TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[padbrat]

Ohhhh yes.... Deb... you don't escape us... something to tell us about lines and tests.... hmmmmm??? LOL

 

[Nixilix]

well i have obviously put my fat foot in it.... sorry debs

 

[debgreasby]

well i have obviously put my fat foot in it.... sorry debs

Don't be daft!

I've got a thread going in the gallery. Think it's just wishful thinking on my part though lol. But Predictor tests are now officially evil personified!

 

[puppymom32]

off to check the gallery.

Congrats Nix.

 

[dawny690]

Congrats nix

FX Deb

Hope everyone else is ok?

xxxx

 

[Rainbowpea]

congrats nix! xx

 

[Nixilix]

thank you girls... so nervous !!!

 

[Megg33k]

Im good thanks, really good actually!

Wondering if I can be number 76 Got bfp this morning and at lunchtime! Not quite believing it yet until I have an early scan because of last time. xxx

Adding you!!! Congrats, my lovely!!! Not only #76... but also #1 in the new "month" of the thread! It started today!!!

well i have obviously put my fat foot in it.... sorry debs

Don't be daft!

I've got a thread going in the gallery. Think it's just wishful thinking on my part though lol. But Predictor tests are now officially evil personified!

Going to look! Torn about Predictor tests. Yes, they're obviously AWFUL! But, SOME have to be right, yeah? LOL

Congrats Nix on your bfp.... seems like it is your turn!!! Cracking news!

Megg... don't cry...am hugging you right now..... can you feel it? LOL

I can! Thank you! Things are looking up... some! My aunt has had surgery on 4 spots in her cervical spine region. They've shaved bone down to relieve the pressure on her spine. We won't know for (at most) a day and a half if there is permanent damage though. Could be that she get 100% function back, but could be 0%... or anywhere in between! So, that's my story!

My chart... That's still a complete mess though! LOL

 

[BizyBee]

I've been busy with end of the school year stuff, so finally had a chance to stop in.

Sorry aussie and strawberry for your losses.

Congrats Nix!

FX Deb!

Hugs & dust to everyone!

 

[Amos2009]

Hello chicas!! Just an update- I finally have an appointment with a recurrent mc specialist!!!! July 8 at 10:30 and it can't get here quick enough!!!

ATM, no sign of anything- no ovulation, no AF nothing....I guess this is going to be a loooooong, drawn out cycle

 

[debgreasby]

Best of luck for your appointment hunni xxx

 

[Amos2009]

Thanks Deb! Are you testing again today?

 

[Megg33k]

Hello chicas!! Just an update- I finally have an appointment with a recurrent mc specialist!!!! July 8 at 10:30 and it can't get here quick enough!!!

ATM, no sign of anything- no ovulation, no AF nothing....I guess this is going to be a loooooong, drawn out cycle

Only 14 sleep away! Can't wait to see what they tell you! I'm ready for a niece/nephew!

 

[Amos2009]

I think I've already got a nephew brewing so you will beat me!!!!

I don't know what is going on with my hubby. I know what he tells me about not having sex, but he is after all, still a MAN. Do any of you have problems with your hubby not wanting sex? He is 43, and used to not be able to keep his hands off me and he would get hard by just being near me. NONE of that is happening now. I went through this with my last husband so of course it is bringing back all those negative feelings. I am hoping it is just stress or that he really is scared to get me pregnant, but of course I am thinking the worst. Anyone else have that problem??

 

[Megg33k]

I think I've already got a nephew brewing so you will beat me!!!!

I don't know what is going on with my hubby. I know what he tells me about not having sex, but he is after all, still a MAN. Do any of you have problems with your hubby not wanting sex? He is 43, and used to not be able to keep his hands off me and he would get hard by just being near me. NONE of that is happening now. I went through this with my last husband so of course it is bringing back all those negative feelings. I am hoping it is just stress or that he really is scared to get me pregnant, but of course I am thinking the worst. Anyone else have that problem??

I don't think you have a nephew brewing! I finally have pink on my tissue, and my temp dropped to 97.81 today. Its still high, but within spotting range... and then the pink tissue... AF should be here soon! I only sort of wish it weren't true. Its best this way! I need to finish my testing so the next one sticks, ya know?

I think I've broken my husband's spirit, tbh! He used to try all the time... but I started to take offense that every time we snuggled or were near each other, he would try to get some. So, now he only tries when he's 110% sure that he'll succeed! But, now the lack of trying makes me feel like he doesn't want to be with me! Its ALL my fault too! So, yes and no! LOL The one difference I've noticed is that he will sometimes choose sleep over sex when he's super tired and works the next day. But, I think that's more "sense" than lack of sex drive. Of course, he's just turning 30 in 5 days. So, there's a decent age difference between our OH's! I don't know what Kevin's going to be like in 13 years, ya know?

 

[Amos2009]

Wow- you youngsters I know what your'e saying....I guess it just bothers me too, that the last few times we have had sex, it's been initiated by me. And I DO mean few times. 2 times the whole MONTH of May, and twice this month. Hell, we used to do it more than that in a week. I guess I have to wait til after I see the doc July 8 to see if he goes back to normal. After that he will have no excuse. I just miss that passion ya know?

 

[Megg33k]

I know, honey! I really, really do think that its probably the fear of you getting pregnant and losing another baby. I know that's how I felt about it this month. I was angry about not ovulating, because I wanted to get an accurate progesterone test reading... But when I was faced with even the remotest of possibilities that I could be pregnant, I went into panic mode a bit... because I want to know why I keep losing them before I have the chance to lose another. I'm sure its hard for him, because I'm certain that his heart wants a baby, other parts (to remain unnamed) would love to have sex with his amazing, gorgeous wife... but his brain fears what would happen if you got pregnant again without seeing the doctor first. I definitely don't think you should take it personally or worry that he doesn't want to be intimate with you. I'm certain that's not it! Of course, when I feel that way... I flat out ask! I'm just like "Don't you want to have sex with me anymore?" And, he's like "Uhm... *puzzled face*... Of course I do. I didn't know the offer was on the table! *tries to shimmy out clothing while answering*" So, maybe just talk to him? Tell him how you're feeling, and if it is because of the fear... maybe talk about ways that he could make you feel wanted without stressing him out at the thought of a pregnancy. That's what I'd do!

 

[puppymom32]

Amos,
I am sure it is just because of what you have been through and not anything else. George acts the same way after a loss he is so afraid that it will happen again. I was messing with him last night as I am not even sure we are supposed to be trying again only 2.5 weeks since surgery but it seems like he wont leave me alone now... I told him what now that I cant get pregnant you want me all the time now. It definetly affects them differently than it does us. Big Hugs. July 8 will be here before you know it.

 

[debgreasby]

Amos, done loads of tests today lol, nothing to report! x

 

[Amos2009]

Thanks everyone....I guess I just panic because I have been through this before (the no sex part!)
Deb-