ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Angel i couldnt agree more with you!

 

[mommylov]

Amy thanks! Im actually getting my lab work results and then.maybe a hpt if its neg.

Sorry, that's what I meant

Going to sleep.... I'm just not in a good place right now.

Hope you all have a good night

 

[jen435]

Goodnight amy!! Thank you im super nervous!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[Crystal5483]

Hi :wave: can I join?

I had a D&C in May at 8w1d (baby passed at around 6wks). We've been TTC for two years. I had a suspected ectopic in Dec.

I just finished my 4th AF since the procedure. My cycles went from 32-34days to 26-28days. Has this happened to anyone else?? It's driving me crazy!! Bleeding is also way heavier than before for the first two days.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi :wave: can I join?

I had a D&C in May at 8w1d (baby passed at around 6wks). We've been TTC for two years. I had a suspected ectopic in Dec.

I just finished my 4th AF since the procedure. My cycles went from 32-34days to 26-28days. Has this happened to anyone else?? It's driving me crazy!! Bleeding is also way heavier than before for the first two days.

Of course you can join!! There is no need to even ask!! First of all, I am so so sorry for your mc. As you can see, we have all had mc here at all different points in pregnancy. From what I have seen, cycles seem to be all over the place after mc, and sometimes it takes several months for your cycle to return back to normal. So basically we come here to talk about our loss, give advice to each other, since all of us are ttc. This is a good place for you to vent about your struggles with ttc. I know it has been a Godsend for me. Basically we share with each strategies we use in our ttc journey, give advice and offer moral support. I know in my case, it can be very lonely in real life, where not a lot of people understand what I went through when I lost my baby at 18.5 weeks. Well anyways, feel free to join in all of our conversations and I wish you all the luck on your ttc journey!

 

[Storked]

Crystal, welcome and so sorry for your loss
As for cycles, mine got longer with lighter bleeding.

Jen are you testing?

How is Laura?

How is Horsey?

How is Amy?

How is Natasha?

How is Angel?

How is Danni?

My netgear was screwing up but we fixed it tonight and I am so stinking thrilled! And so far I have managed to trick my husband into BD every other day. I thought I would be so sad when my period came but I feel so relaxed. Happily reading and drinking soda again. Also, my husband bought plane tickets for Thailand (vacay, not the move yet) so I am just a happy girl all around! I hope everyone is doing great

 

[aaronswoman79]

Crystal, welcome and so sorry for your loss
As for cycles, mine got longer with lighter bleeding.

Jen are you testing?

How is Laura?

How is Horsey?

How is Amy?

How is Natasha?

How is Angel?

How is Danni?

My netgear was screwing up but we fixed it tonight and I am so stinking thrilled! And so far I have managed to trick my husband into BD every other day. I thought I would be so sad when my period came but I feel so relaxed. Happily reading and drinking soda again. Also, my husband bought plane tickets for Thailand (vacay, not the move yet) so I am just a happy girl all around! I hope everyone is doing great

Bethany!! You're back!! We've all missed you girl!! Sorry about af but happy to see that you are feeling great!! So when do you go on vacay with the hubby?

 

[Storked]

Dang it Jessica I left you out! Ugh I am sorry
We leave in April for a fun festival in Bangkok how are you doing? I have missed you guys too!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Dang it Jessica I left you out! Ugh I am sorry
We leave in April for a fun festival in Bangkok how are you doing? I have missed you guys too!

doing so so, right now I'm on my first tww!! First time in my life I have been ttc and now on 2ww!! It is so nerve racking! Good for you on the bd with husband. Its good to make it a regular routine rather than putting pressure towards ov time! So are your and DH planning on moving to Bangkok permanently?

 

[TTCSecrets]

Bethanyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!! Hurrayyyyyyyyyyy!!! You're back how are you!?!?! UPDATES!!!

Well ive had a bad few days, me and Aarons are in the same boat, quite literally, currently 6dpo, weird pressure in my stomach,nausea when i first wake up and briefly in the evenings. Feel alot calmer today, and ive decided if i dont get my sticky bean this month, im either gonna go all or nothing next month, so either do bbt,opk the lot, or just not do anything lol!!

Thanks for all your support girls , i had a really bad day yesterday thankyou so much for listening, if it werent for you guys yesterday i probably would have just had an actual meltdown

Jen good luck for testing!! Praying for you !!!!!

Laura hope your okay today!!! Good luck with the bloods etc...
Danielle ? The rest of you? Hope youre okay!

And hey Crystal! The girls here are FANTASTIC i dont know what id have done without them the past few weeks since my DnC, Really sorry about your MC I had a DNC 17th August , had my first AF on 10th September, and currently 6dpo ( and counting ) !!! Hope your okay? xxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

And ive just realised i tested positive with last PG at 10DPO, with an SDA cheapie at 11pm at night with diluted urine, which im tkaing as i can try that this time... I think im going to buy a few FRERs and wait for my internet cheapies to come, and use the internet cheapies and then a FRER if it looks like its getting a line, the next few months are going to cost me a fortune in FRERS, the cheapest i ever see them is £9 for 2 on offer every once in a while xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Bethanyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!! Hurrayyyyyyyyyyy!!! You're back how are you!?!?! UPDATES!!!

Well ive had a bad few days, me and Aarons are in the same boat, quite literally, currently 6dpo, weird pressure in my stomach,nausea when i first wake up and briefly in the evenings. Feel alot calmer today, and ive decided if i dont get my sticky bean this month, im either gonna go all or nothing next month, so either do bbt,opk the lot, or just not do anything lol!!

Thanks for all your support girls , i had a really bad day yesterday thankyou so much for listening, if it werent for you guys yesterday i probably would have just had an actual meltdown

Jen good luck for testing!! Praying for you !!!!!

Laura hope your okay today!!! Good luck with the bloods etc...
Danielle ? The rest of you? Hope youre okay!

And hey Crystal! The girls here are FANTASTIC i dont know what id have done without them the past few weeks since my DnC, Really sorry about your MC I had a DNC 17th August , had my first AF on 10th September, and currently 6dpo ( and counting ) !!! Hope your okay? xxxxx

Natasha, do u have any other kids or are you ttc for first. I also feel weird lately. Can't really explain it.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Jess, Dont have any other children this will be my first ( well technically second cos i include angel baby lol i dont know if thats nice or a bit weird ? ) I know, i feel off it, i want to say i feel pregnant but i just feel offish... Like i am just complacent. Ive got back ache all over my hip bone area and now i have to go sit at a desk all day im just like FFS lol... Do u have any other children xx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Oh i meant to ask , any of you really, I have a blood test tomorrow to check for anemia, and ive just been on the nhs website and it says blood tests can pick up hcg in small levels from 6dpo and tomorrow i will be seven, do you think its worth ringing them today and asking my doctor if i can have a check for my hcg levels added onto it as well? BEcause if they say no its below five and isnt moving ill know not to bother this month and prepare for next month? OR shall i leave it to myself to start hpt'ing towards thursday/friday this week? x

 

[aaronswoman79]

Jess, Dont have any other children this will be my first ( well technically second cos i include angel baby lol i dont know if thats nice or a bit weird ? ) I know, i feel off it, i want to say i feel pregnant but i just feel offish... Like i am just complacent. Ive got back ache all over my hip bone area and now i have to go sit at a desk all day im just like FFS lol... Do u have any other children xx

I will just say that I am also feeling "weird" a little sleepier and peeing more, but I think it is too early for me to feel anything like that. So of course I feel like I am going crazy or something. I have had 3 other pregnancies and I have always felt like this at the beginning, but not this early, so I think it is just wishful thinking because I feel so freakin depressed lately, and its affecting my mental state. I am so scared because I am about to turn 33 and maybe I am not very fertile anymore, especially because I only have 1 ovary!! I have 2 daughters one is going to be turning 13 and the other is 6 going on 7. My baby that I lost was my 3rd pregnancy, my first little boy!! It was so sad finding out I was going to give my husband a son in such horrible circumstances. At times I don't know how to go without him. I miss him dearly. I just want to rewind time and have him back in my tummy. Like I said, my mental state is not too good right now. lol.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Oh i meant to ask , any of you really, I have a blood test tomorrow to check for anemia, and ive just been on the nhs website and it says blood tests can pick up hcg in small levels from 6dpo and tomorrow i will be seven, do you think its worth ringing them today and asking my doctor if i can have a check for my hcg levels added onto it as well? BEcause if they say no its below five and isnt moving ill know not to bother this month and prepare for next month? OR shall i leave it to myself to start hpt'ing towards thursday/friday this week? x

I am gonna research about the early blood test and hcg levels, because you very well maybe pregnant, but if it is too early, I don't want you to feel down in case you get a negative but very well may be pregnant!! I know it is so hard to wait. I am in the same boat as you hon. And all of the anxieties and weird symptoms you are having, I am right there with you!

 

[TTCSecrets]

Im the same as you, when are you going to test?

Well, in a way im glad i have my own son looking out for me in heaven, keeps a little bit of faith there for me, that he knows what hes doing and will send a sibling down when he feels its time. And this time it will stick, i mean to be honest id rather it take a little longer to conceive but know its going to stick , if that makes sense..

I didnt know you only had one ovary i must have missed that somewhere if ud already mentioned it, dont think of yourself as infertile, you will catch the egg this month im positive! You hear of women who get their tubes tied still managing to get a surprise pregnancy , so if its meant to be it will be! I am positive we will soon JEss!

I have the peeing twice an hour too, normally only go a few times a day, i even thought, maybe im drinking alot to fool myself into thinking im peeing alot, so yesterday at work i had very minimal to drink and i was still peeing! But my pee no matter what i drink, smells a bit like mans pee, quite strong, gross i know but it does, and its really cloudy. So im hoping its not an infection or something silly...

When are you testing being that we are both about the same dpo? xxx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Im the same as you, when are you going to test?

Well, in a way im glad i have my own son looking out for me in heaven, keeps a little bit of faith there for me, that he knows what hes doing and will send a sibling down when he feels its time. And this time it will stick, i mean to be honest id rather it take a little longer to conceive but know its going to stick , if that makes sense..

I didnt know you only had one ovary i must have missed that somewhere if ud already mentioned it, dont think of yourself as infertile, you will catch the egg this month im positive! You hear of women who get their tubes tied still managing to get a surprise pregnancy , so if its meant to be it will be! I am positive we will soon JEss!

I have the peeing twice an hour too, normally only go a few times a day, i even thought, maybe im drinking alot to fool myself into thinking im peeing alot, so yesterday at work i had very minimal to drink and i was still peeing! But my pee no matter what i drink, smells a bit like mans pee, quite strong, gross i know but it does, and its really cloudy. So im hoping its not an infection or something silly...

When are you testing being that we are both about the same dpo? xxx

This is interesting, I got my first af on September 5th and according to my cycle I was also oving around Wednesday the 19th too. You probably have a shorter cycle than me? Or am I a complete idiot and doing all of this wrong!! Oh no. I feel this tightening like I am ovulating right now, I hope not. Because I pushed my dh to bd 5 times last week. And the poor man was almost dead after every time because of his work schedule!