Armyspouse
so very sorry you're not doing well today
the very best thing you could do right now is REST...don't overdo it at all! err on the side of caution! I'm sure everything is fine inside there. Have you ever had a c-section? My last 2 babies were c-section so it greatly prepared me for the pain to come with the TR
It must be very difficult to be trying to communicate in a foreign country
You know your body better than anyone else, so definitely seek emergency care if you need it...check for fever or red, angry looking swelling at the incision site. It's common for the tube to be swollen...it's just had surgery
And only having one tube is A-okay as well! Lots of ladies get preggers with just one tube! What is the length of the good tube? I know there are MANY schools of thought on when it's okay to start TTC, but I was part of another TR board of which one of the moderators is a BIG TR guru...she's had 4 tr babies..but is emphatic that her dr. said TTC too soon cause infection in the tubes (sperm causing the infection if they are still mending...)...furthest thing from your mind right now, I'm sure!!
I will most certainly be praying for you
REST, REST, REST