TTC after D&C (Soon)

[Tara158505]

mj,
I would say you are just gearing up but won't actually o a lot of women do that and don't even know it and think that's there actual o day and theres no way of knowing with out temping and restesting til you see another surge that's what happene and again on cdd to me my first tim using opks cb advanced digi I got a smiley on cd13 but cd8 was false and my friend also had it happen so I think it's very common!! hope this helps a little this is juts my experience and my opinion others may help you more

 

[mj2013]

Thanks Tara, I'm just going to keep testing and see what happens, I won't probably really O till later on but I get the feeling that I may not O as late as I usually do this cycle. Plus I'm having ovary twinges so something is happening, but hopefully it won't happen too early and hopefully I won't miss it

 

[Tara158505]

mj,
you can bd just incase lol but mine was just 5 days off so it prolly will happen early I just got done oing I think but still mild cramping here and there my cba digi was neg but dt which is only 20 or 25 lh was positive but that was this am the cb was later so im not sure what time but either way I bd'ed it up enough for a couple people lol im glad I got that preseed it was right on time and I really had no reason to buy it right then that funny lol but im on dpo 1 I guess ill count as tomorrow even though technically its today well see how it goes I hope you get your sticky little baby bean!!:

 

[mj2013]

Tara- fx for you that you caught the egg. How long is your LP usually?
I bd'd anyway just in case even though I don't have a positive opk yet.

 

[Tella]

Mj, wow thats early! I will also say bd just incase to make sure you have spermies working! Do you by any chance have pcos?

 

[CastawayBride]

Before the miscarriage I was a 26 cycle, O'ed between 8 and 10!

 

[mj2013]

Tella- I tell my dr I think I have pcos lol but he gives me "the look" and says I don't have it and I just O late and don't have a strong O because my progesterone is typically low after O so I have to take suppositories.

Castaway- I've never had a cycle that length but maybe this will be a first for me.... at least I know it can happen since it's happened to you

Still no positive yet so maybe it won't be too early, but I guess I just need to keep testing and waiting.

 

[Tella]

if they have done a scan then they will be able to see if you have pcos, the only reason I ask as pcos can cause false + opks with no O.

rather no pcos as it influences your egg quality as well and chances of cysts are high.

keep testing to make sure you don't miss it if it does go +. I've heard of lots of bros of a short cycle.

 

[mj2013]

They did do a scan and said my ovaries look normal. One scan I did I had a cyst on my left ovary but they said other than that everything looked good.
I'll definitely keep testing, don't want to miss it, but hoping I won't O till later in the week, only cd9 today.

 

[Tella]

Fxd it holds out for atleast 4 days.

A random cyst could just be the follicle.not shrinking quick enough. But normally is gone in a week after AF in the absence of progesterone.

 

[Tara158505]

hey ladies,
mj, my luteal phase is usually 11 I believe but I had 3 days of flashing smiley then the 3rd night a fixed smiley then a circle yesterday night now just a minute ago another fixed smiley I don't know whats going on I hope my body isn't so messed up I actually o twice I was hurting so bad last night and I don't know why cause I thought o had passed the day before since all the signs etc now im more confused than ever!!

 

[CastawayBride]

Hey ladies....6 weeks and 2 days past miscarriage still no AF. I am going to give it another week then ask to go in and ask for an ultrasound....just because I am a nervous wreck over here. I don't have stretching pains and I had a negative test yesterday but I have this paranoia that I could be pregnant and I have done risky things (like raw cookie dough and been drinking Diet Coke) that is making me even more nervous. I never do that while TTC/pregnant and since I was like ehh....you are waiting for AF I just went ahead and did it!

I just took a shower and noticed deep blue veins every where in my breasts up through my shoulders. Is this a sign AF is coming? I got this when pregnant the last two times so I am kind of nervous...I have slight menustral cramping but nothing...just EWCM. I have little tissue pieces in my urine...usually when i have a full bladder...my lower back is KILLING me. This usually hurts when I over due it or on my feet for long periods of time...I have never had back pain, even after delivering my son. I am assuming I can chalk this up to hormones but I am pretty sure they are all out (HCG) as I was at 43 a week and a half ago....We have not dtd in like two weeks as I was just trying to abstain to get my first AF then try. We finally dtd today as I am so confused as to where I am in my cycle and we are like whatever it is it will be at this point. I know when I produce HCG I make ALOT as it often is so high they ask if I have a history of twins, could I produce so much it won't come up on a test? It is so strange all this is so crazy!

Oh and I sneezed tonight and felt that feeling you feel in your uterus when you are pregnant. Can my uterus still be big from the miscarriage you think?

 

[mj2013]

I think this cycle might drive me a bit crazy!
My opk's have gotten lighter - thank goodness!! but I think I am getting a UTI and I took an antibiotic but I don't want it to affect my chances. If I don't O till later this week should I be ok you think?

 

[mj2013]

Castaway - hopefully AF comes soon so you can know exactly where you're at. My AF came at exactly 6 weeks, so yours may show up soon. I agree with you though, I would want an u/s too if AF didn't show in another week.....just to be sure that everything looks good.

 

[Tara158505]

aww castaway, im sorry its such a mess for you right now it sucks I know cause I am right there with you!!

mj, you can get antibiotics that's safe for baby!!

afm update- well I took a hcg test for the hell of it and its faint positive lol so now im back to square one idk wtf is going on!! ahhhh bought to pull my freaking hair out!!!! I guess ill post a pic see what you guys think maybe im tripping but I doubt it but I have no date to go by for dpo I thought this was my o then neg now peak again so then I thought ;today was the real o then the pos test idk ladies I just don't know!! its really faint so I don't know how well you can see it in a picture but you all know that by now im sure!!

 

[Tara158505]

LL, any update from you where you at girl!?!?

 

[mj2013]

Tara - I already took the meds and don't think it's "baby friendly" sigh. I don't plan to take anymore but I do hope that it leaves my system soon so it doesn't affect my cm etc or attacks the spermies or anything crazy sigh.

As far as your pics, I see a light line in the 2nd pic. It's a lot lighter than the ones you posted previously. Is this the same test as the one previously used? It's so frustrating to not know what's going on. You could keep testing on that same test to see if it gets lighter or darker. Hope it clears up for you soon.

 

[Tara158505]

mj,
ii think the old test was from hcg from my dnc because they had to of gotten my levels wrong since it was the nurse that told me it was a 3 I had to ask her to get it she just said it was negative. I think if it had of been a chemical I would have already started a period or had it on time which would have been the 3rd of this month, but instead I started getting the flashing smileys on the cba digis I got that for 3 days on 3rd night it finally went to a fixed smiley ( flashing is high fertility, fixed is peak it stays on for 2 days so you can't test again til it goes off) well I tested on the 2nd night when it went off it was negative then I tested today it was peak again I took a dollar tree test yesterday negative, for some reason I took one today idk why because I assumed I was really oing today ive had cramps for a few days on and off but last night real bad anyway this test was a walmart 88cents test I used same urine on a dt test and negative.. I don't know whats going on honestly I highly doubt its still leftovers lol if so I've got bigger problems lol but I don't know when I ovulated to go by a dpo lol maybe lastnight was implantation I don't know im so freaking confused but all test were negative til this one so I really doubt theres anymore leftovers... ugh all I can do is keep testing see if I start getting darker and show up on different test instead of just on and if I had of thought for a second pregnant I would have bought some frer's while I was at walmart earlier errr!!

 

[Tara158505]

and those are both the same test just different angles I guess lol it came up right away though even before 3 minutes and those give 10 minutes

 

[CastawayBride]

Castaway - hopefully AF comes soon so you can know exactly where you're at. My AF came at exactly 6 weeks, so yours may show up soon. I agree with you though, I would want an u/s too if AF didn't show in another week.....just to be sure that everything looks good.

I have decided to make an appt. with a specialist...go in for a consult I mean I will need a high risk doc anyway next time so this will put my mind to ease. I just can't stand laid back care...I have been at this for a year. I don't want no more wait and see approach...I want proactive! lol

Plus I need all new doctors and I have a new OB...now need to find the right fit for a specialist. I think I have found someone...going to make the appt today!