ttc after a d&c

[aaronswoman79]

Big families are nice Laura. And usually very close
I love that my siblings still view me as a sibling even though I am a lot younger than them- I am actually closest to the oldest too. But yeah I think butts are acceptable feet Warner's for sure but my DHs family has boundaries lol. They also wear more clothes around the house than we ever did. I can't imagine LOL

How much older is your oldest sibling? I have always been really good at making connections with much older people, I mean much older like senior citizens. I love older people, they are so filled with wisdom, and usually have a lot of great jokes to tell. Interesting my mom is the same way, she always made connections with older people too. I must add, you sound wise beyond your years! I though you were more like my age. I was like you in my early 20s, very mature. By age 20 I was already a mommy, so I already felt older because a lot of my friends didn't have any children yet. Now I feel old because my eldest is about to become a teenager! She looks like shes 16 already almost 5'7'', my height!! People get astonished when they see us together, because I am only in my early 30s and she almost looks like a grown woman.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[aaronswoman79]

We see these little things as ways to boost our fertility, the guys see it differently. My DH is set on me NOT using anything unless given to me by the Dr. That's why OPKs are acceptable to him, the Dr gave me a prescription for them.

We have to do so much to prep and protect our bodies...After my first mc and finding out I had low ovarian reserve (I'm 36) I dramatically decreased my caffeine intake started eating all of the foods they say make you more fertile (nuts, berries, whole milk, no refined carbs...), started acupuncture and eliminated wine (unless AF was present, then I'd have a glass). My DH changed NOTHING...I started to think I was the only one trying. In the end, I can take comfort knowing without a doubt that I had done everything right...mc #2 was just unlucky. I say use the preseed, do what makes you feel better because it is so worth it in the end.

How long have you and DH been trying? Is he older than you? I swear men are so stubborn at any age. I am 32 and DH is 38, I am starting to get worried about his sperm count. I don't think he takes care of himself like he should. I did get him to start taking a men's multivitamin and some omega 3. How long have both of you been married? We got married 7 years ago. But this is all new to me, actively trying. Something that does help me feel better, is that most of the women in my family had children at older ages. 1 cousin had her first when she was 39, the other had her first when she was 41, and the other cousin had one when she was 39 also, they are all sisters. Their brothers wife had her first at 36. My mom had me when she was almost 35. What I am trying to say is that what ever obstacles they had, I don't even think they were aware of them. My cousin who had her daughter at 39, her husband was 51 at the time. And their daughter came out perfectly healthy. Thanks for the advice on the foods that make you more fertile. I learn something on here everyday!

 

[mommylov]

jessica i hope u feel better soon babe , this hwole thing def wrecks u mentally xxx big hugs xxxx
Thansk, galway was lovely but i was on antibiotics so i didnt have the energy i normally would but was nice. shearing isnt a very common name where i am from but some names occur more in pockets around ireland so maybe it is a common name else wwhere in ireland when we all have our babas , ye could come visit and show them off

Wouldn't that be great, like some type of reunion of some type. We are connected through the tragedy of miscarriage, and we could also be connected through the joy of childbirth So what day of the month does your birthday fall all, Mine is on the 26th. I turn 33

We see these little things as ways to boost our fertility, the guys see it differently. My DH is set on me NOT using anything unless given to me by the Dr. That's why OPKs are acceptable to him, the Dr gave me a prescription for them.

We have to do so much to prep and protect our bodies...After my first mc and finding out I had low ovarian reserve (I'm 36) I dramatically decreased my caffeine intake started eating all of the foods they say make you more fertile (nuts, berries, whole milk, no refined carbs...), started acupuncture and eliminated wine (unless AF was present, then I'd have a glass). My DH changed NOTHING...I started to think I was the only one trying. In the end, I can take comfort knowing without a doubt that I had done everything right...mc #2 was just unlucky. I say use the preseed, do what makes you feel better because it is so worth it in the end.

How long have you and DH been trying? Is he older than you? I swear men are so stubborn at any age. I am 32 and DH is 38, I am starting to get worried about his sperm count. I don't think he takes care of himself like he should. I did get him to start taking a men's multivitamin and some omega 3. How long have both of you been married? We got married 7 years ago. But this is all new to me, actively trying. Something that does help me feel better, is that most of the women in my family had children at older ages. 1 cousin had her first when she was 39, the other had her first when she was 41, and the other cousin had one when she was 39 also, they are all sisters. Their brothers wife had her first at 36. My mom had me when she was almost 35. What I am trying to say is that what ever obstacles they had, I don't even think they were aware of them. My cousin who had her daughter at 39, her husband was 51 at the time. And their daughter came out perfectly healthy. Thanks for the advice on the foods that make you more fertile. I learn something on here everyday!

My bday is on monday the 17th... Ill be 32

DH bestfriend's wife got pg at 40 and gave birth at 41. They had been together for over 10 years and she thought she couldnt get pg as they tried in the past and didnt conceive. Sophia was conceived out of the blue and she had all sorts of medical issues before and throughout the pregnancy but had a healthy baby girl who is now 3 1/2 so that gives me hope!

 

[jen435]

Amy yay for your birthday! I hope u have a late bday present bfp

i heard from a friend preseed is for the male it enhances tthe feeling and makes it better for both *wink* it kinda does in a way. No men really wanna know abot this stuff. Oh and sofrcups are for af keep it in ur dresser scoot dh to the bathroom and insert while hes gone. If we dtd in livingroom i put it in a pillow and bring in out with me saying its to lift my bottom up which it is but i also store softcup in there also. Sneaky but honest tips. Bethany i do same thing take a lil out of my check for myself to get things for ttc.

Work was great! Love the new office. I didnt take any xrays. Dental hygienists have the assistants take them for us excited to bd tonight!

I hope you get bfp laura you been through so much not too! Fxd!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[Storked]

Sorry for not replying much guys- today has actually been crazy. Been cooking or ironing or menu planning or running errands all day. I am beat!

Amy, can't beat free food
I am not real hopeful that I will get a BFP right away if I am preggers- may be a bit late before anything lol.
Hey you are close to ovulation! Woot woot!

Laura, you could probably sub the softcup with a more long-term menstrual cup. Only thing is that they are inserted differently and not as shallow.

Angel, you will be a part of the journey

Jessica, you are sad about 33? Great age! You are just two years older than my DH. My birthday is in December
Why are men so afraid of "extras"? They want to be in competition with inanimate stuff. Lube doesn't make you less turned on, it can be added to the fun of lovemaking. TMI but it doesn't have to just go on you. Think you can sway him that way?

 

[Storked]

Gah I still missed some posts lol.

Jen, that is the way to go isn't it? Being sneaky is fun
And that is GREAT news on the new office!

Angel congrats on marriage! I was wed in February

 

[jen435]

Atlantis is nice been there twice. Must say that man made beach is for the birds rather be at breezes beach much nicer then ones at atlantis. Lazy river though awesome!! Swimming with dolphins was fabulous too!!! youll concieve again i know it! We all will!

 

[jen435]

Bethany great month love feb i actually wanted a feb baby now i can careless the date. Just want it now! lol actually dh and i meet memorial dau weekend and according to.online my edd would be that weekend i hope it happens

 

[Storked]

Big families are nice Laura. And usually very close
I love that my siblings still view me as a sibling even though I am a lot younger than them- I am actually closest to the oldest too. But yeah I think butts are acceptable feet Warner's for sure but my DHs family has boundaries lol. They also wear more clothes around the house than we ever did. I can't imagine LOL

How much older is your oldest sibling? I have always been really good at making connections with much older people, I mean much older like senior citizens. I love older people, they are so filled with wisdom, and usually have a lot of great jokes to tell. Interesting my mom is the same way, she always made connections with older people too. I must add, you sound wise beyond your years! I though you were more like my age. I was like you in my early 20s, very mature. By age 20 I was already a mommy, so I already felt older because a lot of my friends didn't have any children yet. Now I feel old because my eldest is about to become a teenager! She looks like shes 16 already almost 5'7'', my height!! People get astonished when they see us together, because I am only in my early 30s and she almost looks like a grown woman.

My oldest sibling Is 16 years older and already a grandmother! I bond with older people as well. I just have so little in common with people my age. They like to party or play video games. I don't even know how to work the controllers to anything that isn't Nintendo...and games tend to make me frustrated anyways.
You and your daughter are so tall! I am shorter than two of my oldest nieces and people always think I am still in HS because of it.
At church dances I always hung out with adults and talked the night away. And I was always close to my teachers. College was a shock because none of the professors ever wanted to chit chat with me

 

[Storked]

Fingers crossed Jen!

 

[jen435]

Thanks fxd for all of us

 

[jen435]

Dh is playing football game while watchin football genius... Gotta get him to bd some how before i fall asleep. Cd 17 but cant chance it. Im counting three work day left then 5 day weekend. Cant wait! I dont dread my job just waking up early to go anyways hope things have slowed down for you bethany! Im laying in my living room with my puppy and cant stop staring at my window! I love lights and decorating it! Anyways wishing you ladies all a goodnight!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[Storked]

Threaten him again Jen
My DH went to take a "nap" and still hasn't gotten his butt up to eat the chowder that I made him. Now I'm annoyed. And want a nap lol.
How early do you have to be up Jen?
Btw, you make me want a puppy to go with my kitty

 

[aaronswoman79]

So, af seems to be finished. It lasted over 5 days. A little longer than usual. What was really weird was that I was about to finish Sunday morning then I just started bleeding again. I hope that was normal. Another weird thing, the blood was brighter or fresher than normal. Or maybe its just my imagination. But as long as its over hopefully, I guess there should be nothing to worry about. I guess I am officially in the ttc club!

 

[Storked]

Yay Jessica! And yeah AFs are weird after miscarriage. Took mine 3 cycles to be normal! Though the cycle length still isn't there. If it was I would be so much closer to POAS. !

 

[jen435]

Jessica sounds like a normal af length for a strong lining yay for ttc!!!

Bethany once you move you should get a small pup. They will be your babys best friends they also make great cuddle buddys. Then again kittys do to! dh better eat ur clam chowder. I bet its delicious! You make yummy things. What is your meal list that you made? Maybe you can give me some ideas on new things to make.

I start work at 730am so wake up at 545am. Not too early but for me it is. Id much rather start at 10
Yay!!! Dh came upstairs! He wasnt in the mood but we did bd

Bethany faith this will be your month it just has to!! But i know its not good to have high hopes so i keep telling myself a july 4th baby would be awesome too! Though may/june would be so much nicer.