TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[dancareoi]

I know there will always be something to worry about but hope you have a better day today and dont feel too down. Thought AF was here this morning. Late in night had creamy cm with tinge of brown in it. Then this morning bright red blood. But it has now stopped. Nothing. Backache and cramps. Temp same as yest. Debating whether to get test today.

Jo, I've probably asked before, but is your LP 13 days? See what happens today, still keeping fingers crossed.

Becks, I know we worry about everything, PAL does that to you, but remember every PG is different, try and relax, I know that is sooo much easier said than done.

My MS not so bad this morning, but then blood sugars were higher. ms was bad all day yesterday, so seems to come and go. Hopefully it will get bad again later!

 

[josie1234]

Hi Lisa yes LP 13 days. Hope you are ok, what with your blood sugars and ms, it must be constant for you x

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Lisa yes LP 13 days. Hope you are ok, what with your blood sugars and ms, it must be constant for you x

So your AF is due today then?

It's crazy, my mom suggested I do a chart, she may be right, I am starting to forget things.

I forgot my clexane the other day and took it 3 hours later than normal, last night I nearly forgot my insulin!

 

[josie1234]

Hi Lisa yes LP 13 days. Hope you are ok, what with your blood sugars and ms, it must be constant for you x

So your AF is due today then?

It's crazy, my mom suggested I do a chart, she may be right, I am starting to forget things.

I forgot my clexane the other day and took it 3 hours later than normal, last night I nearly forgot my insulin!

Yes defo worth you doing charts or putting some sort of reminder on phone so you don't forget.

i first started putting periods on period tracker, worked out lp is 13 days but per track says i am due on weds 20th, says i ov on 6 Feb. working out lp from day after ov as first day of lp and day before af as last day of lp. But on FF it says af due tomorrow and i ov on 4 Feb so i am slightly confused. again, not sure what is happening. very crampy and backache.

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Lisa yes LP 13 days. Hope you are ok, what with your blood sugars and ms, it must be constant for you x

So your AF is due today then?

It's crazy, my mom suggested I do a chart, she may be right, I am starting to forget things.

I forgot my clexane the other day and took it 3 hours later than normal, last night I nearly forgot my insulin!

Yes defo worth you doing charts or putting some sort of reminder on phone so you don't forget.

i first started putting periods on period tracker, worked out lp is 13 days but per track says i am due on weds 20th, says i ov on 6 Feb. working out lp from day after ov as first day of lp and day before af as last day of lp. But on FF it says af due tomorrow and i ov on 4 Feb so i am slightly confused. again, not sure what is happening. very crampy and backache.

Are to going to test again?

 

[josie1234]

Yes i think so. What do you think?

 

[dancareoi]

Yes i think so. What do you think?

Go for it! If positive should show b now so at least to would know one way or the other!

 

[josie1234]

Well i tested. Neg. Think this is my AF. Gonna book doc appt to check what is happening. With my one day AF last month and just want to know what is going on.

 

[dancareoi]

Well i tested. Neg. Think this is my AF. Gonna book doc appt to check what is happening. With my one day AF last month and just want to know what is going on.

No harm getting things checked out.

 

[josie1234]

Yeh will do. Well at least i am on my second charting month so i have something to compare it to.

 

[dancareoi]

Yeh will do. Well at least i am on my second charting month so i have something to compare it to.

That's good with the charting, you'll get a really good idea how your body is working now and will help TTC.

The start of a new cycle, counting down to OV. Your chart will help re OV but I always starting using OpK as soon as AF finished just to make sure!

 

[Oasis717]

Really sorry Jo, everything crossed for the next cycle xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Really sorry Jo, everything crossed for the next cycle xxx

How are you feeling today Becks?

 

[Oasis717]

Hi Lisa, much the same mild nausea and can't seem to eat most foods right now. I'm not sure this sickness is going to get worse now, I'm 7 weeks Thursday, have kind of prepared myself for the worst. How are you doing today xxxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Hi Lisa, much the same mild nausea and can't seem to eat most foods right now. I'm not sure this sickness is going to get worse now, I'm 7 weeks Thursday, have kind of prepared myself for the worst. How are you doing today xxxxx

Sickness not really about this morning, but didn't feel too good this afternoon and now feeling sick again after my tea, feel like I've got a big lump in my throat.

At least you do feel sick, they say mild sickness it's a boy, bad sickness it's a girl. Maybe you're expecting a boy?

 

[Oasis717]

Funny cause was the other way around with me, with my two girls I had it from about 6 to 16 weeks, with my son it was very severe, I cried everyday it was so bad, and lasted from 6 weeks until I gave birth, it was awful. My first pregnancy of last year I had mild nausea and it ended at 12 weeks, with my blighted ovum in Sep I had no symptoms at all. So you see I don't think there's much chance all is ok. Xxxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi Lisa and Becks ( if its ok i call you your names lo ) Im regina by the way. Its so great that you have each other to bounce things off . Oasis my sister who recently had a beautiful baby boy was sick as a dog on her two girls and had very mild ms ( didnt vomit once) on her last pregnancy . She like you was up the wall and had her OH driven mad with her fears something wasnt right . Turns out all was perfectly fine and she just did get ms on this pregnancy like the others . Im sure everything is just fine and your baby is busy growing xxxxxxx

Me im 2dpo and now freaking out thinking there is a possibility i could get a bfp ........ not sure what im more scared of the bfn or the bfp !!

 

[Oasis717]

Course you can call me Becks, hi Regina what a lovely name Thanks so much for sharing that with me, I'd love so much for that to be true for me too, I guess miracles do happen sometimes, you never know! I'm very excited for you now, 2 dpo, won't be long til you can test, yay!! Xxxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Regina. Good luck with the testing and hope the 2ww goes quick for you. I m Jo. Becks Regina is right. Each preg can be different so try to stay positive. How you feeling today Lisa? How are you Jan?

 

[Left wonderin]

good morning all hope you are all well this morning ( well hoping ypur feeling sick as Becks ) Im here looking for opinions . Ok so here is the data
M/c 24th of December 11 weeks
1st AF 26th of January
Started o/v testing the cd10 only got positive on the 21st day ( 14th of feb)
Last night had brown reddy pink cm lots of it
this morning had brown/red when wiping but no flow .

now im thinking is this Af showing up ? she would only be two day early from last cycle if i have gone back to 28 days immediatly or is it something else ??????

Also is is possible for Af to arrive 6 days after o/v ? does this mean anything ?

Sorry but a bit confused if it is AF im fine with that as wasnt really expecting to be that Lucky to get pg on first cycle

Thanks for your thoughts )))