ttc after a d&c

Im scouring the internet for VERY early pregnancy tests but nothing, i know in my heart im just gonna have to stick the next 10 days out but thats easier said than done because im like thinking.. No cos ill have to go to work 8 times before i can test, and ill have to sleep so many times before i can test, ive heard that First response Gold can test 5 days before period, and im thinking well, if i ovulated a week earlier than normal technically i could do it next week then im thinking nope youll waste your money and be disheartened to see a bfn .

And plus last time i had extremey tender nipples and i dont yet and im now 4dpo xx

I feel at a loss today, i feel so sluggish and DH has to work tonight, and with me not BDing last night or night before due to exhaustion and to be quite honest ( this sounds really bad for saying i am TTC ) but i have just gone off sex, im normally on it all the time but at the moment its just not bothering me, so if i didnt ovulate wednesday and its tomorrow, i got no chance of having a :bfp: this month, so then im thinking omg well when should i ovulate in October and im like WHAT 22 DAYS AWAY THEN PLUS THE 2WW?!?! I feel at an utter loss i am just so impatient, i mean, id be patient if i had the time but i dont :(I feel terrible :( xxxx

dont waste ur money hon, they dont work, i know it really sucks but we do unfort have to wait, xx
the pregnology site said earliest is 12 dpo and then it doesnt mean not preg if bfn, mine did show up at 12 dpo , very faint xxx fx for u too .

take a big deep breath hon xxxx :flower:
u r putting pressure on urself and thats prob why u have gone off sex chick.
i was the same after few days of BD and it was just cos i felt i had to (no offence OH :) ) . u have got loads o BD hon, give urself a little break and sit back and let the :spermy: do their work :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love ya lots and fx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
 
Natasha patience lovely ladie. Keep yourself a baby friendly zone :) must be patient worked for laura :) youll get it.

Laura yes bump buddies for june 1 baby :) is that ur edd to??? I just know im pregnant i FEEL it and im sooo excited. And if im imagining at least i had the feeling for a little bit anyways.

Angel thats so cool! :) im so excited to watch it thurs!! We can all come on and talk about the new season!

:dust:

that is so great , :) i knew too but i didnt wanna admit it in case i got let down, but in my heart i knew i was , yey xxxxxx
june 2nd :) web calc says. my last af was sun 26 aug :) whoop whoop :)
exciting :)

:dust::dust::dust:
 
i might go buy a few canvas and do some paintings for the new house for when we move in in october.. Im planning on decorating everything myself, e.g buying a plain lamp and adding my own design etc and making my own bedset, just cant be arsed to leave the house n get dressed to go buy stuff to do xxx


wow sounds lovely i wish i could paint xx
new house how exciting :) ye buying r renting, either way is v exciting , u get to put ur own orint on the place. xx
i found leaving the house made time go faster, go to friends, shopping, cinema? u wil still think of it but not as intensely :) i dont think anything truly takes ur mind off it but distraction helps :) h aha
this place is good too cos like minded people that know u r ttc is great :) xxx
 
hi girls :witch: just arrived :'( so hubbys takin me out and im gonna get very drunk and then start my cd to ovulation i knew deep down this wasnt our month and at least af has arrived and i can look towards next month xx

stupid witchy. try to think that maybe its better cos ur lining be lovely and thick and u will know dates and wont have the anxiety of early scan and not knowing if baby is growing right etc .. i know not much consolation, but u will get ur LO chick and we will still be bump budds xxxxxxx big hugs . xxxxxxxxxx
i had to wait 3 months to try and thats what i kept in my head the whole time xx
maybe ur body just wasnt ready and is wise enough to know that and wait a tiny bit til next month xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx better to wait a month and have all go well , love and hugs xxx
 
Natasha patience lovely ladie. Keep yourself a baby friendly zone :) must be patient worked for laura :) youll get it.

Laura yes bump buddies for june 1 baby :) is that ur edd to??? I just know im pregnant i FEEL it and im sooo excited. And if im imagining at least i had the feeling for a little bit anyways.

Angel thats so cool! :) im so excited to watch it thurs!! We can all come on and talk about the new season!

:dust:

I hope I join you girls! If I'm pg, my due date will be June 6th :happydance:

Natasha, Jen is right. I too am trying to be calm and have patience since it worked for Laura. We'll get our baby bumps soon!! :thumbup:

it will work for u tooo sweetie but i hate to say i wasnt very patient but i did try ha ha xxxx
we could have our bubs on same day ha ha xxx i be june 2nd xx


jen il check out that link thansk honey xx
 
Yeah Laura its rented, just need our own space we been living with his family for a year, and i must admit having to have slow quiet :sex: does get quite boring and takes the spice out of things..

Yeah i love painting and making things like sewing and knitting etc, just like makin things that are different.

I am trying to be patient.. Ive woke up in a foul bitchy mood today, cant even stand to talk to DH, just irritating me, we had another tiff over sex last night and now im like, you know what i dont care, and if i missed my ovulation today then so be it i dont care. Im in such a foul mood its unreal :((

How are all you lovely ladies? xxx
 
And ive got a huge coldsaw on my lip :( Not had one for years! Must be cos im run down , not the best of baby making environments ay :( xx
 
yucky i hate when this happens, i got few days like this too , all the waiting and thinking about it gets u down a bit, do something u really like today to cheer u up xxxxxxx big hugs xxxxxxxxx r go buy face masks and pamper stuff and pamper the f**k outta urself, u deserve it x :)
 
just think ye will be able to christen every room of ur new place ha ha
when ye movin , ye got it picked and all? x
 
Yeah got everyting sorted ready to move in, move in 1st october so only a week away :D

I think im gonna go asda, buy some face masks and a non alcoholic wine and just sit and chill out!!

How u doing Laura you got any symptoms yet etc? xxx
 
good idea hon xx enjoy, :)
yeah babe good few symptoms, last few days i had to take a nap every day :)
and i keep crying, its annoying me now, the slightest thing upsets me and then i feel grand again after a big cry . dont get me wrong il gladly put up with anything if i get to keep this preg :) and i want turkey syeak all the time, i normally dont really eat meat :)
 
Aww bless good!! Yeah i know, i suffered with terrible nausea with first pg but i wish i had it all back just to have a healthy pg!
And i went off meat completely, and all dairy products, i thought omg my childs a vegan :|

Haha, its funny, 6 weeks post dnc n i stil cant eat meat :| xxxx
 
i went off choc altogether last time it tasted horrible to me and couldnt eat red meat either, only red meat i eat is mince rarely in lasagne r pie but couldnt touch it. unfort my love of choc came back :) x
 
And i couldnt drink tea, and i cna drink 30 cups of tea a day but even the smell of it when i made it for DH made me gag and i completely went off it, The main things i noticed in tww last time were going completely off sex, couldnt drink tea, and boobs hurt and couldnt eat meat, thats hwy i dont think its my month this month because my boobs dont hurt, i can still drink tea, only thing is i still cant eat meat and ive gone off sex completely but htat oculd be the stress of BDing for a baby, really taking its toll xxxx
 
Hi girls, how's everyone doing?

Bethany! Miss you!
Danni, how are you holding up hun?
Natasha, Jen, Jessica, angel... How are you ladies? Jen, just a couple more days until testing for you!!

Laura, how are you felling?
Hope everyone is doing great!
As for me, I don't really know these days. I was having weird, af like framing yesterday and today my cm got to be a little more wet then it has been since af (sorry tmi). I have been pretty dry up until now which is not normal for me. Last night I went to bed at about 8 and just now woke up at 10 but I don't know if that's because we had a long day yesterday or because I'm pg. I feel like my body is playing tricks on me. I was so sure before that we caught the egg and now I just don't think so. I have been keeping myself busy with my brother being here and all but now he left yesterday so we'll see how it goes. no sore boobsd or anything and I don't remember when that started for me the last time but I think it was after I knew I was pg. ok I'll stop rambling now. Dust to you all!!
 
Heyy , currently on 5dpo, frequent urinating, absolute foul mood, and i mean FOUL...
Bloating, af like cramps ( hope AF doesnt come this week when it was only last week i finished my last AF)
Feel like crying all the time, stress is getting to me and DH, im also, sounds tmi and weird, but very wet down there, but its not like CM its just watery, CP is now high very hard and closed with no cm at all...

How are you ? I know what u mean about trying to keep busy, ive tidied the whole house today and its still only half five.. Gosh lol! xxx
 
Hanging in there... Wishing this week to go by fast! Did you have a good weekend?
 
Was alright i suppose, but from not leaving the house all weekend and arguing with DH about crap the weekend is just crap i cant wait to go back to work xxx
 
Boy am i getting cramps tonight :/ Is this normal They feel strikingly similar to AF cramps but AF not due til 8th October :/
Feel like theres a heavy ball or pulling at the bottom of my tummy :( If its AF cramps its unlikely i caught my Ovulation on Tuesday :( xxxx
 

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