That's good about all the promises he made you, Fluter! I want to have a c-section as the lady that did my reversal surgery made a serious mess of my belly and didn't leave any room for 'fat' to grow. Every ounce of weight gain makes my belly look like an ugly pouch, the jealous tramp. I say she was jealous as it helps me to console myself for why she did such an awful thing to my body. I only had to have a c-section as my daughter was breech and I didn't want another as I felt it was a horrible recovery experience as I bled for months afterward and had to take iron pills, birth control pills, and eat pork neck bone to build up my blood supply after the months of non-stop bleeding that couldn't be explained.. I hate red meat and have difficulty with iron so I bled without cause until I fixed my levels. Now I want a c-section just to repair my belly scar.
Jen, I know how you feel about taking any baby. Much better than none at all...
AFM: I had a long chat with the hubby yesterday and we discussed waiting until June and he did not agree. He said that having a baby should not be based on a particular date and would I love a baby less if it was born in another month. He made me feel kinda silly really for wanting a baby in March. He said as soon as we got the money we were gonna try again. That could be as soon as April. I want to save a little extra and try for ICSI and maybe get more eggs and maybe even one we can freeze.. That will be a few thousand extra dollars. We also decided that if we had to try again after the two times we can afford this year, I would have to go to work too as 6000$ every time is not a simple amount and we would have to become a two worker household to afford this process after this year. I totally agreed as I will finish my college before this year is over and I wanted to save to buy a house so we could sell our current place as it is only 2 bedrooms, but having a baby is more important to us both than having a bigger house so we decided to wait on the house until we succeed with the IVF. We both also decided to go with the clinic in PA after the runaround I got yesterday about my results. I had nothing but trouble from that clinic and I think it's in our best interests to try somewhere else. I will have to call about the transfer amounts though as that is such an important thing for me.