ttc after a d&c

[xoxo4angel]

You girls crack me up! Bethany...you said bathrooms echoing! Not easy to disguise whats going on in there! Oh and Amy we need play dates for our Dysons!

 

[mommylov]

heheh Bethany! I too am scared when I start hearing dh spray.. IS tay clear of that area of the house! Pee eewww!

Jess, Im really hopefully that things are going to be ok with you hun. I think Laura was trying to say that there is still much hope. Bledding can be a natural part of pregnancy... scary but natural. With everything that is going on with you and your daughter, Im sure it just feels like the walls are coming in. Take a moment and take a deep breath in. I do this all the time when I start to feel overwhelmed. Staying as calm as possible is much easier said than done but we are here for you and here to help! love you!!!!

 

[lilesMom]

i stil wont go with Oh in d bathroom, i have to shoo him out first

 

[mommylov]

You girls crack me up! Bethany...you said bathrooms echoing! Not easy to disguise whats going on in there! Oh and Amy we need play dates for our Dysons!

Im going to go home and take a pic of my little Dy in the same spot in my kitchen... TWINNING!!!!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Oh Jess...don't fret. We all have faith that everything is just fine with your LO. Comfy thoughts being sent your way. And sorry your DD is having a manic episode...fx it levels out soon.

 

[xoxo4angel]

You girls crack me up! Bethany...you said bathrooms echoing! Not easy to disguise whats going on in there! Oh and Amy we need play dates for our Dysons!

Im going to go home and take a pic of my little Dy in the same spot in my kitchen... TWINNING!!!!

See...some people have pics of their LOs, some of us our vacuums! And our twin fridges! (I had just finished vacuuming, I should have "staged" her out in the lawn! Hehehe!)

 

[aaronswoman79]

heheh Bethany! I too am scared when I start hearing dh spray.. IS tay clear of that area of the house! Pee eewww!

Jess, Im really hopefully that things are going to be ok with you hun. I think Laura was trying to say that there is still much hope. Bledding can be a natural part of pregnancy... scary but natural. With everything that is going on with you and your daughter, Im sure it just feels like the walls are coming in. Take a moment and take a deep breath in. I do this all the time when I start to feel overwhelmed. Staying as calm as possible is much easier said than done but we are here for you and here to help! love you!!!!

Thanks hon I really appreciate that. Because it is a highly sensitive time for me. I am already scared to death. So hearing 50/50 of course scared the hell out of me. I already don't have much hope for the pregnancy. I am expecting bad news. You see how negative my posts have been. I am trying not to be negative or focus on what chance of miscarriage I have. But I think anybody in my case would be scared by the prospect of 50/50, whether a doctor tell you or a friend. So in that case, I think it was natural for me to get scared. I haven't cried this whole time until today, I have been keeping everything in. I am just in so much mental pain right now. I feel like everything is falling apart from my family to my daughter who is mentally ill. I feel like a burden to everybody, especially because I am on bed rest.

 

[mommylov]

Lol!

 

[xoxo4angel]

Speaking of fridge...Bethany, or who else may know, can I freeze a loaf of bread? If so, once it is defrosted, how long is it good for?

 

[mommylov]

You can, my mom use to do it all the time and I think we used it up within 5-7 days

I freeze just about everything... Tortillas...anything

 

[lilesMom]

Speaking of fridge...Bethany, or who else may know, can I freeze a loaf of bread? If so, once it is defrosted, how long is it good for?

yeah u can hon but once it defrosts it isnt great as bread, its more suitable for toast i put it in s/w bags with 4 slices per bag and then just take out a bag when i need it and toast it, u can freeze the whole thing but when it comes out of freezer u usually need to defrost the whole thing cos if u try and pull off slices of bread they can break

 

[Storked]

Laura, Amy, and Angel…DH worked really hard for me to have the courage to pee in front of him. I never did that in my first marriage lol! But the other business is private for us both hehe. My mom used to muscle her way in when my dad was dumping and…why would you want to smell somebody’s shame?!

Jessica, don’t apologize. Assuming the worst is just your way of protecting yourself. we all have hope for you and your baby honey.

Angel, you can freeze bread! That is what my mom always did and it never seemed to last a shorter time period when defrosted, just the usualy for bread

 

[xoxo4angel]

Thanks ladies!

Edit: Using my phone and it is updating new post slowly. Anyway, to defrost it, if I don't want to use it as toast, do I just leave it on the counter to defrost?

 

[aaronswoman79]

Laura, Amy, and Angel…DH worked really hard for me to have the courage to pee in front of him. I never did that in my first marriage lol! But the other business is private for us both hehe. My mom used to muscle her way in when my dad was dumping and…why would you want to smell somebody’s shame?!

Jessica, don’t apologize. Assuming the worst is just your way of protecting yourself. we all have hope for you and your baby honey.

Angel, you can freeze bread! That is what my mom always did and it never seemed to last a shorter time period when defrosted, just the usualy for bread

I love you so much!! Wish I could go to Texas and give you a hug! Love all of you. Why does life have to be so hard at times? . Even if things don't work out for me. I will go back on what I previously said. I still want to have another baby, no matter what happens. I just want to get to the bottom of why my uterus seems to bleed easily. The lady who did the d&c said my uterus is healthy but who knows. I will keep you all update later on, and then I do have to go back to strict bed rest.

 

[lilesMom]

angel yeah just leave it on the counter, i always think the bread goes a little soggy r something though maybe thats just me being paranoid

jess best of luck hon xx

 

[lilesMom]

im off to bed, xx
to all x

 

[mommylov]

 

[mommylov]

Darn it why does it always post my pics sideways ... Oye

 

[xoxo4angel]

I'll be waiting to see how things go for you Jess!

Afm~ it started raining, so no Christmas tree today

 

[mommylov]

heheh Bethany! I too am scared when I start hearing dh spray.. IS tay clear of that area of the house! Pee eewww!

Jess, Im really hopefully that things are going to be ok with you hun. I think Laura was trying to say that there is still much hope. Bledding can be a natural part of pregnancy... scary but natural. With everything that is going on with you and your daughter, Im sure it just feels like the walls are coming in. Take a moment and take a deep breath in. I do this all the time when I start to feel overwhelmed. Staying as calm as possible is much easier said than done but we are here for you and here to help! love you!!!!

Thanks hon I really appreciate that. Because it is a highly sensitive time for me. I am already scared to death. So hearing 50/50 of course scared the hell out of me. I already don't have much hope for the pregnancy. I am expecting bad news. You see how negative my posts have been. I am trying not to be negative or focus on what chance of miscarriage I have. But I think anybody in my case would be scared by the prospect of 50/50, whether a doctor tell you or a friend. So in that case, I think it was natural for me to get scared. I haven't cried this whole time until today, I have been keeping everything in. I am just in so much mental pain right now. I feel like everything is falling apart from my family to my daughter who is mentally ill. I feel like a burden to everybody, especially because I am on bed rest.

You are not a burden at all doll! We love you loads and want to make sure you are ok and are here for you anytime! Xxxxxx