TTC after Methotrexate shot

[Laubull]

Thanks all.

I am confused as to why they wouldn't scan me either, it seemed the obviously thing to do.... I think their view was because I wasn't in any pain and there wasn't any symptoms of a repture or internal bleeding they could leave it to see what happens.

I hope they have some answers on Wedneday and also hope it's a miscarriage and not another ectopic.

Thank you again I really appeciate all of your support.

x

 

[chig]

Laubull that is horrible news. I am so do sorry that this is happening to you. It is so hard to see other women have no problem while some of us struggle to get a BFP and then to actually have it stick in the right place. I hope everything is okay and is not another ectopic.

The world can be so unfair.

 

[GrkGrl]

Laubull- that is awful! I am so sorry! I really hope its a MC and not an ectopic! They may not be scanning you because your numbers are so low. When mine were low (before it was determined that I had an ectopic), they would send for a scan but couldn't see anything at that low of a number. I'm no doc, so I don't know the protocol - just guessing?

I'm really sorry though. Keep trying though. Your baby will come.

TraceyandLee- sorry about your loss too. Glad you are feeling ok about it.

 

[Laubull]

Thank you Chig

Everything happens for a reason, it wasn't meant to be, etc., etc., although statements like that might be right it doesn't help!

Fingers crossed we all get our forever babies soon, this baby making malarky isn't easy!

x

 

[Laubull]

Thank you GrkGrl. x

 

[jammers77]

Oh golly, I'm sorry Laubull. I was hoping that it was just random bleeding. I echo what GrkGrl said. With my ectopic, they did two scans (my number was 48 with my last transvaginal they did) and could find nothing, so it's possible that's why they didn't scan. Though that doesn't help you right now, does it? I'm so sorry, chick.

 

[Renzalxx]

Oh Laubull, that is awful news.. I too had a miss carriage after my ectopic so maybe your body is just not quite ready yet to hold a healthy little bean just yet...so sorry for your news and sending you big cyber cuddles xx

Traceyand Lee, bummer news too luv, on the plus side it will give your body a little longer to heal xxx all systems go for next cycles xxxx

 

[Laubull]

Thank you Renzal

Everything is in full swing now, hoping it'll all pass quickly. Thinking/hoping its a miscarriage this time and not ectopic. Presh I think you could be right about metho being a horrible drug, although I suppose I'll never know what went wrong this time and if it was to blame.

I can't give up hoping for my rainbow it just feels a little further away

X

 

[PreshFest]

You'll definitely get that rainbow.... Renzal and I went through the ectopic and then a mc also and now we both have healthy babies growing! Just don't give up hope. Just take as much time as you need to heal and then hop back on the ttc wagon and get yourself that rainbow!

 

[autigers55]

Sorry to hear that Laubull.

 

[Laubull]

Thank you Presh. When did you TTC again after the miscarriage? I know they say you should wait one cycle but all I can focus on is trying again straight away, I am ready to get back on that horse ASAP even though my miscarriage isn't finished yet, is that bad? I hope not, just trying to get through the pain....

Thanks Autigers

x

 

[baby_maybe]

Sorry Laubull, I was hoping you just got some random spotting like I've had recently. I'm very glad that you don't need metho again though, that stuff is just the worst!

 

[PreshFest]

I had to have a d&c (baby died at 6-7 weeks and was still in there at 12 wks!) so I had to wait 3 months. We started trying at 2, but didn't get pregnant until the 3rd month anyway. But I know for a natural miscarriage it is definitely ok to try again right away. My sister is going through the same thing right now and she will be trying again after her next cycle.

 

[Laubull]

Thanks Presh, fingers crossed for your sister

I am going to ask about taking aspirin, the more I hear about it the more I feel it could potentially help me. Ok I've only had one miscarriage, the ectopic can't be included, but I have a family history of blood clots, my Nan, Grandpa and my mum have all had thrombosis, in fact my mum had to have heparin injections throughout her pregnancy with me so I can't help but feel it could help? I know I am grasping at straws but anything is worth a go to avoid this heartache again. I will of course discuss it with my doctor.

x

 

[baby_maybe]

Sounds like it couldn't hurt hun xxx

 

[chig]

I have also read about people taking aspirin. You wouldn't take it if they only have a blood clot problem? Or can anyone take it and be helpful?

 

[Laubull]

There seems to be lots of talk about it, just search aspirin on thread titles.

Also founds this: https://www.babyhopes.com/articles/what-is-baby-aspirin-and-how-is-it-related-to-fertility.html

Some people seem to take throughout their cycle, others only if they get a BFP, I'm not sure what is best?

I also read that in IVF people taking aspirin had a higher success rate so I dont think it's just related to blood clots, it does like a 'wonder drug' but is it too good to be true?

Chig - your chart is looking good, I hope your temp stays up there
X

 

[chig]

Thanks Laubull for the information and checking out my chart!

I am hoping that this is my cycle. My temps are looking pretty good, but I don't want to jinx it. Since the MTX, I usually start to spot brown 2-3 days before AF shows, so I keep looking out for it. I hope it doesn't show this time. I am thinking to maybe test tomorrow or Friday. I am expect AF sometime this weekend.

I dont really have any symptoms, but something just feels different and I can't pin point it. It could be all in my head.

 

[Laubull]

Chig, it's definitely sounding good, I hope you get your BFP tomorrow or friday

X

 

[Renzalxx]

chig, I'm barracking for you girlie! Let's hope you caught that eggie and your BFP shows up this weekend xxx