TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[dancareoi]

Sorry Becks. You got some stamina. Lol. Whatever works though eh. Good luck Lisa what Becks says is right, grit your teeth. Are the symptoms same as before or different. Temp the same as yest. Opk later pic to follow xx

I feel I have more symptoms this time than last, but we'll just have to see.

Awaiting your opk pics

 

[josie1234]

cd 12 opk - file is too large. can email if you want.

 

[dancareoi]

cd 12 opk - file is too large. can email if you want.

I'll PM you my email address

 

[Kat S]

Hi guys. I just turned 41 and had a m/c at 6.5 weeks this month. Had a D&E a week ago today, so I'm still waiting for my body to finish getting rid of the tissue. What a messy, painful business this is, not to mention the emotional pain. Anyway, my RE said there is no reason we can't try IUI again after I get my first period and my body is back to normal. So maybe March? We'll see.

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Kat, I'm so very sorry for your loss, we all understand how bad loosing is, my last mc was in Sep and it took me two months to get over it, we started trying again after AF in Dec and I was very lucky to fall this month. I had a d&c back in June also after another loss. I was also told to wait one cycle but I truely believe it takes the body a couple of months to get over the op. Xxxxx

 

[Creative]

Hi Kat and welcome!

 

[Oasis717]

I just re read my post when I said two months to get over my last natural mc I meant physically, sorry should have explained better I'm having a couple of new symptoms today some pulling in my pelvic area and some pressure, almost makes me feel like a need a wee all the time which of course I do lol. Hope it's all ok, I looked it up and apparently its normal, hope so. Also boobs are absolutely killing today, not good with a four year old son that jumps all over you! Xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

I just re read my post when I said two months to get over my last natural mc I meant physically, sorry should have explained better I'm having a couple of new symptoms today some pulling in my pelvic area and some pressure, almost makes me feel like a need a wee all the time which of course I do lol. Hope it's all ok, I looked it up and apparently its normal, hope so. Also boobs are absolutely killing today, not good with a four year old son that jumps all over you! Xxxx

Sounds like it`s all going in the right direction. Luckliy I have never really suffered with sore boobs!!!!

Although I could wee for England at the moment!!!

 

[Oasis717]

Lol up in the night again 4 times weeing, makes me wonder where it's all coming from! Xxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Kat welcome. Sorry for your loss. I have really found this site helpful. not sure what is happening with my cycle. Due to my one day bleed (AF)?) on 19 jan i think i am on cd13 but chart says i am on dpo5. Heres my opk today.

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Kat welcome. Sorry for your loss. I have really found this site helpful. not sure what is happening with my cycle. Due to my one day bleed (AF)?) on 19 jan i think i am on cd13 but chart says i am on dpo5. Heres my opk today.

Becks, I am only up once in the night. Last night I went to bed at 10.00am and was up again by 12!! Luckily then went through til 6.

Jo, the line doesnt seem to be getting any darker. However our bodies do plat tricks on us. In November my lines were getting darker and darker and i thought it was a positive, but no smiley face, the lines then got lighter again, so i was panicking, which never helps. Anyway a couple of days later they started getting darker again and i finally got positive.

Being stressed can delay OV, so if you can try and chill out a bit, hopefully you will get that lovely positive soon.

 

[Oasis717]

I would love to only be up once Lisa lol. Xxxxxx
Jo I agree sometimes you can get a couple of lh surges a month hence a darker opk, then lighter then darker again for true ovulation, temping and charting is the best way to see you have actually ovulated, also your cervical mucus is a very good indication so if you can put all the signs together it gives the best result xxx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks ladies. I will try to relax. Have a good day xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Lisa, been thinking about you all day xxx I've got absolutely everything crossed for you for tomorrow and you are completely in my thoughts. Can't wait for you to get back with good news and a beautiful pic hopefully if they give you one. Stay strong hunni xxxxxxxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Becks, thanks for the kind words. My sister says she has everything crossed, including her eyes!!
Getting really nervous now.

 

[josie1234]

Good luck. Thinking of you. XXxxxxx

 

[Oasis717]

Even her eyes!!! I know how hard tomorrow will be but when it's good news it will all be worth it, wishing you so so much luck. Let us know as soon as you're able. Lots luv xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Becks, thanks for the kind words. My sister says she has everything crossed, including her eyes!!
Getting really nervous now.

Everything crossed for you too, thinking of you xxx

 

[josie1234]

Cd 14 opk.

Getting darker.

 

[Oasis717]

Jo that's almost there! So pleased try two a day now hun xxxx