TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Oasis717]

Lol Crystal dh days he's not complaining about that!!! X
Fi dh and I have Casey 5 and Brooklyn. Dh never looked his age prob cause of his height and I've always looked younger so we've never had any probs with it really. I had a lot of jealousy from some of the stuck up mums at dd 13's then school but I couldn't of cared less. They were just well jel lol. I fell pregnant within 2 months of meeting dh so it was quick but dh told me the night we met he would marry me xxx
Tanya I could have written that myself! That's exactly how I feel about the family I'd love and to be really honest we would love two more if we could. It's something we both always wanted as neither of our childhoods were brilliant and we've got loads more love to give here's hoping xxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Crystal I will try... I am going to make an appt to see my gp the day AFTER my consultant so if I do want to change her then I have an appt(normally a 3 to 4 week wait to see gp)to see if they can change her asap.

 

[Oasis717]

I don't think it is implantation Tanya, I've never had bleeding with implantation tbh but I do spot after bd couple days before af unless I'm pregnant then nothing! So totally accepted I'm out but it's ok hoping to get another half a stone off in the next few weeks too xxx

 

[Soanxious]

With all this Bding you should easily lose that weight Becks hahaha!!

Yeah sounds like the other mums were jealous.. and aww that is also so romantic when he said first night he was going to marry you awwwwww xx

Hey thats a topic for us her to take minds off things... and interesting reading..

How did you meet your other half? What age were you both? etc?

I met my OH 2 n half years ago, by accident.. LITERALLY I had broken my wrist and taken myself to A&E to get it seen to and he was sat in the waiting room with his Brother in law as his Brother in law had popped his shoulder out, well as you know here in the UK the queues are a nightmare... we were waiting over 5 hours so obviously got talking, I thought he's funny... as the 3 of us laughed n giggled(2 of us through pain) well I got called and had my cast put on and It was time to leave.. I popped my head around the corner and said.. oh well you cant miss me if you see me out in town as I waved my florescent yellow cast at him.. as I left I felt that I wouldn't see him again.. and it was a shame as he was funny...

8 days later I was in town drinking with my friend and she was talking to this tall man, I saw him from behind, and when I got to see the front of him to was HIM I was like... "Hiya with biggest smile on my face ever!" and he just looked at me and smiled..so I waved my cast at him.. he laughed and said omg it's you!! how are you? so do you live nearby? and I know your friend well we grew up together... before i had chance to reply my friend dragged me out of the pub... I said.. im often in town I may see you again?? yes he said.. and off I went..but he was in the back of my mind as now I know he lives near me..

I had a friend for 5 years that I used to um... cough cough cough.. meet up with now n again.. wink wink.. well he lives 18 miles away.. and he had invited me over to watch the boxing with him and some of the boys I knew on his massive tv(he had a bar in front room too it was a cool party house) so I thought ah what the hell... i've nothing better to do will go over for buffet and drinks and a laugh as the boys I had met there were funny.. as I arrived at the house it was full and the party was beginning the boxing about to start so I popped out to get a glass and put my wine in the fridge when the front door went, I was going to open it but my mate said na you go pour a drink its only my mate.. as I turned around with wine glass at my mouth I choked!! It was Him! I stared at him and him me.. the fella I was umm cough cough visiting said oh..do you two know each other? I said kind of.. we met the day I broke my arm at A&E, well I wouldnt leave him alone, we were talking and laughing but our mate was getting jealous so I took a step back from chatting to my now partner,, he only stayed an hour and left( I since found out because our mate was giving him evils and he felt uncomfortable). I was gutted.. and I had been drinking so couldnt go back to our home town till the following day.. a few days later we went to a rock gig and there he was again!! this time I forgot about our mate and just got talking, he knew I liked him he has said since as I was all giggly etc.. he said he fixed computers etc and I spoke about me etc and said goodbye at end of night.. now in my head im thinking.. I really like this guy but how can I ask him out when im kind of dating his friend.. so I ended my cough cough relationship with said friend and popped into town on a friday night and there he was.. with some of the other boys... I said i've ended it with him and im enjoying my time with you.. he laughed and he was so cute.. anyways after a few drinks I managed to get his number... and I went home.. the following day my daughters laptop all of a sudden stopped working.. so obviously i had to call him and ask him to repair it.. so he arrived and it was a wifi switch.. he said its been turned off here did you do it on purpose to get me here as he laughed.. no i said frowning.. anyways to thank him I took him to the Barry island seaside for hot chocolate and got donuts as it was winter and we spoke for around 6 hours sat in my car looking at the sea... we then became so thick that I would see him every day as I needed my fix of giggles and smiles.. and thats it.. we have been together ever since..

His mate is still not really speaking to us in 1 way.. we all met up at a funeral last yr..but it was not too bad.. but I don;t care.. I got my man.. and I have Never chased a man in my life... but I did him... he's the only man I have loved too... x

 

[josie1234]

Just quickly nipped on before my classes. Love that story Tanya, fate definitely plays a big part. Meant to be together. I had my bloods taken today, the nurse thought she had a vein and then realised she didn't so had to use other arm, so feels a bit sore but we will see when results are in at the end of the week. I am convinced they will still be high.

I will try to catch up with everyone else tonight.

 

[Soanxious]

FX'd that they are low Jo x

 

[tillyttc]

Ok panicking ladies jyst been to the loo and iam sorry for the graphic description but there was some dried light brown cm wth ?

 

[tillyttc]

No dandelions garfie will blue blue do lol. Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Ok panicking ladies jyst been to the loo and iam sorry for the graphic description but there was some dried light brown cm wth ?

Oooooo sounds like implantation bleed? I get that when pg.. I get some brown stringy stuff... once or twice n then it stops. FX'D

 

[garfie]

So - what a lovely story - I like your cough cough description these young uns think they invented it

Tilly - What CD are you on - or when is she not due? - I agree sounds very hopeful

Josie - You are such a busy bee - I always tell the nurse they can only call up one vein but they always think they know better



X

 

[Soanxious]

muhahahaha! cough cough

 

[tillyttc]

Iam 6-7dpo its just a smear about 2cm eeeeekkk. Xxx

 

[tillyttc]

Nothing on paper though ? . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

I think thats a very pos sign Tilly... xx

 

[tillyttc]

Its killed me today not testing but iam gonna leave it till after the weekend now . Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Good on you...!! Think positive! xx

 

[Oasis717]

Tanya that was such a lovely story!! I know what you mean I've Neva chased always been the chasee lol but you wanted your man and you got him! I was on a night out in our local town when I met dh. I was walking to a bar we often went to with one of my girlfriends and he was outside the bar leaning on the wall talking on his phone. I noticed his height first then his gorgeous face and he literally blew me away he was so fit lol. He stared at me all the way into the bar and then came in to buy a drink, we got chatting and he bought me a drink. When he found out my age when we were chatting and said you must be the youngest 36 year old ever what have I got to do to get a date with you! We literally didn't leave each other's sides all night and at the end of it he said "you do know I'm falling for you already don't you" it was love at first sight love and lust lol. I've never fancied anyone so much in my life and he felt the same. End if the night he told me he was going to marry me. I laughed and he said you wait and see! Well he wasn't wrong. He'd never had a relationship before just saw a few girls cause he said no one ever measured up. Til me. His family were shocked cause he had never bought a girl back or seen anyone more than a couple of times and then he meets me and falls head over heels in love. It made it even more special. I couldn't care bout the jealous mums. I was and still am so happy with him. He's a cross between Danny Dyer and Ashton Kutcher and I've always been head over heels for Danny so it was a dream come true lol xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Aww that's lovely Becks, that also was love at 1st sight and he looks like Danny Dyer??? oh my!! you are one lucky girl x

 

[Oasis717]

Cross between him and Ashton yes! I know I've been in love with dd forever! Lol. Ok so I'm not sure what's going on but two lots of ewmc last night and just now the same as bf o and ff have given me dashed ch. I must of o due to temps? This lot had streaks of red blood so I think it's just an oestrogen surge before af to blame. Will do an opk tomorrow but am sure will be neg. Am now ill with whatever the kids had. Oh no xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Oh no.. confusing and now ill on top? hope you get answer and get well soon x