Course you don't offend Crystal, looking back at my 12 week loss in June 2012 I had warning signs, brown discharge on and off and what my mW told me were Braxton Hicks from 6 weeks which I know think weren't as I didn't get them until past 24 weeks with Brooklyn, I also had weeks at a time barely feeling sick from early on, although 2 days before I lost my lo we heard them move at the midwifes so as worried as I was that reassured us but it wasn't to be, I had no scans due to no previous problems so I will never know why, also i felt Brooklyn move from 10 weeks but felt nothing with that pregnancy, i was just starting to show when i lost them, for the same reason as Lisa we waited until 14 weeks to tell the children, Casey was devasted when we told him, they never knew about my 11 week loss after that, with that one I had not one symptom so I knew from the start something was terribly wrong and it was a blighted ovum. With Brooklyn I had strong everything, tests, symptoms, it was completely different xxxxxxx