TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[dancareoi]

good morning all hope you are all well this morning ( well hoping ypur feeling sick as Becks ) Im here looking for opinions . Ok so here is the data
M/c 24th of December 11 weeks
1st AF 26th of January
Started o/v testing the cd10 only got positive on the 21st day ( 14th of feb)
Last night had brown reddy pink cm lots of it
this morning had brown/red when wiping but no flow .

now im thinking is this Af showing up ? she would only be two day early from last cycle if i have gone back to 28 days immediatly or is it something else ??????

Also is is possible for Af to arrive 6 days after o/v ? does this mean anything ?

Sorry but a bit confused if it is AF im fine with that as wasnt really expecting to be that Lucky to get pg on first cycle

Thanks for your thoughts )))

Hi Regina, it is unlikely that it would be AF 6 days after OV, maybe it is an implantation bleed? Lisa xx

 

[Oasis717]

That's what I thought Lisa! Hopefully! I never had ib but loads women do xxxxx

 

[crazymam]

Well i tested. Neg. Think this is my AF. Gonna book doc appt to check what is happening. With my one day AF last month and just want to know what is going on.

I wouldn't worry too much about a one day af, that's all I ever get really, one day of proper bleeding and a day or so after just llight spotting. When I told doc she wasn't too concerned about it. But think that's normal for me anyway x

 

[crazymam]

Hello regina and welcome, did I spell that right?
Becks I never had MS with any of mine, including the twins so don't worry. I had all girls but dont think that's why.
Nice to hear you are feeling sick lisa, in a nice way haha .
Try and relax Josie, although easier said than done I know! I am quite impressed with the ferning test by the way! Got my first high this morning on clearblue fertility monitor and the ferning matched up! opk still negative but usually is while I get the high readings on monitor. Only thing is I am only cd7 and usually ovulate dc14/15 so thinking I may ovulate a day or so earlier this cycle.
Docs thurs morning.

 

[Oasis717]

I have to say my AF has got lighter as I've got older, I was diagnosed with endometriosis in my 20's and up until last couple years I've had terribly painful and 7/8 day AF. Now they're more like 1 day heavy then spotting for 2/3 xxx

 

[josie1234]

Well looks like af is just over a day in duration and now stopped. Got appt at doctors on friday morning.

 

[Oasis717]

Hope you get on ok at the docs Jo, my strange cravings continue. Seems to be something different everyday as I've completely gone off most normal foods, tonight for dinner was Chinese pancake rolls, it's so weird cause the thought of most foods turns my stomach and there's just a few foods which I can stomach, although the ms is mild I've never had cravings in any pregnancy or gone off so many foods! Just had a good laugh at Mock The Week xxxx

 

[Left wonderin]

Hello everyone ,just poping back in to give post a quick update . Looks like the witch got me errrrrrrrrrrr. Its looking Like AF arrived this morin and decided to stick around . had the momentary ( well a few hours ) of the all too familiar feeling of a sinking heart before being able to put my positive head back on . Not quite sure what is going on with my cycle as I thought i was at the start of my TWW not the end lol .........

On a posiitve note there is another month loomin so here i go again CD1
Also my friends hens is on this weekend and I can now have a guilt free beer or two )

( although we all know id swap it ina heartbeat for a BFP )

 

[dancareoi]

Morning all,

Regina, sorry witch got you.

We a now in Wales until Sunday, so will try and have a few easy days.

Felt so sick all day yesterday, especially travelling in car. Don't feel as bad today, but the nausea feeling is still hanging about.

Jo and becks, how are you today?

 

[josie1234]

Hi Lisa i am not too bad. Been spotting. See what doc says tomorrow. Hope you have a nice few days away. Xx

 

[Oasis717]

Well I spent an awful 6.5 hours in A & E last night, getting home at gone 3am, I had a suspected dvt but when I eventually saw a doctor after hours and hours sitting in the same hard chair they think it's inflammation of the veins, very painful, was hoping they did hcg when they did all my bloods but no such luck lol. Xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Aw bless you Becks. Hope you are ok. Xxxx

 

[Oasis717]

I'm ok with my legs up its walking about! Was really scared it was a dvt so am really glad it's not that, they think the pregnancy hormones are playing havoc with my legs, my circulation is very bad due to really bad veins, inherited from my mum and dad xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

I'm ok with my legs up its waking about! Was really scared it was a dvt so am really glad it's not that, they think the pregnancy hormones are playing havoc with my legs, my circulation is very bad due to really bad veins, inherited from my mum and dad xxxx

Hipe you are feeling better today. Good sign maybe that thise pregnancy hormones are raging!

 

[dancareoi]

I'm ok with my legs up its waking about! Was really scared it was a dvt so am really glad it's not that, they think the pregnancy hormones are playing havoc with my legs, my circulation is very bad due to really bad veins, inherited from my mum and dad xxxx

Hipe you are feeling better today. Good sign maybe that thise pregnancy hormones are raging!

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi oasis hope you feeling a bit better today , not a nice experience I bet . 7. Weeks today yeah ))))

 

[Oasis717]

Yes 7 weeks today Regina still holding in there xx Still in pain walking I hope it's not gunna be like this the whole pregnancy! My fault also for not loosing weight! Being overweight certainly does not help my more legsxxx

Lisa I hope that's right! I must admit I've felt awful today and the nausea lasted hours, I'm still not managing to eat normal meals, I had a sausage sandwich for tea, veggie sausages as I don't eat meat only fish. Xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hows everyone today? I am quite nervous about dictors appointment this morning.

 

[Oasis717]

Hope you get on ok Jo, thinking of you xxxx My doc has sent my scan request to the wrong person in the hospital and I haven't managed to get hold of them to ask if they've passed it to the relevant dept, great, my scan I expect will now be delayed xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Hi Becks thats not good. Hope it doesnt delay it. How you feeling today? Woman doctor was very straight to the point but it wasnt too bad. Going back in an hour for blood test. Progesterone test in couple of weeks. Swabs on Monday. Hubby has to take sample to his docs within 30 mins of production lol.