TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[garfie]

Hi Ladies

Just found this thread - can I join?

I recognise some of you from the other threads

I am 42 this year and ttc baby number 3 with hubby number 2 (see my siggy for anything else)



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[josie1234]

Hi hows things?

 

[Oasis717]

Garfie!!!! How lovely to see you on this thread, have missed you loads, am really glad you're back on xxxxxxx

Well ladies the hospital rang this morning, my scan is Monday 1.20, I'm so scared xxxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Good lucks Becks. Will be thinking of you. Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks Jo, all I keep thinking about is what happened last time at 7 weeks, there was just a sac she thought I may of ovulated late and be earlier on than I thought but I wasn't, it was a blighted ovum This time I'll know for sure as I know exactly when I ovulated, dh is very optimistic, wish I was xxxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Garfie -

Becks, good luck for scan. I know exactly how feel. On one hand you want the scan to see how everything's going, but on the other hand you don't want it because you're worried bout what you'll find.

Keeping everything crossed for you.

Hi Jo, how did docs go?

 

[Oasis717]

Oh yes Jo how did you get on at docs today?xxxx
Lisa that's exactly how I feel, half of me doesn't even want a scan, the other half is desperate to know, ah well won't be long til I know one way or the other xxxx

 

[josie1234]

It went ok. Got bloods done for rubella and fsh. Waiting for results. There mon for swabs then on 7 th mar bloods for prog.hubby hopefully gonna get sample done early next week.

 

[Oasis717]

That's great Jo, at least you will be able to rule things out when you get the results xxxxx

 

[garfie]

Hi Ladies

Thanks for accepting me

Oasis - Aw hun your scan will be fine I am sure - remember it could still be twinnies a blighted ovum don't they suck not this time though hun you will have a little one(s) wriggling around in there

Jo - I don't know about you but I feel so much better if I am being pro-active every few months I try something different like temping/OPK etc this month I have bought some progesterone - who knows maybe that will work Don't forget to ask for your numbers and we can all obsess over them (Oasis knows what I mean)

Danc - to you to hun

Hi to all the other ladies I'm sure I will get to know you all as we carry on this journey

 

[Oasis717]

Lol I know what you mean Garfie, you do like your numbers me too I keep trying to tell myself I have too many symptoms for a blighted ovum but then again I've read about ladies with bo AND symptoms, I had none at all when I had mine, also I read that low hcg and progesterone is typical with a bo, again I didn't have, I guess tomorrow we shall see!! I know one thing I have never, ever been so moody in all my pregnancies, it's like pmt on steroids, it's been going on last few weeks, I'm not taking it out on anyone but it's pants feeling so impatient, moody and down right bloomin miserable lol. Yesterday was the most sick I've been, even stood over the loo hoping to be sick but nope, so far not that bad today xxxxx

 

[josie1234]

Thanks Garfie yes nice to be proactive but trying not to get obsessive like last month. Trying not to be stressed is easier said than done. Hubby getting promoted 1 Apr and will be away 4 days then back 4 days at a time. Obv making ttc bit more challenging. This also means i have to look for job as work part time shifts and cant work the hours i currently do. But maybe that means i will conceive lol as it does happen at most inconvenient time lol. See what happens. I am sure things will work out one way or another! Hows everyone today. Xx

 

[josie1234]

What do the numbers mean? What am i looking for? Hi Becks sorry you are having a tough time. Good luck for tomorrow hun xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you Jo, I've kinda prepared myself for either outcome I hope anyway, just really want it over and done with now, the closer it gets the worse it is!! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Just had my midwife call, she said congratulations and I was like, well, perhaps tomorrow, we'll see first, she didn't know about my blighted ovum in Sep, she only remembered my loss in June, she said to call her tomorrow whatever happens but if all ok she'll book me in for my 8 week booking app, it made me a bit upset as I feel so close, it almost feels like if your body hasn't let you down again you get 1st prize, booking app, but if it has then your back on the reject pile and won't be seeing anyone. Roll on tomorrow, the wait is killing!!! Xxx

 

[dancareoi]

Just had my midwife call, she said congratulations and I was like, well, perhaps tomorrow, we'll see first, she didn't know about my blighted ovum in Sep, she only remembered my loss in June, she said to call her tomorrow whatever happens but if all ok she'll book me in for my 8 week booking app, it made me a bit upset as I feel so close, it almost feels like if your body hasn't let you down again you get 1st prize, booking app, but if it has then your back on the reject pile and won't be seeing anyone. Roll on tomorrow, the wait is killing!!! Xxx

Good luck for tomorrow.

 

[Oasis717]

Thank you Lisa xxxx

 

[josie1234]

Becks good luck today. Will be thinking of you. Hope it goes ok xxxx

 

[dancareoi]

Becks, thinking of you. Today will go slow waiting for 1.20pm.

 

[garfie]

Oasis - No way will you be put back on the reject pile - try and relax and enjoy this experience. I was told one b.o is just bad luck and the chances of it happening again are v v v v v v v v v v v v (get the pic) slim

Will be thinking of you later and looking forward to your update



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