TTC after Methotrexate shot

[ladyluck8181]

Good luck for your IUI summer xxx

 

[saveme]

Day 14 ultrasound today showed a nice big follie (20+) one smaller (~18) and lining now at 8.5!!
Triggered today and iui Tomorrow afternoon. So im not out after all, So happy to have a chance this month.

Great news I hope this is your month hun, and you get your BFP, and little bean to settle in the right spot...I've got everything crossed for you hun!!!

 

[LynnC]

Good luck with the iui and little pea goes straight to the uterus n stays there !!!

 

[ladyluck8181]

I have a confession to make, I feel guilty as sin but we had a 'whoopsie'.

I can't decide if it was an accidental whoopsie or a subconcious on purpose whoopsie because I knew I was ovulating I know I've been really silly as I only had to wait til my next cycle.

I've done loads of googling and it seems there is a lot of mixed advice from waiting after first AF after mtx to the standard 3 months I got told.

Is there anything I can do in case we did catch on? Will they try to encourage me to terminate because of risks? Am worried senseless, stupid stupid woman

 

[summer2011]

Are you back on your folate sups? I think the biggest risk would be because of folic acid deficiency. Other than that all you can really do is wait it out. I doubt they'd recommend you to terminate, I think you'd just be very closely monitored.

 

[ladyluck8181]

Thanks Summer

I've been taking 3mg of folic acid a day so one would hope I have covered that aspect.

So now I'm gonna sit and wait it out, I'll give AF a few days to show if it doesn't I will test

 

[saveme]

Thanks Summer

I've been taking 3mg of folic acid a day so one would hope I have covered that aspect.

So now I'm gonna sit and wait it out, I'll give AF a few days to show if it doesn't I will test

Good luck Summer keep up on those folic sup just in case
If it's meant to be it will be.

 

[ladyluck8181]

Lol I assume you might mean me and not summer so thank you

A sneaky part of me is hoping

 

[jules79]

Hi just wondering if i could join the group. Had an ectopic this time last Sept. Been ttc since last jan with no luck so far, feel a bit down at the moment could do with some support from those who have been there. Thanks.

 

[ladyluck8181]

Sorry you've had to join us Jules but welcome

Hope we can all bring you a little bit of support xx

 

[saveme]

Hi just wondering if i could join the group. Had an ectopic this time last Sept. Been ttc since last jan with no luck so far, feel a bit down at the moment could do with some support from those who have been there. Thanks.

Hi Jules of course you can join I'm sorry about your loss. What methods have you been using to fall pregnant? I had an ectopic in 2010 and thought after a year being on a break we would NTNP but that didn't work Then me and DH are settled now and everything was going great with us so we sat down and made a plan to TRY and that same month we did unfortunately it ended up in another ectopic We literally dtd every other day after my AF went off. I also did temping I don't like to opk cause then I felt I would just put to much pressure on myself. I hope and pray you get that BFP really soon. But we all need the support on this journey of ttc after an ectopic esp, so feel free to vent or whatever really the ladies on here are so supportive and understanding.

 

[saveme]

Lol I assume you might mean me and not summer so thank you

A sneaky part of me is hoping

ladyluck8181I can completely understand what you mean I mean I know I'm not supposed to be "Trying" per-say right now and DH will not do it so were using the pullout method, and I just subconsciously hope some swimmers get in... But my motto is "what will be will be" and if it doesn't happen this month next month all gloves are off and were going for it.
But I really hope for you it happens like NOW!

 

[summer2011]

welcome Jules :wave:
We all understand. This forum has helped me tremendously. Quite a few ladies already have there rainbows after mtx so gives us all alot of hope.

Had the iui yesterday and dh had incredible numbers (over 100 million washed ) if one can't make it I don't know what else to do. Lol

I feel like our timing was perfect this month, temps up this morning so i feel i already o'd. Last time it took 3 additional days for my temp to rise, even after the trigger. Fingers are crossed.

 

[ladyluck8181]

Oh gosh, Summer I had goosebumps reading that, I hope this is it for you! Keeping everything crossed for you, what is your test date? Xxx

 

[summer2011]

Sept 24 is my test date, not sure if I will test then or wait a few days. I'm sure my poas disorder will surface and force me to test then though Trying not to get my hopes up cause I still only have a 10-15% chance of a bfp during any cycle.

 

[jammers77]

Jules, I'm so sorry to hear of your struggles. Definitely check into the TTC boards and get some advice from the lovely ladies there if you'd like. Many of them have been there, done that when it comes to fertility information. There are a plethora of things you can try if you haven't already done so. Sometimes it just takes time and research to get the ball rolling. Hugs to you!

 

[jules79]

Thanks every one feels better just talking about it with people who have been there. Sorry for all your losses too. Save me i temped for about 4 months to check that i was ovulating and when but stopped because i found it quite stressful, kept thinking about numbers all the time lol. Havent tried opks yet but may do. Im the same dtd everyotherday after af on cd11 at moment, so we'll see. The ectopic hit me like train to be honest and still difficult a year later but its really nice to see that others have gone on to have rainbow babies.

 

[saveme]

welcome Jules :wave:
We all understand. This forum has helped me tremendously. Quite a few ladies already have there rainbows after mtx so gives us all alot of hope.

Had the iui yesterday and dh had incredible numbers (over 100 million washed ) if one can't make it I don't know what else to do. Lol

I feel like our timing was perfect this month, temps up this morning so i feel i already o'd. Last time it took 3 additional days for my temp to rise, even after the trigger. Fingers are crossed.

Oh summer I hope you get that bfp in a couple weeks... FX this is your month. Everything sounds like it will happen
Good luck hun!!!

 

[summer2011]

Just wanted to check in and see how you all are doing? This thread has been quiet for a while!

Not much new to report here. On 7dpiui now, 7 more till testing.

 

[ladyluck8181]

Hey Summer! I'm good, promised myself I wasn't going to get over hyped about our whoopsie this month and definitely wouldn't test unless AF was late soooooooooo I am pleased to report that 40 IC tests managed to fall through my ebay check out yesterday and I am anticipating delivery tomorrow which would be 10 days post deed.

I have officially gone crazy!

How are you feeling about this cycle? Any symptoms? xx