So, my dh took me to kay jewelers today and bought me a neclace. Its a heart with wings in memory of our little bean. I told the lady at the counter why we were buying it and my dh started crying in the store! It just rips my heart out all over again to see him so upset. I need to stop mentioning it around him. This was the first time I said it without crying and I was very proud of myself! I'm glad my hubby got me out of the house and got my beautiful gift. Tonight we are going to friends house for drinks, I hope its fun and doesn't turn into me drunk and blubbering all over everyone :/
Twinkie, I hope your dream isnt coming true. I understand how you feel completely and will pray extra hard for you! But if you actually stop and picture yourself holding your little neice or nephew, doesnt that make you a litttle happy?
Nostress, i had a good time last night, no tears but i was really nervous leaving the house for some reason! I knew i was going to be out late and i was worried something was going to happen to my little dogs that i love so much! I just couldnt shake that feeling until i settled in at my friends house and had a drink. I'm functional but i'm sad and it takes so much energy to paste a smile on my face and go through the motions you know? I also felt guilty for some reason, like i was being a bad mommy but my baby isnt in my tummy or at home so why the guilt? I dont think drinking is good for me right now, I really dont miss it. Sorry this is so long, i dont like talking to dh about this because it makes him so sad.
Hi girls.I had a ERPC (D&C)on tuesday after mmc at 9wks. I have been told thati dont need any followup appointments (which i think is odd) and i can ttc again as soo as i feel ready. But have read that there is a risk of infection if we have sex too soon. Bit confused what to do..As im 40 time is not on my side either and me and OH are desperate to start asap.Opinons/advice pls.