ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Laura im also glad you can rest and take care of LO. Its a great thing that you dont have to be around those chemicals now for a while.

 

[lilesMom]

Laura Just saw your post. Im sorry doctor gave you a hard time. That is HORRIBLE Your baby will be just fine. Have you called your OBGYN yet? I would be seen by them. You and your baby will be okay. Your body was ready or it wouldnt have happened. You where so patient this is it. Your rainbow baby! Sweetie dont worry call up your obgyn.

thanks hon, im calming down now was just so mad
u dont tell a woman who had mc while back that maybe she will have another one now cos she didnt listen to u and more so cos she was bloody wrong .
we dont have them jen, the only thing we get is scan at 12 weeks, we dont get anything before that even though i had a loss.
i have a gynae scan on wed that had been organised before and an appointment with liver speacialist on thurs so at least they can answer my qs xx

 

[lilesMom]

Natasha ive been having that same wet stuff you described since Ovulation. I want to believe its a good sign and it is annoying because my af is late (but i did O late) so I keep thinking she is coming. Fxd Natasha its okay to have that!

Laura this is terrible how that doctor is. Please switch doctors. You need to be in good hands.

girls i had this last week, it was like sweat but it wasnt , which sounds gross, thinking it must be good sign too xxx

 

[lilesMom]

i think she is just a bad doc, last time i had the loss, i had spotting she tested my hcg and was meant do a second test, she said results were so high she wouldnt do second test cos all seemed ok, ( she also admitted she googled to see if my levels were ok or not ) , turns out it wasnt but i didnt find out till later cos she hadnt done the second one.

ok i need to forget about her and calm down xxxxxxx

how ye all xxxx

 

[jen435]

Aww hugs laura. Youll be okay! Fx for your scan and consult!

Im ok. Very tired keep thinking af is here. I just know its coming ... I hate being late for af and not knowing. Ill be thrilled for a bfp but i am not even getting a faint line and af is 4 days late now... My body is achey and my feet are crampy. I just want to know. I had a beta test this morning so praying to have an anwser by tom.

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

Aww hugs laura. Youll be okay! Fx for your scan and consult!

Im ok. Very tired keep thinking af is here. I just know its coming ... I hate being late for af and not knowing. Ill be thrilled for a bfp but i am not even getting a faint line and af is 4 days late now... My body is achey and my feet are crampy. I just want to know. I had a beta test this morning so praying to have an anwser by tom.

thanks xx
thank god they test for u , fx , it is horrible not knowing xxxxxx big hugs xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

angel thanks and fx for u chick xxxxxxx

 

[jen435]

Okay angel i may be a lil crazy w my ideas but they work w my dh so here are some
Dress up for him if u want u can even go out w him and let him pick out something new for the bedroom.
Make or buy a game that gets u both excited
Touch him all over all the time not just when ur getting ready to bd. Play footies. Lean on his shoulder.touch his shoulder while scouting behind him etc..
Give him a nightout with guys he will come back excited to see u
Watch a movie in candlelight and cuddle always leads to other things
Leave him romantic notes in his wallet vehicle house or lunch bag goes a long way and its fun if they leave them back (texts are over rated and expected)
Compliment him and praise him def a turn on to a man
Date night put on a hot dress and do your makeup and hair
Candle light dinner with finger foods you can feed eachother (or just the dessert part)
Essential oil (lavender helps relaxation) offer him a massage or take turns or go for a couples massage
If u can when he is in the shower turn the living room floor into a bed with pillows blankets maybe your coach cushions. What i mean is spice it up make other places in ur house exotic if u can and change the lighting if u can
Oh and something that works well for me is acting interested in his day even if it was dull
Something i do to is play dress up like a cheerleader (hs girl/teacher). You get the idea and have fun with it.
Really depends on you and dh though what would work also i have no children so we do alot.more diff things but.these are a few. Hope they help!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Questions: AF came fast and furious flew in like mad on Wed and then was barely around Friday, did your first AF do this too? Also, did you ovulate at your normal interval after first AF? (I don't want to miss O and used to get positive OPK on CD13...I just wonder if a D&C changes this)

Yes, my af was all over the place. Light one day heavy the next, went away for a day came back heavy, then toward the end it was pretty normal. As for the ovulation part goes, I don't believe I ov at the normal time, seeing as how I got my af at a completely different time of the month. .

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[lilesMom]

jessica how r u hon, sorry i was too busy ranting a min ago xx
hope ur well xxxx

angel i forgot to answer that bit too, my first af was very short and i waited 5.5 weeks for it to come, im pretty sure i Ov on day 10 after it, i dont use opk , i go by my Ov signs xx

 

[aaronswoman79]

Questions: AF came fast and furious flew in like mad on Wed and then was barely around Friday, did your first AF do this too? Also, did you ovulate at your normal interval after first AF? (I don't want to miss O and used to get positive OPK on CD13...I just wonder if a D&C changes this)

Hi Angel! Thanks for the well wishes but I think I will be joinin gyou gyus next month. I poas this morning and got another Af is due to arrive at the end of this week. I think the last time I got pg I got my the day af was due so that is giving me some hope but I just feel so down and depressed I kept poking at my (.)(.) in hopes that they will be sore but nothing. :Sigh: just dont know how to get out of this funk.

As for my first af post op, mine didnt start fast. It started on Aug 30th and lasted until Sep 5-6ish. It became heavy after the 1st day or two which is normal for me but the length of time was not normal. Im normally done within 5 days. Hope that helps!

hon, I think that testing this early will usually yield a negative result. Because you are due for af in several days. Even when I got my bfp 2 days before my period was due, the line was so faint, not even my husband could see it, but i did. As for the sore boobs. I think every pregnancy is different, I never got sore boobs right away, and during my last pregnancy with my younger daughter I never felt sore boobs at all (weird huh). I know it is really hard to wait to test. I have over 1 week left to test, and I don't know how in the world I am going to wait this long. I doubt I will get bfp though. This is my first time trying since I got my first af after dnc. I really have no idea when I really ovulated or anything. I am not using opks or anything, just playing a guessing game.

 

[lilesMom]

fx for u jessica u never know relaxed approach can work

 

[aaronswoman79]

I am caught up on two pages now, hope everyones okay?

Im on 5dpo, feeling very crampy, huge headache, very watery CM if thats normal? High closed hard as nails cervix.. Feel very moody, absolutely shattered, ( its half five pm here and im ready for bed ) feel like crying. Not doing very well and htis 2ww is killing me, and especially since i am positive i O'd on tuesday last week, even though charts said it should have been yesterday, but had negative opks all weekend. And now im worrying that it was yesterday due to the cramps and htnking ive missed it since ive not BD since wednesday night Although i got positive opks two days before tuesday and then none this weekend, i literally want to sit and cry but i cant because when people ask what wrong i genuinely dont know what to reply ((( xx

I am going through the exact same thing as you. I am so worried that maybe I ov yesterday, and the last time me and hubby bd was Friday night early Saturday morning. I feel as though we should of bd on Saturday night just to seal in the deal. Now I am even worried maybe I never ov, maybe I ov too early. Maybe I haven't ov yet!! I hate this!! My mood is so crazy right now. I just feel so pissed and annoyed. And have no patience what so ever!!

 

[aaronswoman79]

hi guys , il catch up now soon, i just have to blurt this out , h aha

i went to my doc today to get bloods done and i wanted to ask few qs, she was really unhelpfull, she kind of gave out to me for not waiting till after the liver consultant but all the tests had come back alright so all the serious things had been ruled out, so we went ahead. she then said my mc might have been caused by my copper levels and could happen again, cos they r up, i then said but i was told they were only slightly up and she goes well i dont know anything about copper (it was the other doc in the place tested it for me) , i wouldnt have thought to test u for it anyway.
i came home and googled it, its low copper can cause mc, she had me so freaked for no real reason, i think she was pissed cos i didnt ask her advice before goin ahead.
i know i should prob have waited another month but i figured serious things were ruled out so i be fine, i wont be in a hurry back to her, think il go to the guy doc from now on.
if copper is very hig it can affect baby but mine wasnt mad high and i had been taking prenatals with copper in um.

Sorry to say this, but your doctor sounds like a control freak and now she is telling you things about copper that aren't true!! You researched and she was wrong right!! OMG you waited 3 months to ttc. This lady doesn't own you, whats her problem? She should be happy for you that you got your bfp, and now try to be more helpful. Yeah, I would change doctors if I were you, you definitely do not need the added stress right now. It is time for you to be so happy and hopeful!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

Laura thats exactly how i would describe it! Its like sweat but it isnt! And it has a slight yellowy tinge, not yellow, just so i can see it on underwear, sorry girls lol! I just hope its a good sign cos im getting the * i feel out this month * feeling.. I think part of me doesnt want to think im pregnant, and im obsesing everytime i wipe im hoping to see a speck of IB even though i had none last time

Boobs dont hurt, nothing, just feel nauseous, peeing alot and have all this wet stuff down there.. And ive just done my daily CP check and it has now gone from high hard and closed to quite low firm and closed.. I dont get it... Cos apparently u dry up after ovulation but i havent I dont want to get excited now,

I just keep remembering, all that sex ed in school made u frightened to even look at a boy in case you get PG, and now you can have sex every other day for a month and not catch!
Hmmmffff, feeling very irritable and moody , which in turn is a sign of pregnancy, but then im thinking, well actually, am i just moody and irritable because i just want to be PG yesterday and not have the torturous trecherous 2ww, i think id rather take a 2 hour walk across a bridge above a volcano than have to wait for two weeks to find out the result

Just ordered some ICheapies of 10miu and it may help me depress the urge to test because they wont be here til thursday at the earliest so i cant test til then ( 10 dpo ) xxxx How are u all doing xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

 

[TTCSecrets]

I am caught up on two pages now, hope everyones okay?

Im on 5dpo, feeling very crampy, huge headache, very watery CM if thats normal? High closed hard as nails cervix.. Feel very moody, absolutely shattered, ( its half five pm here and im ready for bed ) feel like crying. Not doing very well and htis 2ww is killing me, and especially since i am positive i O'd on tuesday last week, even though charts said it should have been yesterday, but had negative opks all weekend. And now im worrying that it was yesterday due to the cramps and htnking ive missed it since ive not BD since wednesday night Although i got positive opks two days before tuesday and then none this weekend, i literally want to sit and cry but i cant because when people ask what wrong i genuinely dont know what to reply ((( xx

I am going through the exact same thing as you. I am so worried that maybe I ov yesterday, and the last time me and hubby bd was Friday night early Saturday morning. I feel as though we should of bd on Saturday night just to seal in the deal. Now I am even worried maybe I never ov, maybe I ov too early. Maybe I haven't ov yet!! I hate this!! My mood is so crazy right now. I just feel so pissed and annoyed. And have no patience what so ever!!

You know whats weird... Looking at your posts is like reading my diary, im not even gonna say how i feel because you hit the nail on the head with each word above^...i could actually sit n cry... Cos im thinking god if id just bit the bullet and had sex last night and night before id be okay either way! But all ive had is watery/creamy yellow tinged CM, nothing stretchy etc, quite clumpy if anything EW... And im now thinking, maybe i just didnt O and im having a Phantom tww to end in misery ((( xxx