TTC After A Loss... Race for the BFP! - 211 BFP's!!!

[Tigerlilies]

Oh... we could be bump buddies!!!! Come on girly!!!!! xx

I second that!

Good luck today Chevelle, don't get stressed out about those ratio risks though, personally I think they do more mental harm then good. I've heard so many stories about doctors diagnosing babies as high risk for Downs and then the baby is born perfectly healthy!

 

[shelldodds]

Hi ladies, I'm new to babyandbump, my first post ever! I had a miscarriage in July, our first and it would have been a honeymoon baby so we were very sad. I then had a scan as I'd had some funny bleeding between periods for a while and it turned out I had a cyst on my ovary (didn't cause the mc but freaked me out!)... so we put "things" on hold for a bit. This has been our first proper month of ttc again I think I am pregnant again!! I tested last Thurs (day after AF was due), but got 2 BFN's on clearblue digital, I was really shocked!!! I have MAJOR symptoms going on! Still no AF, have ordered 3 first response tests that should turn up today... so I'm going to do one as soon as it arrives! I don't understand why it didn't show up last week, guess everyone's different and it was too early for me. Hope the parcel turns up soon, I'm dying for the loo!!
Shell xxx

 

[Fairybabe]

Welcome SHell and sorry for your loss.

Clear blue digi gave me bfn's in my first pregnancy wehn FRERs were giving me bfps. So i personally wouldn't rate the clearblue! Here's hoping those FRERs arrive and give you the right answer!!

Fairy xx

 

[shelldodds]

Thanks for your reply!!! Eeeeeeeek!! They arrived!!! Very faint line but definitely a line... is that definitely a BFP then?!!! I'm sure it must be as I just knew!!! Wooooo!! God I'm scared though... after a mc I suppose that's normal, I hope it doesn't go wrong this time! xxx

 

[shelldodds]

What do you think? xxx

Looking good ladies!!!!!!!!! :D God I'm chuffed, excited and bloody scared!! Hope it all goes right this time!!! :o Shell xxx [img]https://i619.photobucket.com/albums/tt276/shelldodds2be/preg.jpg?t=1289216183[/IMG]

xxx

 

[Fairybabe]

That's a BFP Shell! Congrats! Happy and healthy 9 months to you!!! Here's for a sticky BFP!!!

Fairy xx

 

[shelldodds]

Thanks Fairy, gosh!! Can but can't believe it, even though I just knew, it's much more real now!!! xxx

 

[cla]

thats a lovely line i can see congrats hun xxxx

 

[shelldodds]

Thanks chicken! I have 2 other tests but not gonna bother using them as I just knew anyway xxx

 

[BizyBee]

Welcome and sorry for your loss Shell. That's definitely a bfp though. Congrats!

Unfortunately after miscarriage, I can't say the fear gets much better. Even after many scans/heartbeats, I still worry a lot. I probably won't really feel comfortable until I meet my bubs. I can push these thoughts aside most of the time and am trying to enjoy every minute of this, but it's always there.

 

[shelldodds]

Hey BizyBee I can imagine so, have you just had the one mc? I never realised until it happened to me quite how common they are!!! I suppose nobody does. I'm trying the think positively as I know it's not good to worry. I'm hoping I can get an early preg scan as if I wait til the 12 weeks that's right between xmas and new year!!! We can't spend all christmas worrying! xxx

 

[Tigerlilies]

Completely agree Bizybee.

Sorry for your loss Shell but CONGRATULATIONS! That is definitely a !!!

 

[Fallen Angel]

Sorry for your loss Shell, we too lost our angel we conceived on our honeymoon in July, heartbreaking isn't it. Congrats on your though, enjoy your pregnancy and I'm sure it will be a very healthy one for you both

I'm in the 2WW right now after a round of Clomid as I have PCOS and don't ovulate regularly, so testing on 21st November and I'm keeping my PMA and positive vibes in full throttle right now - never wanted anything so much in my life.

 

[shelldodds]

Thanks Tigerlilies!!
Oh Fallen Angel, I know how hard it is, my mc was our hm baby in July too!!! I hope it's all ok this time, and I'll keep all my fingers crossed for you too!! The 2ww is AWFUL!! Any preg feelings? Not everyone knows so early I guess, but I just knew over 2 weeks ago!! Weird xxx

 

[Fallen Angel]

No symptoms as yet, but I only had a positive OPK on Friday & Saturday, so probably ovulated on Saturdy or Sunday or maybe even today, so it's a waiting game. Saying I'll test on 21st Nov will possibly be a bit early, but I'll test every day from there on in if need me.

I feel in my heart that we might be luck this time, I've had a right awful time with Clomid as it has over stimulated my ovaries.

But I had a dream the other night that I was out jogging with my dog and pushing a triplet buggy!!! Here's hoping that's a sign

 

[Fairybabe]

Wow that's quite a dream Fallen Angel! You never know!!!

Fairy xx

 

[shelldodds]

That is quite a dream indeed!!! Fingers crossed eh!!! I don't know anything about Clomid I'm afraid, although I do know someone with pcos who has a little girl xxx

 

[svetayasofiya]

Welcome and congrats Shell!!!! That is a fantastic BFP!!!

 

[shelldodds]

Ahhh thanks love!!! Fingers crossed it's a sticky one! I feel a bit different to last time, maybe all in my mind... kinda like I have more symptoms or something, have cramping a bit today and had low back ace for a week but read it's all normal at this stage. Definitely not going to freak out over anything other than blood, need to stay calm xxx

 

[Tigerlilies]

Sveta, did you have a lovely time at the spa retreat?