... boy you and I seem to be same with lots! Our lo's heart stopped beating too amd measured about 8 weeks. I didnt find out until our 10wk us and had the d&c 2 days later

 

[mommylov]

Sad that we all have so much in common as far as our losses but I am greatful that it brought you all into my life. DH is amazing and has been the best support ever but its hard for him to relate sometimes and thats where you ladies have been a godsend!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Sad that we all have so much in common as far as our losses but I am greatful that it brought you all into my life. DH is amazing and has been the best support ever but its hard for him to relate sometimes and thats where you ladies have been a godsend!

Most definitely agree! xxx

 

[mommylov]

You brought up a good point... hope I got everyone on my sig

 

[TTCSecrets]

Brb Pizzas here!! xx

 

[xxserendipity]

how do i do that add all ur names just added some of u as friends x

 

[mommylov]

Laura is going to have quite a bit to read.. and she has only been gone for 8 hours so far! lol Oh well, Im sure she knows us

Miss you Laura!!

 

[mommylov]

how do i do that add all ur names just added some of u as friends x

You edit your signature by clicking on the "quick links" drop down menu and then edit signature and then type in who you want

 

[TTCSecrets]

Is Laura TTC ? 2ww? xx

 

[Storked]

Amy, lol on the song! I actually played a song when I got ready this morning- haven't in a while! Aside from when doing cardio
And nice siggy

Jessica, yes to hubby and mom and this board. I need this board. You are all a godsend for me as well.
When I was pregnant before I had started an account on babycenter and had to tell the settings when I miscarried just so I would stop getting horrible email updates on my baby. Will never go back to sites like that :-/