ttc after a d&c

[jen435]

Wow I missed alot! Lets see what I remember with my mind...

Angel I hope all went ok with dh and you where able to have a wonderful night and forgive him Yay!! For unblocking your tube!! It should be a good month ill pray for it to happen! Glad it wasnt painful and went well!

Amy so sorry your still passing. Glad ur hcg is so low though. You should be at 0 in no time again I cant express how sorry I am u had to experience this again. Know u are loved and yll be well taken care of this round.

Laura hope ur holding up ok sweety. Thursday is just &round the corner. your Lo is going to be amazing!! I just know it.

Tash a puppy eeek!! Im soooo excited for you! love ur name choices!!! Once u meet him ull know what his name will be!! My dh and I would be lost without our kobe!! You will find so much joy!!

Bethany HI!!! Thank you for sharing! We love you and cant wait to have u back! Hope u kitty n dh are holding up okay!! Turkey day is thursday and I cant wait for dinner!! Turkey breast mashed potatoes gravy biscuits drool. I cant stomach the vegs atm but pumpkin pie drool. Whats ur favorite?? I love being with the family too!! Love you bethany!!! Hope all is well and your cheering up.

Laura you nailed it. Its so hard I dreamed of my sons birth the other night and him being wrapped up in his umbilical cord and the doctor handing me my life less son I had no dreams since jan 2012 and this is my first? I never even thought of this happening. Now I fear delivery Not even sure ill make it that far but I can pray. My high risk doctor said at 19wks I will need cervix stitches because I had d&e at 20.5wks and my cervix is weak and long in length. He said he will keep eye on it. Laura did u talk with oh about ur finances and how u felt? How did it go? ya

Jessica when is ur next appt? Will u have a scan this week?? Im sure ur Lo is just fine. laura offered the best advice. Relax and take it one day at a time. I think itll be impossible to 100% after ur traumatic experience but u had two childern and can carry full term. So this LO has fighting chance.

 

[jen435]

Laura im so sorry! What happened?? I agree dont act on anthing now ur hormones are raging of wrong emotions im sure. hope ull be ok!

Horseypants HI!! I hope ur doing okay sweety

 

[TTCSecrets]

Laura i agree with ames hormones have a huge part in this youll be fine!!

I know i cant wait for te puppy eeek so excited...

Im now very confused, FF is not showing ovulation at the moment, unless i put in a pretend temperature for tomorrow , and then it puts me at like 4dpo, but ive just been to the toilet, tmi alert, and my CM is like, creamy, quite alot of it, and ive noticed that theres a small patch where it is only slightly(but unmistakabley) brown tinted, so now im thinking well, maybe i havent ovulated at all yet and this is ovulation spotting? What do u girls think? xxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Amy i truly hope the bleeding stop soon, but, looking at it positively, its better for u to carry on bleeding, to make sure everything is out, than it stop and you have to prolong it or have a d and c I know that doesnt help but its all i can say to try and help xxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Thanks ladies. I def want to make sure everything cones out but it's a lot a d I didn't think there was that much in there. I didn't even a sac or anything yet and yet I feel like all my insides came out. I'm just so over this

 

[lilesMom]

amy great big hugs chick xxxxxxxxx

tash i donno bout ff friend but if i was u id bd the hell out of it for a few days get ur oh dad head phones or ear plugs xx

jen hi hon, hope ur feeling less sick xxxxxxx how u doin? i really want some of ur turkey dinner xxx stupid qs but do ye have chrsitmas as well as thanksgiving ?
xxx
edit: cos i didnt like my moany ness xxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

12 weeks preg in a few hrs , i really should be happier, fed up!!!!!!

 

[lilesMom]

i think i might do what bethany is doin and just take a break from here till after thurs, xxx il prob still stay caught up but maybe not post, im in a funk and wanna get myself out of it first xxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Oh Laura.... Big hugs to you hun. I don't know about your oh but I know sometimes pregnancy hormones can really get the best of you. Have you asked him point blank "can you please help with finances? This is your child ass well and I don't know if you realize but I'm really stressing out here". Maybe he'll then listen and get that this isn't good for you or his child. I'm really sorry you are feeling like this.

 

[mommylov]

Oh no! If you must leave I understand but we are here for you. You know you can always come here and vent anytime. I'm worried about you babe. I don't want you feeling like this and feeling sad and pregnant. Xxx

 

[lilesMom]

edit: cos i didnt like my moany ness xxxxx


il be better able to handle the whole lot after thurs, when i know hopefully that things should be ok
love and hugs amy, xxxx hope ur holding up alright and hope this is over for u soon sweetie xxxxxxxxxxxx take really good care of urself xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[lilesMom]

Oh no! If you must leave I understand but we are here for you. You know you can always come here and vent anytime. I'm worried about you babe. I don't want you feeling like this and feeling sad and pregnant. Xxx

my thanks is gone so thanks xxxxxxxxxx

 

[mommylov]

Awww ok. You know where to find us if you need us. Love you loads hun!!!!'

 

[mommylov]

And I totally understand what you mean by not needing to ask. You're right in that you shouldn't have to ask. Hugs and hope it gets better for you doll!

 

[lilesMom]

hey guys hope ye r all ok xxx
i had a lot of sleep and feel better, i slept 16 hrs between yest evew and last nt.
begining to think i may need to up my thyroid meda bit but they tested it anyway so waiting on results. whne u have low thyroid u can need more when preg.
hope ye r all good, soz for my ranting xxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Hey all, very quiet here this weekend!! HOpe youre all okay!

Laura i completely understand you, you shouldnt have to ask..

Glad you are feeling better after your big sleep though!! Sometimes the best cure for things is a good laugh and a good sleep!! Hope youre feeling better xxx

im just up, going to get some cleaning done and see what today brings, had a weird temperature today, so think i may be having an anolvulatory cycle xxxx

 

[mommylov]

Hey Laura glad you got some sleep and feel better xxx

Hi tash!

I went to bed last night thinking my bleeding was starting to taper off but not so much. Woke up this morning and its still going strong. In beginning to think something is wrong. I have passed A LOT of clots and blood and its still going. Have been officially bleeding for two weeks now. Out of those two weeks, 4 days have been extremely heavy.

 

[TTCSecrets]

Aww Ames Better out than in! You have to remember you have like 5 weeks worth of endometrium build up etc, i hope it stops by the endo f this week for you so you can start trying again and get a new year baby! xxx

 

[TTCSecrets]

Where are all u girls ( Xxx

 

[xoxo4angel]

Hi ladies! DH came in Friday and eventually we had a much needed talk...we were both trying to give each other the cold shoulder. After a couple of glasses of wine, our guards came down and we were able to talk it out. We have never argued, not until we started this ttc journey, so we are learning a lot about each other (even after 6 years of being together). It didn't take long to hash out...boils down to he couldn't "fix" what was causing me pain, so his solution was to ignore it! Men!

On that note...Laura hormones must be elevated like mad at this point. I used to think my DH should automatically know what I needed, until he admitted, "I am a man, I am going to make mistakes and all I can ask of you is to be patient with me and tell me when I am being stupid." You asked if all relationships are like what you and your OH have, I cannot answer that, but I do know every relationship has to be worked on at some point or another. Remember, mc takes an emotional toll on us and seeps into additional pregnancies. When we get scared about that pregnancy we can be quick to get mad about the most petty things (OH an easy target). Be glad your scan is a few days out and I am sure everything is going to be just fine with your LO! I also hope they are able to help out any issues you may be having with your thyroid. I hope this finds you feeling much better...and if not, then please remember this is the safest place to vent away! xoxo

Tash ~ Wonky temps there doll! I wonder what is going on...hmm...

Jen & Jess ~ Hope you and your bumps are doing well this weekend.

Amy~ Still bleeding...I am sure things are ok, but to put your mind at ease, call the Dr and ask to speak with the nurse. Tell her what is going on and she'll be able to answer your question or get you in to be seen. Fx for you.

Horsey ~ Did you hear from the Dr? They up your meds? Did you say this already? It's been a long weekend!

Bethany~ Hope you have great plans for Thanksgiving!

To the rest of you ladies! Hope you are well!