ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

danni i hope not chick, but like u say if she is gonna some wouldnt she hurry up!!
when i was preg first time, i felt like my af was comin for ages but it never came i got my bfp instead

hopefully that will be the same for me i keep squeezing my boobs coz thats normally my first sign i always get sore boobs but not happened yet, my hubby keeps looking at me like im mental haha x

HAHAH YOU MADE ME LAUGH! YOu are hte exact same as me, first thing i noticed was my nipples were so tender i didnt even dare wash them in the shower! ( i did obviously i didnt have gross mouldy nipples for weeks lol ) But it really hurt, felt like i was pushing a bruise whenever i touched my boobs, so i know every day ill be doing the * Hey hubby touch my boob and see if i slap you * test lol

 

[xxserendipity]

night night Laura sweet dreams and another day closer tomorrow

Natasha thats so unfair companys these days only think of the bottom line they have no care for their staff although im pretty sure if they fire u u could take them to a tribunal dont let them bully u into leaving unless u want to coz sounds like thats what they are tryin to do coz they know they cant legally fire u

Thanks Amy hopefully i'll wake up with sore boobs tomorrow rather than af xx

 

[mommylov]

night night Laura sweet dreams and another day closer tomorrow

Natasha thats so unfair companys these days only think of the bottom line they have no care for their staff although im pretty sure if they fire u u could take them to a tribunal dont let them bully u into leaving unless u want to coz sounds like thats what they are tryin to do coz they know they cant legally fire u

Thanks Amy hopefully i'll wake up with sore boobs tomorrow rather than af xx

FX and cant wait for the morning when you tell us your (.)(.) are hurting!


I agree... Natasha they cant just fire just because. Even "at will" employers have to follow legal protocol

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah, i mean i hate my job anyway but i never let it show, my work is always top notch and when im there i do three times as much work as nyone else on my salary, overworked underpaid i believe the expression is

Im hoping you get sore boobs instead of af too im also hoping that symptom i will start experiencing in the near weeks, how soon after fertilisation/ovulation is it when u get symptoms? im sure with angel baby i got sore boobs literally about 9dpo :/ strange huh, especially since many people say its impossible to get symptoms that early xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

I know!! Hope we can all go from TTC buddies to Bump buddies!! Would be awesome!

I keep hoping that over the next week or so ill keep checking on here and see all the signs everywhere flashing at me like christmas lights!!

Yeah, i assume im in the 2ww, considering im now getting negative OPKs etc, although doesnt mean ive ovulated, will soon know i guess, ill just keep bding every other night for the next week..

I mean i have a routine blood test for anemia on the 4th October so would imagine whether i ovulated a few days ago or not til next week it still MAY pick something up

When can you test?

Ive found a great ovulation caledar, i cant use FF its too high tech for me, but on pregnology.com it says i should be in 2ww now, so FX!

When can you test ? xxx

Thanks for the link , I just went there it says Im ov today!! And my husband won't be home till later tonight! Soon I will be in 2ww along with all of you.

 

[jen435]

So much activity today like always! angel yay for af!!! She knew doctor appt was comin so she gave in. Youll be tcc soon!! Woohoo!

Natasha so sorry about your job. Can they really do that??? I thought it was illegal. Ill call your state and find out your rights. Work was exhausting. Hygiene takes a toll on me so its hard to tell if its my job af or possibly being pg.... My back and legs are killer so are my boobs. Stomach weird cant explain it. My hands and arms hurt to. Im achy head to toe. Im thinking of cashing my check and sneaking in a massage. But its not good if ur pg i dont think so i wont just incase. Havent bought any pg tests yet. Thinkin to tom but scared its too early since cd 27 and i think 5dpo... Could be more idk all my cycles are usually 28/29 days.but think i really ovulated late...

Laura yay for symptoms!!! Fxd im soo excited for you!!! Cant wait til u decide to test!

 

[horseypants]

aw, i love the new pictures. i'm annoyed at my body today though cause i think this may be a loooooooooooooooong or anovulatory cycle. im already planning out how to get my doctor to deal with it for me. i expected to have o-ed by now and isntead i got a very briefly positive opk one morning and my temp has since gone down not up. all neg opks now.......... i know what i have to do is see the doc, end this cycle, lose weight and keep trying. but it SUCKS!!!!!!!!!!! i was suppose to be due december 1. it will kill me to not be prego. that's my second due date too. i dont even remember the first anymore which maybe is a good thing oh snap. i remember conception date now. that was september 15, 2011. this really sucks. i want to be remembering my baby's first birthday party, not this crap. i want to have a baby yesterday.

 

[jen435]

Hugs horseypants me too my surge was short this month and i had no temp rises at all. Does that mean im out too?? Hang in there your lo is coming. My due date is oct 15 2012 so im praying its some how it stay strong

 

[Storked]

Hey ladies briefly dropping in to say that I STILL am without Internet. They fixed something outside though so that we can finally get signal and will hopefully send an inside guy to set things up tomorrow.

Love you girls!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hey ladies briefly dropping in to say that I STILL am without Internet. They fixed something outside though so that we can finally get signal and will hopefully send an inside guy to set things up tomorrow.

Love you girls!

Come back soon Bethany! We all miss you here!

 

[xxserendipity]

mornin girls still no 3 more days till

Jen ive never heard that about massage hubby used to give me massages all the time when i was pregnant with Leo, FX all ur aches and pains will all be a lovely

Horsey FX u ovulate soon

Bethany stupid internet people tell them to sort it out we need u!!!!!!!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

So glad AF not shown her ugly face for you!

Bethany , hurry backkkk!!!

Horsey i too hope you get the O soon, fingers crossed!

Yeah Jen they are being idiots at work, actually making me get up crying every morning its getting me down

Aarons im so glad you are O! Get your husband back and into bed lol catch that egg!!!

Everyone else how are u all doing today?

By pregnology.com i am now in 2ww , i think, if not , o on sunday, yay! not long either way, just gotta be positive!

 

[aaronswoman79]

So glad AF not shown her ugly face for you!

Bethany , hurry backkkk!!!

Horsey i too hope you get the O soon, fingers crossed!

Yeah Jen they are being idiots at work, actually making me get up crying every morning its getting me down

Aarons im so glad you are O! Get your husband back and into bed lol catch that egg!!!

Everyone else how are u all doing today?

By pregnology.com i am now in 2ww , i think, if not , o on sunday, yay! not long either way, just gotta be positive!

we are gonna be in 2ww around the same time!! Its going to be so hard to wait. So sorry about the idiots at your work. You shouldnt have to put up with any negativity, especially now!

 

[aaronswoman79]

mornin girls still no 3 more days till

Jen ive never heard that about massage hubby used to give me massages all the time when i was pregnant with Leo, FX all ur aches and pains will all be a lovely

Horsey FX u ovulate soon

Bethany stupid internet people tell them to sort it out we need u!!!!!!!!

fx you get that bfp!! We need some bfps here!! So we can all look forward to those nice pregnancy massages by our hubbies!!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Tell me about it aarons they are really starting to do my head in!

Yeah we are! I think there a couple in 2ww, a couple waiting for AF and a couple very near testing so we are all not far off eachother! All of us future bump buddies me thinks!!

Im gonna test on October 2nd as thats when my chart says i have a good chance of testing positive by then, but i also have a blood test on 4th october so didnt know whether to just leave it so i dont get disheartened by BFNs and keep testing, and just wait for hte blood test to tell me yes or no :/ Hmmm...

Plus im sick of going into shops looking like a crazy woman buying packs and packs of pregnancy tests, i feel like one of them girls who is trying ot baby trap somebody lol!

I just wanna see those two glimmery lines after ive peed it is definitely an addiction! xx

 

[xxserendipity]

ooo Natasha thats the day after mt birthday

still no sore boobs though so not sure which way this month is gonna go iykwim x

 

[TTCSecrets]

Yeah i know what u mean, thats the first thing i noticed, and because i have reallllyy small boobs,theyve never hurt in my life, and my DH has a habit of running past me and pinching them jokingly, not hard obviously, but i remember when i first got pregnant and he did it, i literally slapped him out of instinct god it hurt..

SO i think i will be looking out for that too, but dont get down about it!! The symptoms could be differnet every time! You never know! Just keep thinking about that BFP!

I think having no symptoms is better than having hopeful symptoms if u know what i mean, like imagining smyptoms! Xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

I waited all day for my husband to come home so we could bd, and just for him to not be able to "perform" because he says sex has turned into a chore. This would have been the 4th time in our whole marriage that we have ever bd for the purpose of conceiving. We have just started ttc this month, and now the day that I am probably most fertile, he says there is too much pressure on him. I hardly even bother him to bd, but today was so important. Now I don't know what to do

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hmm well if youve done it for a few days prior im sure theres still a very good chance! Ive bd every night for about 10 days now and i am exhausted, as in yesterday at work i cried and went home to the doctors because all i do is go to wor, come home at 4, sleep til 7, get up watch soaps, have dinner, and go back to bed after chatting on here

Im positive for you! See the way ive done it is ive not told my DH at all when im ovulating and he doesnt understand like how long after your AF it is when you ovulate, ( i spent an hour last night in bed explaining my cervix position and CM, he was amazed lol! )
SO he never knows if i am genuinely In The Mood or if its baby dancing haha , some people have said that is sneaky but i said well it takes the pressure off and addsthe love back in, because we usually have sex every day anyway ( have done since a few months after we got together haha ) SO its not naything unusual for him to see me wanting sex 4/5/6/7 times a week xxx

 

[xxserendipity]

I waited all day for my husband to come home so we could bd, and just for him to not be able to "perform" because he says sex has turned into a chore. This would have been the 4th time in our whole marriage that we have ever bd for the purpose of conceiving. We have just started ttc this month, and now the day that I am probably most fertile, he says there is too much pressure on him. I hardly even bother him to bd, but today was so important. Now I don't know what to do

awww hunni thats a bit unfair of him maybe he's a bit worried about the possibility of another mc when u fall again, i know my hubby had serious doubts about us tryin again coz it makes him feel so helpless when something goes wrong coz he cant help iykwim sometimes its a bit much for our men xxx