TTC after Methotrexate shot

[Becktoria]

No Cath we have to pay for it ourselves as we already have a 5year old. I was told i had blocked tubes in may from lap &dye op thats probably why I had ectopic. We can't afford ivf so we are going down the egg share route where I give away some of my eggs to another couple who can't produce their own and they pay for mine and the hubby's ivf. We still have to pay for consultations, tests etc but not the actual ivf bit, fingers crossed I can do it , they have to test u first. It's been a long 12 months since I lost my baby daughter, it's hard to get my head around that tubes are blocked. Fingers crossed for a 2013 rainbow. Xxxdo you think my levels will b 0 by end of week? Xxxxx

 

[cathgibbs]

Ohhhh bless you hun,they should be 0 by end of week are you scheduled to go back for any more bloods? It's soooooo much money isn't it,any idea how they are blocked or is it just 'one of those things' as soon as your levels are 0 you can start the ball rolling is it hun? Xxx

 

[chig]

Cath, I hope you are feeling better. You have been through so much. Good luck with everything.

Arm, I am not sure what is going on with my cycle. I only had watery CM and never got the egg white kind. According to fertility friend, I was suppose to be ovulating this weekend, but with my temp rising, it now says that I already ovulated on CD11. Today is CD15. DH and I did dtd a few time before, so I hope I didn't miss it. Is it possible that I still haven't ovulated? Why do things have to get complicated the cycle we decide to start???

 

[alleysm]

Cath, I hope you are feeling better. You have been through so much. Good luck with everything.

Arm, I am not sure what is going on with my cycle. I only had watery CM and never got the egg white kind. According to fertility friend, I was suppose to be ovulating this weekend, but with my temp rising, it now says that I already ovulated on CD11. Today is CD15. DH and I did dtd a few time before, so I hope I didn't miss it. Is it possible that I still haven't ovulated? Why do things have to get complicated the cycle we decide to start???

Im with you on this.. never saw ewcm... ff says i ovulated on cd16 of i disregard two temps (was sick ) but if i dont disregard its cd 17... who the hell knows! Now im looking at my temps and wondering how progesterone is affecting them... ahhhhh! So many variables!

 

[Becktoria]

They think it's down to scar tissue Cath, probably from after giving birth to my sleeping angel. I had retained placenta and got an infection but didn't know for over 2 weeks after having her. Had d&c done on her due date of all days and was on drip for antibiotics. I was very poorly, so they think it's from that. Fingers crossed I get my 2013 rainbow xxx

 

[Becktoria]

Sorry to keep asking questions but all I got from hospital was a leaflet that didn't explain much.
When do I start taking folic acid again? And also I've heard you can't drink after taking methotrexade is this true? My levels were 6 yesterday, could really do with a couple of glasses of wine after a stressful two weeks do you think it will be ok now? Xx

 

[chig]

Sorry to keep asking questions but all I got from hospital was a leaflet that didn't explain much.
When do I start taking folic acid again? And also I've heard you can't drink after taking methotrexade is this true? My levels were 6 yesterday, could really do with a couple of glasses of wine after a stressful two weeks do you think it will be ok now? Xx

I was told to start taking my prenatal vitamins after my numbers are at 0. You should avoid alcohol because the drug affects your liver and can't process the alcohol. I have read to not drink for like 3 months. I think a glass of wine here and there should be fine though. I stayed away from it for 100 days. I hope you recover soon...

 

[baby_maybe]

Hi hunni, I drank before my numbers got to 0, I needed it after all the stress. Just take it easy if you do, but I'm sure a glass or two will be fine

 

[cathgibbs]

Awww hun thats so sad i have read that infections can cause ectopics which then mean tubes getting damagedf, i got everything x for you for next year!! Re your question dont take no vitamins until 0 and they advise not to drink my levels today are 351 but i think ill be having a drink in a weeks time, after everything thats happened these past 2 weeks i need one lol xxx

 

[chig]

Cath, I hope you are feeling better. You have been through so much. Good luck with everything.

Arm, I am not sure what is going on with my cycle. I only had watery CM and never got the egg white kind. According to fertility friend, I was suppose to be ovulating this weekend, but with my temp rising, it now says that I already ovulated on CD11. Today is CD15. DH and I did dtd a few time before, so I hope I didn't miss it. Is it possible that I still haven't ovulated? Why do things have to get complicated the cycle we decide to start???

Im with you on this.. never saw ewcm... ff says i ovulated on cd16 of i disregard two temps (was sick ) but if i dont disregard its cd 17... who the hell knows! Now im looking at my temps and wondering how progesterone is affecting them... ahhhhh! So many variables!

Well, I spoke too soon. I got a little bit of EWCM yesterday afternoon, so DH and i did the baby dance just in case we still had a chance. Then this morning, my temp dropped again so FF went back to this weekend as being my ovulation time. I really hope we caught the eggie. We will probably dtd today just to make sure! I guess only time will tell...but you are right there are so many variables. I don't know how accurate my temps are because I have been going to sleep late for the last few nights...Good luck to you!

 

[Renzalxx]

Cath, I hope you are feeling better. You have been through so much. Good luck with everything.

Arm, I am not sure what is going on with my cycle. I only had watery CM and never got the egg white kind. According to fertility friend, I was suppose to be ovulating this weekend, but with my temp rising, it now says that I already ovulated on CD11. Today is CD15. DH and I did dtd a few time before, so I hope I didn't miss it. Is it possible that I still haven't ovulated? Why do things have to get complicated the cycle we decide to start???

Im with you on this.. never saw ewcm... ff says i ovulated on cd16 of i disregard two temps (was sick ) but if i dont disregard its cd 17... who the hell knows! Now im looking at my temps and wondering how progesterone is affecting them... ahhhhh! So many variables!

Well, I spoke too soon. I got a little bit of EWCM yesterday afternoon, so DH and i did the baby dance just in case we still had a chance. Then this morning, my temp dropped again so FF went back to this weekend as being my ovulation time. I really hope we caught the eggie. We will probably dtd today just to make sure! I guess only time will tell...but you are right there are so many variables. I don't know how accurate my temps are because I have been going to sleep late for the last few nights...Good luck to you!

Yay for fertile CM Chig, i didnt get my smiley face on my OPK until i was about CD18 so maybe you just ovulated a little later than usual... good luck catching that eggie hun - keep us posted. Im on the tww so hopefully will have some good news by next week.... x

 

[baby_maybe]

Hi ladies, I haven't posted much lately, but last week I got my bfp. Only to be followed today by bleeding I haven't contacted the epau as I don't want to get caught up in their procedures again (it totally screwed me up last time), I think I'm just going to wait it out and see what happens. Hopefully it's not an ectopic, although I have 0 pain just bleeding at the moment.

 

[cathgibbs]

oh hun what is the bleeding like? how far gone do you think you are,i dont blame you for not going to the epau hun, its such a drawn out process xxx

 

[baby_maybe]

Well its dark red, not enough to reach the pad at present, but definitely there. I had a bit of a clot this morning too so assume this pg is on it's way out. However I took another hpt a moment ago and it was still really dark so maybe all is not lost? Anyway despite what I said earlier about not wanting to go to epau again I've called the doc to ask for a referral. To put my mind at rest that it's not another ectopic above all else. I'll keep you girls updated

 

[alleysm]

Please keep is updated

 

[chig]

I am so sorry baby_maybe I am glad you are going to go to the doctors. You have to make sure you are safe. I hope it is not another ectopic and that you will recover more quicker. Take care and keep us updated...

 

[cathgibbs]

yeh hun just to rule it out, as they say after you have had one your more prone to another one, good luck chick and let us know xxx

 

[baby_maybe]

Thank you ladies you are all so lovely. I'll keep you informed once I know a bit more.

 

[cathgibbs]

you having any pain with the bleeding hun? just remember.......some women bleed throughout pregnancy xxxx

 

[PreshFest]

SO sorry to hear that Baby_maybe! I really hope it turns out to be nothing. I can't wait for an update....Good luck!!!

And good luck to those of you in the TWW!! Eeek!! Renzal, when are you testing?