TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Firedancer41]

AFM - I have been miserable. My OPKs usually start darkening at cd11 with a positive at cd14. Nothing this month - it's stayed the same for the last three days. Everything else was telling me that I was coming to ovulation and this had me wondering what was going on. Now I have realised I am a twat. My regular seller is away so I bought different ovulation sticks. It said you could buy them in sensitivities of 20, 30 or 40 but if you didn't specify they would send 40.

I forgot to say didn't I so that's why - these are less sensitive. Anyway today - I have a positive so am happy. It's not even a my type of positive which never gets as dark as the control - it's POSITIVE!!! I am so excited it's pathetic lol

Did you see I was the same way about my +opk yesterday LOL Looks like we'll be cycle buddies this month

Feeling a little down today, as it was supposed to be my due date.

We have fun events all day at school and a concert at night, so thankfully I have something to keep my mind off of it. I usually focus on all the great things I have, but that's very hard to do today.

Jen {{{hugs}}}

 

[impatient1]

Thanks Impatient! How are you feeling hun?

I am doing pretty good, thank you. Still nervous from time to time and not feeling so pregnant right now, can't wait for it to all start feeling more real.

Wow V...I thought I was the only wacko LOL. BTW, I got the call for my second interview- it's Monday at 2:00! Yay!

Congratulations and good luck on your second interview!

Feeling a little down today, as it was supposed to be my due date.

We have fun events all day at school and a concert at night, so thankfully I have something to keep my mind off of it. I usually focus on all the great things I have, but that's very hard to do today.

I'm so sorry hun, it is a very hard day to have to deal with.

 

[Amos2009]

Vickie- yay for the positive!!! Get busy!!
Jen- sorry- those due dates are tough to get through. I am working on having a due date nearly every month at the rate I am going. I just have to pretend I don't know what day it is anymore
Meg- have you already seen your doctor since this last test? Have I missed a post about that?

 

[Amos2009]

Oh Vickie- we are waiting until we get to see the recurrent miscarriage specialist sometime in July. Hubby won't even have sex with me til then so it better be near the FIRST of July. I tried to tell him I know when I can get pregnant and he says he doesn't believe me! He is so scared to go through it again so he says he would rather wait til we see the doc. Me- I am about to explode from lack of sex!!!!

 

[impatient1]

I hope you get to see the doctor soon and get to start asap.

 

[puppymom32]

Awww Amos that sucks think u r gonna have to get him drunk and take advantage of him. LOL

 

[Amos2009]

I tried that, but the little rascal is pretty smart lol

 

[impatient1]

you may have to slip him some viagra or something, then tell him its not your fault that he seems to want some lol.

 

[Vickieh1981]

AFM - I have been miserable. My OPKs usually start darkening at cd11 with a positive at cd14. Nothing this month - it's stayed the same for the last three days. Everything else was telling me that I was coming to ovulation and this had me wondering what was going on. Now I have realised I am a twat. My regular seller is away so I bought different ovulation sticks. It said you could buy them in sensitivities of 20, 30 or 40 but if you didn't specify they would send 40.

I forgot to say didn't I so that's why - these are less sensitive. Anyway today - I have a positive so am happy. It's not even a my type of positive which never gets as dark as the control - it's POSITIVE!!! I am so excited it's pathetic lol

Did you see I was the same way about my +opk yesterday LOL Looks like we'll be cycle buddies this month

Feeling a little down today, as it was supposed to be my due date.

We have fun events all day at school and a concert at night, so thankfully I have something to keep my mind off of it. I usually focus on all the great things I have, but that's very hard to do today.

Excellent - would be great if it ended in a bfp for both of us. If England lose the match tonight though I think John is gonna be so pissed off he won't bd.

Jen {{{hugs}}}

Vickie- yay for the positive!!! Get busy!!
Jen- sorry- those due dates are tough to get through. I am working on having a due date nearly every month at the rate I am going. I just have to pretend I don't know what day it is anymore
Meg- have you already seen your doctor since this last test? Have I missed a post about that?

Oh Vickie- we are waiting until we get to see the recurrent miscarriage specialist sometime in July. Hubby won't even have sex with me til then so it better be near the FIRST of July. I tried to tell him I know when I can get pregnant and he says he doesn't believe me! He is so scared to go through it again so he says he would rather wait til we see the doc. Me- I am about to explode from lack of sex!!!!

Will try and get busy. I hope you get your appt soon.

 

[Megg33k]

Vickie- yay for the positive!!! Get busy!!
Jen- sorry- those due dates are tough to get through. I am working on having a due date nearly every month at the rate I am going. I just have to pretend I don't know what day it is anymore
Meg- have you already seen your doctor since this last test? Have I missed a post about that?

Nope! They didn't want to see me! I would assume its because she knows that I know what my tests mean as much as she does, and also knows that I know what the next step is without her help! She's come to trust me. So, I'm just moving on to the next cycle. I think it will be much better... for some reason!

Oh Vickie- we are waiting until we get to see the recurrent miscarriage specialist sometime in July. Hubby won't even have sex with me til then so it better be near the FIRST of July. I tried to tell him I know when I can get pregnant and he says he doesn't believe me! He is so scared to go through it again so he says he would rather wait til we see the doc. Me- I am about to explode from lack of sex!!!!

EEK! That's ridiculous! What are you thinking letting HIM make decisions? Do I need to learn you?

 

[goddess25]

Hi Megg can you put a BFP next to my name please.... was not going to do this as i am beign very cautious not doing the tickers or anything yet. Just hoping this one is a sticky bean. Got my BFP on Monday so in itself i am on a record apart from my son... both my losses were the day after my BFPs.

 

[SunShyn2205]

Congrats Goddess!

How is Everyone Doing??

 

[Mellybelle]

Could you add me? I had a mc in april 2010. 14ws 1 day

 

[aussiettc]

goddess congrats on your :BFP: hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months

 

[Megg33k]

Congrats, Goddess!

Mellybelle - Sorry for your loss, sweetie! I'll add you!

 

[MrsCrabsticke]

Could i be added, our last mmc was september 09 - patently awaiting another bfp.

 

[Megg33k]

Oh, honey! I'm sorry! I'll add you now!

 

[Megg33k]

Soooo... Because I have way too much time on my hands (apparently)...

Our stats!!!

2008
100% of our girls have BFP's!

2009 (until Nov, there are very small #'s of people in each month)
Jan 100%
Feb 0%
Mar 25%
Apr 50%
May 67%
Jun 60%
Jul 0%
Aug 0%
Sep 67%
Oct 37.5%
Nov 50% (16) (parentheses show # of people in months with quite a few girls)
Dec 70% (23)

2010
Jan 36% (22)
Feb 28% (18)
Mar 40% (25)
Apr 37.5% (16)
May 12.5% (16)
Jun 0% (4)

We're not doing too badly, I don't think! I'm glad I did this!

 

[aussiettc]

thats great megg. its interesting to see stuff like that. always makes me feel better seeing high %

 

[LunaBean]

congrats on new bfps girls, to those with losses