TTC after loss - over 40 - any takers? Our lucky thread - 9 rainbows and 1 BFP

[Left wonderin]

Becks hopefully she stays away !! But I know your not hopeful this cycle due to spotting . So exciting about the training position enjoy AFM wish I'd kept temping now ! No idea if I even ov . Suppose time will tell lol...

 

[Soanxious]

Thank you.. I can't be without my temping.... even though I have ton of EWCM and ov pain and have the saliva test and opks LOL...

hope you get a nice bfp soon

 

[Left wonderin]

So can I ask a question about salvia testing . I got one but not a fern in sight !! I got them at the end nearing my period but this months when I got Opk + there was zero ferning !!! Errrr did this ever happen to you ?

 

[Oasis717]

I wish I could help Regina but I've no idea about ferning! Massive temp drop but no AF or spottinh I'm stumped!!xx

 

[Soanxious]

I've only ever tested around ov and had ferning on my exact ov days... here are some pics.. I find they are easier to see if you take a photo with your mobile phone.. thats how I see the ferns rather than the naked eye.. hope that helps...

My Granddaughter is really poorly after her MMR last week, well 11 days ago, she has had bad reactions and Diarrhea and off her food, she has been screaming non stop for a few days and not sleeping so my daughter is in the Childrens hospital with her now waiting to be seen... so worried

How was everyone's LO here that have had the MMR?

 

[Oasis717]

I'm so v sorry to hear that Tanya, a lot of people don't agree but neither Casey or Brooklyn have had any jabs at all and Georgia (13) didn't have the MMR she had her baby jabs and was terribly ill after each one getting worse and worse, she was then ill almost constantly for 2 years with mystery virus after mystery virus and no one could give me any answers, she got better around 2 but was left with severe eczema and allergies which thankfully she's now growing out of, I researched all the jabs in much depth and we decided on the strength of what I found and the extent of Georgias reaction to not take part in immunisations. I think Casey's been ill a handful of times since he was born in complete contradiction to Georgia. A lot of people don't agree with this but we feel its our decision alone, I'm so so hoping your granddaughter is OK and gets better v soon xx

 

[Soanxious]

I agree with both sides of having them done or not.. thanks for the reply... I was always torn and my son was VERY poorly after his baby ones and I wouldnt take him for his 12 month one but his dad did when I was in college... and I was so annoyed as he too was similar to my Granddaughter and very poorly for around 6 weeks.

 

[Oasis717]

There's a lot people just don't know about these jabs and I don't think its fair we aren't told more, we went to see a specialist at the hospital because my doctor was trying to force us to get Casey to have them, this was a senior consultant we saw and when I asked him if its true they had replaced the mercury used as a preservative in these jabs with the chemical equivilant of anti freeze he said yes that's true. Shocking. I think he was shocked I knew! Xxx I'm sure your granddaughter will be just fine, hopefully they can give her something to help her feel better xxx

 

[Soanxious]

She is in Calpol, ibrufen and dyoralite... and its just heartbreaking... and all she wants to wear is the cow outfit I bought her for her b/day and she is hysterical when it is moved to be quickly washed and settles slightly when back in it.. then off again with illness.. this is so not her she loves her onsie and searches for it when its in the wash,,,, aww bless her..I hate living so far away x

 

[Oasis717]

That's so upsetting bless her heart, I'm so so hoping she recovers quickly, she's a gorgeous little girl xxxx

 

[Soanxious]

They have still not been seen.. they have been at the childrens hospital back n forth waiting over 6 hours a time and needing to go home for sleep... they are now on route to a new hospital to be seen...#NHS is a joke!!!!!!!

Yeah and I start my training with nhs wales today... but Birmingham is a joke


This is my clearblue trail, more pots etc plus lots of paperwork but this is what you get, well what I got.

whats happening with you? and thanks.. she is such a sweetie but so poorly and now flushed to face x

 

[Oasis717]

Omg the NHS is appalling leaving a lo for that length of time! Have they been seen yet at the other hospital? I think cb are ringing me tomorrow morning. STILL no AF and I'm late but def not pregnant, brown cm still but that's it! Xxx

 

[garfie]

Becks - Never say never - lets put it this way -seen my temps today

So - Aw bless her - she looks such a cutie in her onesie. Hope she has finally been seen that's so disgusting for them to have to wait that long

Regina - I tried ferning once (I keep forgetting) - when it is there it is deff there - how's todays looking?

Love to all the other ladies

AFM - Well I think my chart speaks for itself



X

 

[Oasis717]

Aw Fi I think mine does too! We bd this morning and I would always come on after if AF is due but still just brown cm I'm really stumped but my temps are pants and I have no symptoms! Xxx

 

[Oasis717]

Oops spoke too soon spotting red now I'm out! But I knew that xx

 

[garfie]

will probably be joining you soon Becks - doesn't she know halloween has been and gone

Meant to ask was it your hubby Regina who did the sa at home?



X

 

[Oasis717]

Like you said Fi you never do know though! Xxx

 

[Soanxious]

I bought her that for her Birthday(onesie) and she won't wear anything else, her mum removes it to wash it quick and she is crying non stop for it, when it is dried she pulls at it for her mum to redress her in it and she is happier.. so I think I need to buy a few more in bigger sizes too.. my son was exactly the same but with tigger onesies how crazy she is following him, my daughter said thats all she is wearing and people must think that's all she has to wear the past few days online with pics hahaha

AS for your chart that maybe a nice implantation dip 9dpo

Omg the NHS is appalling leaving a lo for that length of time! Have they been seen yet at the other hospital? I think cb are ringing me tomorrow morning. STILL no AF and I'm late but def not pregnant, brown cm still but that's it! Xxx

They have eventually seen a Dr!!!! She has Gastroenteritis and has been given more Dyoralite and she has to go back in 48 hours if she is no better... and to feed her plenty of rice bread and jacket potatos they said...

Oops spoke too soon spotting red now I'm out! But I knew that xx

Ah... well at least your not being left in limbo and that wasnt such an early AF now hey? x BUY VITAMIN B! LOL

AFM I had my induction day today and it was good, I start on Reception tomorrow.. im so nervous.. tons of training to cram in too..

 

[Left wonderin]

Hi everyone Becks I'm sorry she came but glad your not left in limbo . Limbo is the worst !! Fi sorry she got you too .... She is such a cow !!!! AFM zero ferning !!! Lots of pebbles but zero ferning !! I either didn't ov ( but have positive Opk or there is something up with my estrogen !!! Errrrrrrrr I did get ferning just before AF last month ! Who knows . 4 DPO today IF I ovulated .... Wish I'd bloody tempd !!!! My happy birthday tommrow 42 years young !!!!

So glad your granddaughter got seen , poor mite hopefully she will be on the mend soon . Good luck with the new job x

 

[Soanxious]

Never too late to start temping...

Happy Birthday woo hoo!! x