TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crazymam]

lisa - thats great news!
becks- see a different doc. i was getting brush off too til i seen a different one and she is very supportive. did blood tests before xmas and is going to refer me to fertility specialist ifnothing this time round.
and josie you should be far too busy still to be reading this but good luck!
i am 5dpo but given up already. my bbt dipped to coverline yesterday and i am now loaded with cold and knackered. it did climb today but fact it went so low isnt a good sign i think.

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks hunni, there is only one female doc full time at the practice and one male doc that comes in just on a Thursday, tried to get an app with him last week but couldn't. I think she'd be annoyed at me for asking him as she's already refused to do any tests, god knows why. I was reading yesterday that a fertility specialist said women over 35 should be investigated after 2 not 3 mc. The other docs in the area (lived here all my life) are no better. I feel really as if no one cares My only hope is this time is different, with no medical intervention whatsoever that's all I've got! Xxxx

 

[Creative]

Congratulations Josie.

This thread is turning into baby land.

My turn next *crosses fingers*

 

[Oasis717]

I really hope so, I hope everyone gets a bfp then we can all start a new thread in the first trimester, how good would that be xxxxxx

 

[crazymam]

lets hope this is the lucky thread for everyone! x

 

[Oasis717]

Amen to that!! Xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi ladies how are you today. Ok i hope.

Cd 17. My chart says i am dpo 9 as its says i ov cd 8 but just had opk +. cm now dry and temp going down. Anyway fingers crossed this is the month. i will try and add my chart xx

 

[crazymam]

Hi ladies how are you today. Ok i hope.

Cd 17. My chart says i am dpo 9 as its says i ov cd 8 but just had opk +. cm now dry and temp going down. Anyway fingers crossed this is the month. i will try and add my chart xx

i was still getting strong positive opk,s 3 days after ff said i ovulated last month. as along as ypu are trying a few days before and after you should have caught it, fingers crossed x

 

[josie1234]

Hi ladies how are you today. Ok i hope.

Cd 17. My chart says i am dpo 9 as its says i ov cd 8 but just had opk +. cm now dry and temp going down. Anyway fingers crossed this is the month. i will try and add my chart xx

i was still getting strong positive opk,s 3 days after ff said i ovulated last month. as along as ypu are trying a few days before and after you should have caught it, fingers crossed x

Thanks crazymam. we are trying lots, only missing an occasional one day. don't know how to upload my chart on here.

 

[josie1234]

i am trying to stay positive and not worry too much about what body is doing lol.

 

[dancareoi]

i am trying to stay positive and not worry too much about what body is doing lol.

I always find the day temp goes down is OV day. If that's the case your temp should rise again from tomorrow!

 

[crazymam]

positive all the way! i am trying hard not to worry about it and trying to along with what will be will be. if its not meant to be then its not meant to be. easier said than done though HA!.
and to make things easier my name is Jan, x

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Lisa, hi Jan, I'm Jo. It is easier said than done, wish I could just think what will be will be. I was like that before mc last year. I have had 2 lines on opk for last few days. I think i've put my chart on here at bottom, not sure if i've done it right. Positive thoughts to you Jan, would be great to all have good news soon xxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Jan xx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi jan!

Well now on insulin as well! Morning readings a too high, so need insulin at night!

So now injecting twice a day, clexane and insulin. Better not drink too much because I 'll start leaking!

 

[josie1234]

Hi jan!

Well now on insulin as well! Morning readings a too high, so need insulin at night!

So now injecting twice a day, clexane and insulin. Better not drink too much because I 'll start leaking!

At least you are being looked after and know that everything is being done to make sure you are ok. Line getting fainter on opk xx

 

[Oasis717]

That's good that they are taking such good care of you Lisa I'm sorry you are having to do all these things but it will all be worth it xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Jo, good sign that lines are going, just got to play the waiting game now!



Becks, I'm pleased that I am getting such good care and feel like I am doing all can to look after my rainbow.

 

[josie1234]

Jo, good sign that lines are going, just got to play the waiting game now!



Becks, I'm pleased that I am getting such good care and feel like I am doing all can to look after my rainbow.

Hi Lisa, thanks, is it? Not very good at waiting lol. You are getting good care which must be a relief. How are you Becks, feeling ok?

 

[Oasis717]

I'm ok Jo, just tired, terribly sore boobs! But other than that ok, the sickness hit me with all my three healthy pregnancies around 6 weeks, so hoping it does I think I will try to get an app with the other doctor in the practice on Thursday. Anything's worth a go! Xxxx