Fluter, I hope you get your baby!! I sure will be praying!
Galvan, mine was not hydro until I had the hsg test and as he was putting in the dye I watched my tube swell up like a balloon. I have my hsg on disc and it is awesome to see at home in a setting that isn't stressed and scary. My tube is blocked at the ovary end, not the uterus end and would be ALMOST impossible to repair, and even if I were to repair it, I think the likelihood of ectopic starts out at 30%.. I mean, I knew my tube was messed up, but I never associated IVF miscarriage with normal pregnancy loss when truthfully IVF is a little easier since the baby is a little more 'selected'.. Honestly they say having one tube hydro and the other one normal is pretty rare. Most times it is damaged in both, but my damage was done by my tubal reversal and not infection like usual, (and i mean by a disease). Honestly I don't know what makes a tube 'toxic or hydro' I don't even know for sure if my hydro is messing up my implantation but something is. I will never get the tube repaired for my fear of ectopic and the dangers, so I am going to get it permanently blocked to ease my fear and just not worry about it anymore.. Plus, I would get another hsg in 2 or 3 months to make sure the implant worked. Now there are side effects like with any implant. It can move, it can 'get lost', it is said to cause pain for some peope during ovulation and/or periods.. If something like that happens and I am faced with that, I will just remove the tube later on. It is of no value to me and my insurance will pay for the sterilization for fertility reasons. Now I just have to get my doctor on board. I know people get their tubes removed a lot, but I am nervous that she will not agree and I will have to switch doctors or something drastic. I feel like this is a good option for me since it has been proven to cause early losses. Plus, I haven't really had a problem keeping a baby but my body fails at the most crucial moment. I am so tired of failing.
My miscarriage hasn't started yet. I knew it would save until Mother's Day to beat me down to dust..
Angie. Fortunately, I didn't expect a BFP this cycle. I had a horrible case of tonsilitis during the week I usually O so we only BDed once. I got bummed when I saw FF say cycle number 32. Grrr
If not then we are going to give it all we got til our 2 year TR Anniversary in Nov. then if it hasn't worked by then we will just ntnp.....I feel so much better today! God is Good!!!!
