ttc after a d&c

[xxserendipity]

yeah thats what i did just kept testin till i got a negative id prob wait till 4 weeks after ur first negative but at least u know if u test sooner and get a bfp its a new pregnancy fingers crossed hun x

 

[horseypants]

guys, i am a compulsive list gatherer and if you don't mind, here it goes:

jen435 -
lilesMom - happy bday! ultrasound results coming soon
Storked -
horseypants - cd11 (expecting to o on cd21)
mommylov - cd8
aaronswoman79 -
xxserendipity - cd13 and positive opk today!
TTCSecrets - possible

haha, im a bossy pants. can you guys all sign up for fertility friend and post your charts in your signature so I will know for my lists!

 

[mommylov]

wait.. did I miss something? Whats the list for? lol

 

[horseypants]

heh. i am going to try to see where we are at with ttc and put it down. correct me or fill in the blanks or tell me stop it lol - where are you at in your cycle?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jessica, I can believe that he lives a lot of them. Mormonism isn't just a religion but also a way of life. It can be hard to escape (totally know from personal experience lol). I love love love tea but my grandmother served it to me at a young age. And it has to be sweet and icy cold hehe. Not a fan of the taste of coffee or alcohol but I think it is like you said, didn't grow up with them at all.
Molly Mormon and Peter Priesthood are terms for your stereotypical uptight, righteous Mormons. And nothing wrong with it, just isn't me I don't scrapbook, obsess over food storage or even worry about the content of what I read, watch or listen to. My sense of self worth doesn't come from being a wife or a mother but from being me. I dunno, I guess I fight the culture sometimes. I'm not perfect and I don't strive for it. Makes you seem cold and flat. But that is just my perception from pretty much every Molly that I know. So I have a lot of...disgust for it all.
Haha how does he love Cali? Good for him for getting out of Utah. My husband actually moved to Texas when we were dating from Utah. I know he misses it sometimes though I really don't grasp why.
You married a RM huh? Very cool! Which part of Texas did he serve? My husband served in Thailand which is why he is fluent. He still reads the scriptures in Thai every day. Pretty cute lol.
So glad that it looks like AF is here. Fingers crossed for no weird spotting- I had that with my first AF. Felt like it stopped and started. Ugh.
Politics...so glad that you and your husband agree. Mine being my opposite wouldn't be bad if he just didn't "debate" things with me. And he isn't always logical about things either. He is deeply religious and sometimes his reasoning behind things isn't factual, but more based in faith. Which annoys me deeply. How can you reason with someone who isn't being reasonable? You can't win.
I really don't understand how he can be that way and be a scientist. He is a conflicted individual. Must be part of why I like him lol

Actually my husband never like Utah. He was just there because his family was. But he has told me he didn't like the culture there. I have never been to Utah, but I would actually like to go there someday. My husband was disowned by his whole family after he left Utah. So unfortunately he has no relationship with them. Really sad, especially for my children. But what can you do? My children have 1 grandmother here (my mother) who cares for them dearly. I wish they could have a grandpa too, but my father died 5 years ago. So in a way we are pretty isolated. So off the something more upbeat. lol. My husband served In McAllen, Texas. He had a great time there. Whats interesting is that my husband loves California, but doesn't like the culture here either, he says its too liberal for him. lol. Maybe he is a middle of the road kind of guy. As for me, love San Francisco, it really is a beautiful city. Never get tired of it. Hows life in Texas?

 

[TTCSecrets]

Thats true Horsey... I guess its the waiting game all over again!

Im going to request blood tests tomorrow, deep down im hoping its new pregnancy, but also just expecting the worst, i hope you all get your BFPs this month or next.. Would be nice especially since next time i get pregnant i dont want to tell anyone in case anything goes wrong, but will be nice to have support from the lovely ladies on here xxx

 

[mommylov]

Yes secrets... blood test is the best way. I didnt test until dr told me to. Did once after D&C after she told me to came back +.. went in and they did blood work and my levels were at 16 so that showed that I was well on my way to 0 but a hpt wont tell you that. I would wait for the blood test, it will put your mind at ease hun.

 

[mommylov]

@ horsey... Ohhhhhhhh! lol IM cd8 today

 

[mommylov]

Thats true Horsey... I guess its the waiting game all over again!

Im going to request blood tests tomorrow, deep down im hoping its new pregnancy, but also just expecting the worst, i hope you all get your BFPs this month or next.. Would be nice especially since next time i get pregnant i dont want to tell anyone in case anything goes wrong, but will be nice to have support from the lovely ladies on here xxx

For sure!!! I dont plan on telling anyone except you ladies until I am at 20 weeks.. I MIGHT tell dh.. lol jk ofcourse I would tell him

 

[horseypants]

good luck ttcsecrets. i've got my fingers crossed for you. the ladies on here are very good for my positive mental attitude. ----to be honest, on some days, they are solely responsible for it they will lift yours too im sure!

 

[mommylov]

Awww ditto horsey!!

ttcsecrets... I agree! These girls are just the best and have put me is such a great positive place and are SO great and making it known that you are not alone. They are angels!

 

[horseypants]

mommylov, what's your average o day?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jessica must agree with amy try to be positive when i see pg ladie. Its the teens i get upset about. But trying not to. Your poor daughter i guess her a bethany will always have that fear

I will try and look at things in a positive way. Why do the teens get u upset? It seems like everyone pregnant gets me upset. I just feel so envious, i want to be them. I want to look down and see my pregnant tummy. Its not so much jealousy towards them, because I would never wish miscarriage on anyone, not on my worst enemy (although I have none. lol.) I just ask why I couldn't get that far. I know I have to get over it, especially if I want to move on and get pregnant again, and be more positive. Its just so hard.

 

[Storked]

Horsey, I think I was chill until this wait. Now I just want to know damnit but yay for peace at the workplace and a sweet spouse! Isn't it awesome when things fall into place like that?
Oh and for the list: CD22 and going to test on the 18th

Amy, hope your days are right! But get busy just in case
And I would go nuts (in the best way ever) if we did all get our BFPs at the same time!

Jessica, Texas is hot. And most likely too conservative hehe. You aren't missing out on much in Utah but what a freaking shame that his family would disown him like that. Totally not very Mormon of them- we are supposed to love our family, always and forever. Makes me sad for him. And how sad for the kids to have grandparents who would do that- thank goodness for your mom!

TTCSecrets, I won't tell anyone but the ladies on here when I get my BFP. And my husband and mom. But that is it. My support system. This is a great group of ladies!

 

[TTCSecrets]

They do , all of you ladies I cant talk to anyone about it, i dont really have any family, just my partner and his family , but when i talk to people about it all they sai is Oh relax itll happen when ts time, but you ladies are probably the same, people saying that doesnt help, i dont want people to tell me to wait and relax, how can i?! So at least on here people understand, i just hope we all get our sticky beans soon i really do, im definitely just going to request a blood test, and maybe a follow up one a week after to see if hormones decreasing or increasing, im secretly hoping for the latter, yeah all i will tell is you ladies here and then my other half, it was weird because i havent spoken to him about this that ive spoken to you about, but a couple of hours ago, he saw the rash on my belly and kept getting me toilet paper to blow my nose and then said, why are u peeing so much? And i said hormones, and he said, why do i get this butterfly feeling that you are pregnant again? And i thought ooo we are connected lol! So im not mentioning it to him in case we arent pregnant again, would feel like the MMC all over again :/ xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh and also, i keep not seeing posts to me because i dont remember choosing the username TTCSecrets :/ lol! But my names Natasha xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Amy, trying to be less emotional today but last night was not terrible. My husband held me when I cried and we even talked about the miscarriage. It was a good thing [/QUOTE]

isnt that the best feeling when the man you love holds you at your most vulnerable time. Sometimes when Im crying my husband just looks at me like he doesn't know what to do, and in my head i am scream hold me damn it! I just don't tell him because I want it to come from him, you know? Im glad u and your hubby had that intimate time.

 

[xxserendipity]

guys, i am a compulsive list gatherer and if you don't mind, here it goes:

jen435 -
lilesMom - happy bday! ultrasound results coming soon
Storked -
horseypants - cd11 (expecting to o on cd21)
mommylov - cd8
aaronswoman79 -
xxserendipity - cd13 and positive opk today!
TTCSecrets - possible

haha, im a bossy pants. can you guys all sign up for fertility friend and post your charts in your signature so I will know for my lists!

whats fertility friend hun?? x

 

[Storked]

Amy and Horsey, this is a great PMA thread

Jessica, chiming in on preggo ladies. My niece is 19 and just had a baby. Single mom. I can't even stand when she sends me a picture of her son. I just feel that it is so unfair. Hate to feel that way but I do. I just have to automatically delete any messages from her because I know that she just won't understand it even if I say something. New motherhood is just too...consuming for her to ever mentally place herself in my shoes.

 

[horseypants]

ooooh mommylov, my first green day is next wednesday too! we get to be in the 2ww together

hey take a look at my fertility friend calendar and tell me whether you guys have any guesses about why i have so many green and yellow days. is this what your chart looks like mommylov? or is there more ambiguity in mine. see why OH and i are planning to dtd everyday for a week starting tuesday?