ttc after a d&c

[mommylov]

Thanks Jen... That's gives me hope

Jess, your daughter is darling, I'm sorry shopping wasn't pleasant for you. I can only imagine what the stores are like right now but I hope you enjoy this time with her. They say kids grow up so fast as I'm sure you already know. Hope you got what you needed from the store and still hoping we get our bfp

 

[TTCSecrets]

Laura so so so glad the scan went well!!! So happy for you!!

Amy i often think that maybe something went wrong but whenever i tell the doctors they say its normal and it can take a while, if youre really worried go see a doctor chick and demand they look into it for you!!

Jen hey! Glad you okay!! I know, proud of myself so far lol!

Jess i think me you and amy are roughly the same in the cycle! You testing?


Amy, im the same as you, i was lying in bed dying for my FMU this morning , i actually woke myself up at 9 am because i needed a wee which is unusua for me so think i may be getting a uti or something, so i decided to poas (((( What an idiot i am, BFN, which i knew would happen so why did i waste my last frer :S God i feel daft, only 10dpo, but with af being due on thursday i thought maybe id have some luck ( But no ((

Hope youre all okay xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Okay ladies this post might be a long one but im just clutching at hopeful straws to help ease the stress....

I have been to see a medium/psychich about three times in the past 4 four years, she went into alot of detail and i dont know if u are skeptical or believe in the good ones but here is a brief overview to show you why im mentioning this..., the first time i went i was in a very abusive violent relationship, and she picked up on it and told me everything that had happened, which was true.. The second time i went after i had left that ex, and she said that i will meet somebody with the letters S and C in the name, so i though ScotT maybe? But now im with ChriS...She basically knew everythat that would happen to me etc. She told me things about my job which came true, and told me things about my family which came true...

Now i went to see her a week after the DandC hoping she would be able to tell me he was okay in heaven and put my mind at rest that it wasnt my fault...As soon as i got there she started crying and said that she was very sorry for my loss and that the baby was fine and didnt want me to be sad and he just had to go to heaven . Anyway long story short, she said that she sees a baby in August/September, and she said she didnt know if it was that i would conceive this past august september or if i would give birth next august september ( meaning i would get pg this december) she asked if i wanted to know what sex the baby would be and i said yeah she said it would be a girl.. which i knew anyway, now, just for fun.. Ive just been on the Chinese Gender Calendar, and it says if i were to get pregnant this october, it would be a boy, if i were to get pregnant this november, it would be a boy, but if i were to get pregnant this december,, It would be a girl, im literally clutching at hopeful straws here lol! Maybe im wasting my time and money between now and december?

I know some of u may not believe in this sort of thing , i didnt until i went to see her, but it helps me believe and keep faith xxxx

 

[lilesMom]

jen thanks hon, hope sandy wears herself out a LOT before she reaches u r better still never reaches u xxxx
hurray for rapidly growing baby mine is 2.11 cms now but that well over double a week and half ago
hope u feel much better really soon hon, i know being sick at normal times isnt nice but especacially not now xxxx
i tried looking up was what i said true and could only find that i might deliver early , that would be nice, a little early , not too much i might just keep on believing it will make it easier anyway


amy what jen says is very true, u Ov late so would realistically get late bfp too xxx
i have been thinking same as jen, if i had been trying i odnt think i would have got bfp sooner , it took that long for my afs to be more normal. a lovely nurse int hte hosp when i was ahving my d and e, said to me that she had the same as me , mmc and d and e , she said to wait 3 cycles to feel more normal mentally and physically. so maybe ur body knows best? xxxx fx for u sweetie.

hi jessica , ur DD is so pretty xxx

still cathcin up here

 

[lilesMom]

natasha i do believe in stuff like this but dont take it as absolute, u could get preg now and go over and be born start of aug? or she could be out a little r wrong
keep goin as u r goin without her influence but its nice to have it as reassurance in ur mind all the same xxx

 

[lilesMom]

gotta go help my mom mind my fave kiddies

 

[TTCSecrets]

Cos its just i had a big cry upstairs and a rant at DH because he said i need to just leave the ttc and let it happen and hes sick of seeing me cry at every BFN or AF, and i said but i need to feel like i can control it and that he doesnt understand and he just kind of said that if af turns up this week he would like me to leave it a month and not do any charting or any opking and just bd as we normally would and see how it happens and i just feel like im the only one trying and all he is doing is providng the sperm? I dont mean that to sound horrible but i feel like im the only one who actually remembers how long it took us to conceive angel baby and then we lost him and now im trying again i feel like hes just complacent., I could sit and cry again i dont know what to do xxxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Just dropping in for a quick post (I'll catch up shortly)...so far, so good with Hurricane Sandy. Jen, sounds like you have everything ready (I have a similar list...for more than Level 2 we board windows and use sandbags). Might I suggest checking your propane tank for your grill? We tend to grill a lot when without power. Stay safe ladies! Can't wait to catch up!

Note the light has been blown sideways!

 

[lilesMom]

um im not sure what to say to u natasha, its hard when one person wants to go gung ho for it and the other person wants to take it more relaxed, he is prob only saying it cos he hates to see u upset hon, i know what u mean about wanting to control it but in all reality we really cant, we can help it but not control it. xxxx fx for u hon xxxxxxxxxxx

angel glad things r good so far, hope they continue to be. xx
when do they reckon it will have passed by? xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Just dropping in for a quick post (I'll catch up shortly)...so far, so good with Hurricane Sandy. Jen, sounds like you have everything ready (I have a similar list...for more than Level 2 we board windows and use sandbags). Might I suggest checking your propane tank for your grill? We tend to grill a lot when without power. Stay safe ladies! Can't wait to catch up!

Note the light has been blown sideways!

Stay safe ladies! My in laws are out on Long Island so I know they are saying this is a scary one. Praying for you girls!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hi ladies!

Jen. We normally host everyone here during storms too because our generator is wired to the house. So far we just have wind and rising water levels. I hope the meds are helping and you are feeling better.

Laura. I too wonder if our body/cervix has a memory for dilation. I guess you'll let us know in 7 months! (BTW the storm should pass me by tomorrow evening)

Jen and Laura ~ Love the heartbeats! Bet you feel so much better seeing them!

Amy. Sorry this tww is challenging. I hope, if you decided to call, I hope the Dr is willing to see you and help answer any questions you may have. I know the feeling you are having, so it is perfectly normal to want the Dr to check! Fx your BFP gets here ASAP!

Natasha. Psychic sounds so promising! It doesn't hurt to have something to look forward to, so no harm done in going to see her! I LOVE the M&M idea. I pray God blesses us all again with sticky beans so that we can indulge in the fun ways to tell our loved ones!

Jessica. Trick or Treat! Another lovely picture of your beautiful daughter!

Amy, Tash & Jessica... and Fx for your BFPs! extra for the TWW!

Bethany. Hope you are well and adjusting!

 

[mommylov]

Hi ladies!

Jen. We normally host everyone here during storms too because our generator is wired to the house. So far we just have wind and rising water levels. I hope the meds are helping and you are feeling better.

Laura. I too wonder if our body/cervix has a memory for dilation. I guess you'll let us know in 7 months! (BTW the storm should pass me by tomorrow evening)

Jen and Laura ~ Love the heartbeats! Bet you feel so much better seeing them!

Amy. Sorry this tww is challenging. I hope, if you decided to call, I hope the Dr is willing to see you and help answer any questions you may have. I know the feeling you are having, so it is perfectly normal to want the Dr to check! Fx your BFP gets here ASAP!

Natasha. Psychic sounds so promising! It doesn't hurt to have something to look forward to, so no harm done in going to see her! I LOVE the M&M idea. I pray God blesses us all again with sticky beans so that we can indulge in the fun ways to tell our loved ones!

Jessica. Trick or Treat! Another lovely picture of your beautiful daughter!

Amy, Tash & Jessica... and Fx for your BFPs! extra for the TWW!

Bethany. Hope you are well and adjusting!

Thanks Hun. I feel sick, like achy non stop sneezing "cold/flu" sick I just poas and still - but I told dh I won't take meds until I know I'm not pg for sure even though my heart is telling me I'm not. Angel and Jen, keep us posted on the storm and how you guys are holding up.

Laura, sweet baby dreams

Jess and tash, fx this week for your bfp's!!!

Bethany and horsey, still missing you girls!

to you all and anyone I've missed!

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi ladies!

Jen. We normally host everyone here during storms too because our generator is wired to the house. So far we just have wind and rising water levels. I hope the meds are helping and you are feeling better.

Laura. I too wonder if our body/cervix has a memory for dilation. I guess you'll let us know in 7 months! (BTW the storm should pass me by tomorrow evening)

Jen and Laura ~ Love the heartbeats! Bet you feel so much better seeing them!

Amy. Sorry this tww is challenging. I hope, if you decided to call, I hope the Dr is willing to see you and help answer any questions you may have. I know the feeling you are having, so it is perfectly normal to want the Dr to check! Fx your BFP gets here ASAP!

Natasha. Psychic sounds so promising! It doesn't hurt to have something to look forward to, so no harm done in going to see her! I LOVE the M&M idea. I pray God blesses us all again with sticky beans so that we can indulge in the fun ways to tell our loved ones!

Jessica. Trick or Treat! Another lovely picture of your beautiful daughter!

Amy, Tash & Jessica... and Fx for your BFPs! extra for the TWW!

Bethany. Hope you are well and adjusting!

Hi Angel, I hope all of you are safe over there with the storms. The weather has been pretty crazy these last few months. Over here in California we have even had hot weather in late October, very rare. So do you have any plans for Halloween? I just finished Halloween shopping for both daughters. The first baby pic, was my younger daughter who is now 6, and the one I have up right now is my soon to be 13 year old daughter. It was so so hard to go Halloween shopping for her. Nothing decent out there for a 13 year old. She can't fit into kids costumes, she is almost 5'7'', and the women's costumes are all skin tight or just out right slutty lol. Not ok for an almost 13 year old. It is a constant battle raising a teenager. Hey at least she can help me with the new baby to come. That is if I ever get my bfp . So, do you have all bases covered for this cycle? Is your hunny home yet?

 

[aaronswoman79]

jen thanks hon, hope sandy wears herself out a LOT before she reaches u r better still never reaches u xxxx
hurray for rapidly growing baby mine is 2.11 cms now but that well over double a week and half ago
hope u feel much better really soon hon, i know being sick at normal times isnt nice but especacially not now xxxx
i tried looking up was what i said true and could only find that i might deliver early , that would be nice, a little early , not too much i might just keep on believing it will make it easier anyway


amy what jen says is very true, u Ov late so would realistically get late bfp too xxx
i have been thinking same as jen, if i had been trying i odnt think i would have got bfp sooner , it took that long for my afs to be more normal. a lovely nurse int hte hosp when i was ahving my d and e, said to me that she had the same as me , mmc and d and e , she said to wait 3 cycles to feel more normal mentally and physically. so maybe ur body knows best? xxxx fx for u sweetie.

hi jessica , ur DD is so pretty xxx

still cathcin up here

Thank hon, that pic is of my older daughter, she is almost 13! Imagine me with an infant and a teenager. hehe. She can help me change diapers. Congrats on the healthy pregnancy hon. Hopefully we can all catch up to you soon enough, she we can all be bump buddies.

 

[aaronswoman79]

Hi ladies!

Jen. We normally host everyone here during storms too because our generator is wired to the house. So far we just have wind and rising water levels. I hope the meds are helping and you are feeling better.

Laura. I too wonder if our body/cervix has a memory for dilation. I guess you'll let us know in 7 months! (BTW the storm should pass me by tomorrow evening)

Jen and Laura ~ Love the heartbeats! Bet you feel so much better seeing them!

Amy. Sorry this tww is challenging. I hope, if you decided to call, I hope the Dr is willing to see you and help answer any questions you may have. I know the feeling you are having, so it is perfectly normal to want the Dr to check! Fx your BFP gets here ASAP!

Natasha. Psychic sounds so promising! It doesn't hurt to have something to look forward to, so no harm done in going to see her! I LOVE the M&M idea. I pray God blesses us all again with sticky beans so that we can indulge in the fun ways to tell our loved ones!

Jessica. Trick or Treat! Another lovely picture of your beautiful daughter!

Amy, Tash & Jessica... and Fx for your BFPs! extra for the TWW!

Bethany. Hope you are well and adjusting!

Thanks Hun. I feel sick, like achy non stop sneezing "cold/flu" sick I just poas and still - but I told dh I won't take meds until I know I'm not pg for sure even though my heart is telling me I'm not. Angel and Jen, keep us posted on the storm and how you guys are holding up.

Laura, sweet baby dreams

Jess and tash, fx this week for your bfp's!!!

Bethany and horsey, still missing you girls!

to you all and anyone I've missed!

Hi Amy!! How are things goin? I hope you are feeling better. . Are you waiting on testing again? You are still early right? I haven't started testing yet. I am not going to test this cycle, because I am pretty sure I am not pregnant. I will only test if my af is late. I can't deal with the heart break of seeing bfn after bfn, it really takes an emotional toll doesn't it. It totally screws with my head. One of us has to get a bfp sooner than later. I feel the odds are with us, and we are doing all that we can to assist mother nature on helping things happen.

 

[lilesMom]

hi guys hope all still safe and well .xxx
jessica defo on the bump buddies
no news here, just had a visit from my sis and my 2 fave kiddies, their parents r in las vegas at the mo for a friend's wedding, they cant come home as planned cos of sandy , they have to re route but they will only be half a day late so not too bad .
sandy is causing a lot of trouble , the sooner she exhausts herself the better .
and to all xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Jessica, your daughter is gorgeous! You are going to be in trouble when she gets older with the boys if you arent already!

Im def feeling out.. had what I think was a tiny spot this mornign when I wiped so I think AF is on her way. I am going to look into getting in to see the dr and maybe they will have some answers for me... just feel so down right now

 

[lilesMom]

aw amy hugs sweetie, when did u have late Ov? would it be IB xxxxxx
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

I dont think so.. I got my + opk on the 17th and its now the 29th so I think thats a little late.

 

[xoxo4angel]

Psst. This is still a no AF keep the away zone!!!

Oh Amy Maybe the Dr testing will help ease your mind and make future 2ww easier. The worry cannot be good for you. Meanwhile, I'm still keeping my fx that you get a BFP in a day or so!

Jessica. I imagine it is really tough shopping for costumes for a little woman! It would be nice if they had more conservative costumes! We don't have any plans for Halloween...we'll prob just pass out candy to the trick or treators.

Laura. I hope those stuck in Vegas were actually stuck in Vegas and not an airport! Nice that you get to visit with your family often. Mine is 4 hours away, but we talk daily!

AFM. I think we did what we could this round ttc. Now it's in Gods hands.