TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[crysshae]

Ahhhh... Wonder what would cause it to be positive this late in the cycle though...since it's supposed to pick up LH?

 

[crysshae]

I love hearing everyone's stories too.

I forgot to add to mine... To this day, he will still look at me and say "Thank you for dancing with me".

 

[Soanxious]

Past hour or so I have been reading this womans Journey... I hope I have started her blog from the beginning, its very interesting reading in anyone wants to read it, it also gives answers to questions and some lovely news

https://recurrentearlymiscarriage.w...urns-out-the-hsg-wasnt-a-total-waste-of-time/

 

[dancareoi]

Becks I got positive OPK before bfp!

My best friend lived next door to DH friend and one night we all arranged to go out and the rest is history. That was 25 1/2 years ago. We celebrate our 17th wedding anniversary in August.

Hope everyone is ok

Caitlin is now having 3 meals a day, which includes 1 1/2 weetabix for breakfast!

 

[josie1234]

Hi all, I have been stalking but just been very busy, the first half of the week is manic and then tomorrow and Friday I have easy days. Very tired tonight.

Lisa - blimey Caitlin is certainly enjoying her food, she is growing up so quickly.

Send the house cleaning fairy to here, cos she is definitely needed. lol

Yes, love hearing the stories how everyone met. I had been on my own with DS for 3 years when I got posted from Lincoln to Brampton, Cambridgeshire. Thought, oh lovely might meet the man of my dreams, got there and thought oh well, never mind. I found out that DH liked me through friends, he was also serving at Brampton. It was really funny though as he couldn't speak to me as he was so nervous, it was like he was speaking another language. Cute really. Anyway, we didn't get together for 4 months. He first rang me at work to ask me out for a drink on the Friday but I was going away for the weekend as DS was at his dads so I said I couldn't. When I put the phone down my friend (who worked for me) said that I was a bit mean as I didn't arrange another day so I got his number off her. We were texting for a bit (nothing in it just as mates) and I had started seeing someone but then he asked me out again and I was then single so arranged to go for a meal. But then we fell out before we went for the meal as my mate was having a leaving do and DH ended up coming along to the town with us (tried to come in our taxi which we had booked and was already full) then when we got into town he was around me all the time and a bit too much for me (kept buying me drinks lol) and I am quite independent so we fell out. Sounds daft now when I write it down. Anyway, we ended up not going on the meal and didn't text but then I dropped my DS off up North to my mums as I was on standby guard for the week so while I was up there I was at a bbq and rang DS as I didn't want to fall out with him. We arranged to go out for a drink on the Sunday when I got back home and we got on really well. It was sweet as when he arranged to pick me up on camp (I lived in a married quarter with DS, he lived in the block), I said I would meet him at the shop on camp (so he didn't know where I lived in case he was a nutter) but then when he dropped me off after the date, he came in for a drink and didn't leave lol. Crazy.

 

[josie1234]

Tanya - your chart is looking good on the temps. The blog is very interesting. Amazing.

Crystal - that is so sweet. I do believe things happen for a reason. I was offered a job at High Wycombe (before I got Brampton) but turned it down as it was long hours and expensive childcare so I met DH at Brampton. But now he is at High Wycombe so maybe I would have still met him at High Wycombe. Fate. My favourite film is sliding doors with Gwyneth Paltrow.

 

[josie1234]

Becks - I don't know about your chart hun, it seems to have gone high and your LP is looking good but I know previously you had a BFP quite early on. I really hope the next few days shed some light for you. Are you taking anything? The acupuncturist seems to think I had a lot of pos opks because of the tablets I was taking but didn't confirm it or say which ones but I had a lot of pos opks on that mega cycle. She said that mine could have been false pos opks. I will watch your chart with interest, good luck xx

 

[josie1234]

Tilly - how are you doing? Any more symptoms or CM updates?

 

[tillyttc]

No much to report 8dpo tomorrow ! Cm has turned a thick white and just keep getting funny twinges other than that sweet bugger all ! Oh yes was at a funeral today with my sister and on the way back to the car I was commenting on the height of her heels and that she couldn't walk properly 2 mins later she fell to the floor went very grey and faint and was nearly sick ! Only gone and broke her foot ! Xx

 

[josie1234]

Omg horrendous. How awful for her
Hope u get some more symptoms soon. Looking forward to seeing the temps off everyone. I am so tired but can't get to sleep. Mind u I did doze off earlier on settee for power nap. Really hope you have caught the egg this time hun xx

 

[Oasis717]

Thanks ladies, really don't know what's goin on, I haven't changed anything or taken anything. 12dpo tomorrow, well today! Should be asleep but watching American Horror Story Series on Netflix. After the streaks of red I had small bouts of cm with brown then nothing. I'm still expecting af I think it's just a fluke. Temp will prob be down in the morn. It's all v strange but I'm def not pregnant. Weirdly though af symptoms have completely disappeared. No cramping anymore. No tender boobs. Moodiness is gone and I've been really cheerful. Just really odd! Xxxxx

 

[Soanxious]

Jo, thats another great story of meeting, so it was fate then,,, I love sliding doors too... great movie.. might actually watch it again later

Tilly I am seriously thinking its looking good for you...

Becks I feel like you.. I have no tender bbs etc.. even my slightly bloated tummy has shrunk... im so sure I have stopped testing... normally I test morning n night and I stopped yesterday morning and not testing today

I've forgotten what normal pre af is like being pregnant for most of the time since oct.. temp drop and feel 100% not pregnant... going to treat myself to a nice glass or 2 of merlot this weekend..

Is there a song that reminds you of your other half? When myself and OH were really dating the song.. "somebody that I used to know" by Gotye...used to be playing all the time...just flashes me back to then...

 

[Oasis717]

Well I've no need to test! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

I walked down the aisle to Hey Joe by Jimi Hendrix cause it was playing the night we met in the bar when we first kissed xxx

 

[Soanxious]

Well I've no need to test! Xxx

Has the arrived?

 

[Soanxious]

I walked down the aisle to Hey Joe by Jimi Hendrix cause it was playing the night we met in the bar when we first kissed xxx

what an awesome tune to walk down the ailse too!!!!

Ohhhhhh now I just saw your chart.. aww hun we seem to know our bodies and you were right....

I will be right behind you...and we can TWW all over again together xxxx

 

[tillyttc]

Oasis so sorry it a bummer why does it have to be so hard its just not fair ! I feel very despondent today have no symptoms and I keep googling and seeing that everyone else has its soul destroying ! Fed up with it all ! 6 days to af and I just get the feeling she will come ! The cow . Xx

 

[tillyttc]

Oh yes took my temp this morning before I got out of bed before I spoke or did anything didnt even sit up lol just to see what it was dont have a clue what it means but was 37.1 ? Xx

 

[tillyttc]

Converted is 98.7 ? Xx

 

[Soanxious]

Tilly a one off temp will mean nothing, what it needs to do is have a daily taken at or very close to the same time every morning so you can see if its higher or lower than normal... mine went from 36.77 yesterday to 36.64 today so even the slightest drop here looks massive in my chart etc... I started temping and charting at day 1 of cycle, not sure if it harms to start now, obviously it takes a couple of months to see patterns etc.. im coming close to the end of my first chart as I am due AF this weekend..