Thanks Faith, I needed that. I am 35 and DH is 36. I've had AMH to see my eggs quality and turned out good even though premature menopause hits every female in my family by 35. Last month was a big break, stopped everything but I know when I ovulate now so it's hard to forget when it comes time. I don't know if I just ignored this prior to my surgery but I know now what side I ovulate due to ovulation pains. I've done 3 cycles of clomid/hcg and 2 cycles of iuis. My hsg shows my right tube block I'm assuming with scar tissues. I really love my fertility doc but what aggravates me, after spending so much money is that there should be a discount knowing I did the TR and I've tried everything, next step ivf discounted. She agrees ivf BUT, it's 10,000 a try not including meds. Which is another 2500 or so. DH- SA is awesome so I know it's me and my stupid choice 14 years ago.
hope it's good news
I'm currently 8-9 dpo as well and plan to test Tuesday, unless af has shown! I've been thinking more and more about trying clomid
I really didn't want to do that, but after 16mo.of NOTHING..I'm really beginning to wonder. if I do try it, I'll plan it beginning in June. My sis, mom and myself are doing an intinsive weight loss plan for the month of May and don't want to throw clomid in the mix
xoxo
So did you have any BFPs at all before you started the clomid? Quite a few of us here have had that dreaded M/C some have even had more than one. I had one the month after my surgery but this one was definitely my lil sticky bean! Can't wait to chat more with you. 
I've done much better this cycle...no opks or temping and I actually don't have any anxiety or anxious feelings during the tww this time around...with each passing month, I begin to accept what may very well be the reality. I was once fertile but made a selfish choice.
Yes we are all waiting xxx
