Tubal Reversal ladies, just moved from WTT!!!

[GalvanBaby]

How are you feeling Jenafyr?

 

[Jenafyr4]

How are you feeling Jenafyr?

I'm feeling much better. My doctor had me get the blood patch for my spinal headache and I'm like a new person....lol Although I was sore, it was all masked by my annoying headache. I did have some sneezing while at my son's 10th Birthday party that made me say some dirty words, but other than that I'm good. I'm back to work today

How was your weekend get-a-way?

 

[GalvanBaby]

My weekend was horrible. I hurt all weekend. I didn't have any cramps on Friday, but Saturday they started and they were worse than the other days. I had to basically lay around all weekend. We have to go to OH's grandma's house in about 2 weeks so I will take advantage then and go to the beach.

To beat it all, I come home to find out OH's cousins are pregnant. One lives at home with Mom and off of mom. She also has 3 kids. She doesn't know who the father is as usual. And for an extra punch in the stomach, she is due the same day I was due. Her sister who has 2 kids and they live with mom while she lives 8 hours away is pregnant as well and got pregnant the same month as my CP. Talk about a bad welcome home.

 

[Jenafyr4]

My weekend was horrible. I hurt all weekend. I didn't have any cramps on Friday, but Saturday they started and they were worse than the other days. I had to basically lay around all weekend. We have to go to OH's grandma's house in about 2 weeks so I will take advantage then and go to the beach.

To beat it all, I come home to find out OH's cousins are pregnant. One lives at home with Mom and off of mom. She also has 3 kids. She doesn't know who the father is as usual. And for an extra punch in the stomach, she is due the same day I was due. Her sister who has 2 kids and they live with mom while she lives 8 hours away is pregnant as well and got pregnant the same month as my CP. Talk about a bad welcome home.

I'm sorry you couldn't enjoy your weekend and I hope you are feeling better soon. A lot of women get preggers with a sticky right away after a miscarriage...I did and that miracle just turned 10 yesterday

 

[jasminep0489]

She's so sweet!!! Hang onto every little minute! My little man just turned six months and I cry every time he does something to show me he's getting more and more independent. They grow so fast!! Congrats on the little princess, she's beautiful!

 

[Mommabrown]

Thank you ladies!!!

Faith I could never loose touch with all you wonderful ladies who have been there through all the ups and downs of my journey! I love you all!

Galvan I had a misscarriage and a cp before we got Emmaleigh. I promise you that it will happen for you!!

Jasmine I sit there and stare at her in amazement and still can't believe we really have a baby. Everything we went through toget this beautiful blessing made it all worth it.

 

[mammaspath]

mommabrown emma is the cutest baby ever!

Mammaspath, how are you doing? I would love to see an updated photo of your little sweetie

Hi!!! I am doing well! just busy bussy with baby school work......life! I will update pics in a bit as I am learning to become a photographer now! i just cant quit being busy! how are you???

 

[~Brandy~]

I am so frustrated... I am out again this month thats devastating after my loss last month!

Well onto my IUI this cycle.

 

[GalvanBaby]

Brandy.

 

[cupcakestoy]

Hoping things get better for you Brandy & Galvans. I've never experienced this kind of loss, at least not yet, but my heart breaks for you ladies

 

[Jenafyr4]

Hey ladies....I hope everyone is doing good. Its been way to quiet in here...

AFM...I'm healing rather well, my incision is barely noticeable, however it stings at times. My boys baseball season is wrapping up soon, I wont know what to do with myself...lol My mom, who was rather against my TR is texting me with name ideas lol and I'm not even preggers yet, my name ideas for a girl have gone out the window, but I do love what me and my mom have come up with....either Lily Grace or Lily Analyse, Lily was my great grandmothers name, My hubby wants a boy... I have tried to tell everyone to hold their horses, but no such luck Work is well work, but I didn't miss much my week off which was WONDERFUL.....

 

[jasminep0489]

Hoping things get better for you Brandy & Galvans. I've never experienced this kind of loss, at least not yet, but my heart breaks for you ladies

Hi!! I see you're from Tennessee. What part of the state are you in? I'm in Knoxville and had my TR in Jackson with Dr. Rogers.

 

[cupcakestoy]

I am about 2 hours from Knoxville on the Cumberland Plateau, in Overton County.

 

[jasminep0489]

Well, hello neighbor! Glad to see a TR buddy so close. I see you've been trying for 6 months. I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my prayers! It takes loads of patience!

 

[ArmySpouse]

Hello Ladies! It's been a while since I last posted anything. My life has been busy, my husband returned in February and we're in the process of getting our older daughter ready to go to college. I'm happy to announce that I had my reversal on Tuesday and I have six cm on my left tube. I'm sore and a bit uncomfortable the doctor said for us to wait four weeks before trying to conceive. I decided not to tell anyone about my reversal the only ones that know are our two daughters, I don't want the pressure of family members asking every month if I'm pregnant yet. Also, my older sister had a TR done many years ago and never got pregnant and when I expressed to her I wanted a reversal she didn't sound to supportive and was a bit negative about it.

For all of you ladies on here I've been keeping you on my prayers and I know there will be some good news here soon. Galvan hang in there your time will come.

 

[Jenafyr4]

Hello Ladies! It's been a while since I last posted anything. My life has been busy, my husband returned in February and we're in the process of getting our older daughter ready to go to college. I'm happy to announce that I had my reversal on Tuesday and I have six cm on my left tube. I'm sore and a bit uncomfortable the doctor said for us to wait four weeks before trying to conceive. I decided not to tell anyone about my reversal the only ones that know are our two daughters, I don't want the pressure of family members asking every month if I'm pregnant yet. Also, my older sister had a TR done many years ago and never got pregnant and when I expressed to her I wanted a reversal she didn't sound to supportive and was a bit negative about it.

For all of you ladies on here I've been keeping you on my prayers and I know there will be some good news here soon. Galvan hang in there your time will come.

Looks like we will be TTC buddies!!!

 

[cupcakestoy]

Well, hello neighbor! Glad to see a TR buddy so close. I see you've been trying for 6 months. I wish you the best of luck and I'll keep you in my prayers! It takes loads of patience!

Thank you! New to all this, How close are you? lol I have learned alot about patience so far.....Figure if nothing else then maybe thats 1 positive thing I will have gained from this Journey lol

 

[~Brandy~]

Warning*** This is my meltdown so if you wanna save yourself time and skip it I am good with that...

So we have been TTC' now for over 3 years... 3 f'n years.

We have done EVERYTHING... I have taken every herb known to mankind and prescription fertility. They have poked me a hundred ways to Sunday with Accupuncture. I have been poked and prodded for every test their is at the fertility specialist until there is nothing else left to test. My poor DH has had a million tests... Not one of the tests have ever been bad results.. So where does that leave us?

Well a tubal reversal down the road, healthy results on all test, and a diagnosis of "unknown infertility" WOW I could of told them that since we have humped like rabbits for 3 years straight. We have paid about 25k out of pocket and another 25-30k over the next few months.

Now I have become so obsessed with the whole thing that I barely sleep at night worried I will miss a temp or do it at the wrong time. I can't go in the bathroom without feeling like there is some type of stick I should be peeing on or a fertility monitor I should check in with! I have to check this website a million times hoping that by some miracle my spotting on DPO13 isnt actually AF that it might be IMB... seriously.

I am so sick and tired of hearing people whine about "OMG I cant take this we have been trying for 3 months!!" seriously!? Ya, try hell for 3 years Then I am completely saturated with pregnant women all around me... and me being the huge planner I am gets to plan the next 3 baby showers at work because well that's what I have always done. I am about ready to flip on them.

So now my husband and I are down to the only options that are left and we have been on track for IUI's and IVF for a long time now but if it fails I really might lose it. So this cycle now we have to take more meds and more tests then do an IUI... If that fails we have to take more meds, more tests, then IVF!! We dont even care about the money all I want is it to end on a HAPPY NOTE instead of all this horrid sadness all the time with BFN's and AF and Miscarriage. So over it..


Really hope I didn't offend anyone on this thread but if anyone really knew what we had to go through just to have a chance to TTC... I feel like I was given a shot and then it was taken away with unknown infertility.

 

[alleysm]

I feel your pain brandy. Three years for me too. We are not doing iui or ivf though. Big virtual hug!!!

 

[ArmySpouse]

Jenafyr4 I'm excited did you already have your post-op appointment? Mines is on May 10th.

Brandy take it easy and hang in there your time will come. Have you tried yoga? I've tried it a couple of times and it's very relaxing.