Tubal Reversal ladies, just moved from WTT!!!

[angelcake71]

Faith and Crystal..

 

[cj72]

Woohoo!!! Angel- Congrats!!! H&H 9 months!!!

 

[angelcake71]

thanks CJ hun.. XX

 

[mommax3]

Angel yay! im sooooo excited for you

 

[angelcake71]

thanks Momma... i hope I get to your stage hun XX

 

[mommax3]

i will keep you in my prayers between the 3 tr threads im on bfp's are high this month I think its a great sign

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Aww thanks so much Crystal..
I hope its ok for me to stick around? xxx

Absolutely we love BFPers around here

 

[angelcake71]

Thankyou Faith.. that means alot hun XX

 

[crystal69uk]

Dont you go anywhere Angel, I agree with Faith we love you girls around here!...All you BFP'ers bring us hope and keep us motivated....I am so happy for all you ladies getting your BFP's...WHOOOHOOOOOOO!!!!!

 

[mnjhowell]

CONGRATULATIONS ANGEL!!!

Alright Faith and CJ it's time to keep this trend rolling!!!

Ladies how is everyone else doing? Where at in cycles? I'm gonna be yalls cheerleader!!! Ra ra re!!!

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Just a quick update...got the dreaded temp drop this a.m...tested BFN So, I'm calling the dr. this morning for an appt. My one year TR anniversary is just around the corner...I've said from the beginning that I would give it a year on my own and so now I need to figure out what our next plan of attack will be. Unless the dr. needs me to track my cycles for diagnosis purposes...I'm going to follow Angel, Super and Ready (Mnj, can't remember if you did this, too) and not do temping or opks this cycle

Crystal, how did your appt. go yesterday?

Anyone have big plans for the weekend?

 

[crystal69uk]

Just a quick update...got the dreaded temp drop this a.m...tested BFN So, I'm calling the dr. this morning for an appt. My one year TR anniversary is just around the corner...I've said from the beginning that I would give it a year on my own and so now I need to figure out what our next plan of attack will be. Unless the dr. needs me to track my cycles for diagnosis purposes...I'm going to follow Angel, Super and Ready (Mnj, can't remember if you did this, too) and not do temping or opks this cycle

Crystal, how did your appt. go yesterday?

Anyone have big plans for the weekend?

Sorry to hear that Faith, I know exactly how you are feeling, one year on!, wow it has passed in a blink...I have been referred back to a fertility specialist but not the Dr who did my TR operation, as it is too far to travel and I just cant keep the appts especially with the winter coming so I have an appt 6th December to discuss where I go from here really, I am just relaxing about everything and I think I have decided in my head that its not gonna happen and just to get on with my life I have now and I have to be happy with that........... I have never been past first base really so maybe DH and I arent really suited genetically???? I have had the HSG, tests, fertility drugs etc, so not really sure what else I can do??......I really hope you get some answers etc and get your HSG booked to see whats going on with you....thinkin about all of us still trying, we can only hope it will be our turn soon xxxxxxxxxxx Big hugs xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[angelcake71]

Thankyou for all your kind wishes..
by my calcullations I am 5 weeks 2 days and due 21st June 2012.. xx

Faith.. so sorry the horrible witch got you hun..
it may be worth trying a month of no temping no opk..
bd every other day from days 10 to 20..
mornings are supposed to be good.. or a lunch time quicky..
but also bring some intamacy into it.. so it doesnt feel like a chore..
and that you are just bd to get a bfp.. such as a bath/shower together..
or get him to give you a massage.. etc..
and hopefully you will get your bfp soon.. XX

 

[FaithHopeLove]

Girls, thanks for kind words we all know how this process feels

Angel, when do you plan to see the dr.? Are you going to do betas? I've seen several TR gals lately that decided to skip those and wait until a hb could be seen hard call for sure..anyway very excited for you

Crystal, I'm glad you made the appt. Knowing that's a little ways off, perhaps you will be able to relax in the meantime. I'm starting with a new dr. too I called his office this morning and the nurse was going to have him call me back to discuss which days in the cycle we need to schedule things...so, I'm taking the next step in the journey..didn't think I would be at this place...much like yourself, I'm sure Let's all work really hard not to let TTC put a damper on our beloved fall and upcoming holidays...I'm going to work really hard to do fun, memorable things with my hubby and kids over the next few months

I was reminded again how suddenly life can change for anyone of us. Yesterday, a gal we know here in town was working out at the gym and suddenly colapsed. She was pronounced brain dead shortly thereafter, but being kept on life support until her sons could arrive to say goodbye. It was determined that she had a brain anurysm She was 52 and in very good health...she was very active..participating in biking marathons and outdoor hiking etc. Her husband is absolutely devestated and I'm sure her boys are, too
ENJOY TODAY!!!! No one knows what tomorrow holds.

 

[jojo1972]

I was reminded again how suddenly life can change for anyone of us. Yesterday, a gal we know here in town was working out at the gym and suddenly colapsed. She was pronounced brain dead shortly thereafter, but being kept on life support until her sons could arrive to say goodbye. It was determined that she had a brain anurysm She was 52 and in very good health...she was very active..participating in biking marathons and outdoor hiking etc. Her husband is absolutely devestated and I'm sure her boys are, too
ENJOY TODAY!!!! No one knows what tomorrow holds.[/QUOTE]

This is soooooooooooo true and in a flash things can change xxxxx

Massive congrats Angel xxxxx

This has been a real good month for s and I just know that in the months to come that there will be more. Lots of sticky baby dust to you all xxxx

 

[cj72]

Sorry to hear about the witch, Faith. My Oh gave me a hug and said just means we get to try again around Halloween. He really is good at keeping my spirits up Little does he know that you girls are really behind the majority of it! Haha. Anyway, just ordered a pizza, so the diet is off tonight. I was good yesterday and all day today. I went ahead and got the clomid for this cycle to take starting tomorrow. Girls, I think I need a hug on another issue. My older DD is 12 and 8 months. We have always been incredibly close and she tells me everything. Until today. There is another girl she's been in school with since they were 2 ( preschool) and this girl used to always make her feel badly (I think it secretly made the other girl happy to make my DD cry). Her mom sent her to a private church school for a year and I thought we were past her being an issue. She is back and in my DD's class. I warned her that those kind of people don't change and that she will get hurt again. We discussed not hanging out with her outside of school. She's at her Dad's tonight and while we were all there together dropping the kids off to him, I heard him say that she was getting dropped off at the other girl's house. DD kept it from me. I know I sound naive, but I didnt think she'd be the one to go behind my back and blatantly go against my wishes. The other DD, yeah, in a heartbeat, but not this one. Everyone please give me a dose of reality. I need it.

 

[mnjhowell]

Oh CJ I'm sorry about af. Well all I can say is DD is at that age where it stars to become more and more important to be with the in crowd regardless of the costs, just let her know your there no matter what.

Faith sorry I did not temp but I did use opk but we really did spice things up and actually the day they say I conceived dh and I were sexting and he came home for lunch.

Ladies don't give up hope. On another board there was a woman who had her tr and had done everything possible for 4 years. Finally she was getting ready for her 40th birthday party and was feeling so run down and blah, her dh said jokingly, take a test maybe your pregnant. She went to the store to pick up last minute things and grabbed a test while there and low and behold it was +!!! After giving up and just deciding to get on with life it happened. I met her when I was debating ivf or tr, I did several cycles of ivf with nothing but empty pockets and a ton of heartache. She remained a huge support system for me through everything and I am so grateful to be flying soon to Oregon for her baby shower!!

 

[angelcake71]

Morning Ladies..

Faith here in the UK they only do betas if they dont see anything on the early scan.. so I will just have to wait and see hun.. one of my friends on another forum.. had normal doubling hcg levels.. so she thought she was ok.. as did the hospital.. until she was rushed in with a ruptured tube at 6 weeks..

CJ.. I hope your DD is gonna be ok.. its so hard to feel helpless and watch our kids getting hurt isnt it.. ?? trouble is I think the more you warn your dd to stay away from this girl.. the more she will want to hang around with her..
I think it may be best to gently encourage her to make some other friends.. and also chat to her about why she isnt been truthful about where she is going.. stress that it is important that she tells you where she is for her own safety.. I had the same thing with my dd her best friend was a control freak who liked to think she was queen b.. my daughter came home quite a few times in tears.. I didnt stop her hanging out with her.. but did encourage her to make new friends.. which she did.. and now she doesnt hang out with this girl and is happy and confident.. just be there for her hun.. and try and encorage her to talk to you and be honest with you.. XX

 

[angelcake71]

Thanks JOJO hoope you are doing ok..
and I totally agree XX

Melissa.. hope you are doing ok hun XX

 

[cj72]

Thanks ladies. I needed to hear that. I think she was more upset than me. Her dad called me and said she was in tears and that she had broken my trust and wanted to earn it back. I called her and let her know she means everything to me, but that I need to be able to trust her. And that nothing would ever change my love for her.

Faith- I am very happy that you are headed to the new doc and scheduling all of your testing. I don't think any of us expected to have to wait this long without a baby. You and Crystal have waited longer than me. I do have some encouraging news from the message board of my TR doc. This week there were 2 43yr olds, a 44 yr old and 4 women between the ages of 36 and 40 that got pregnant this week. Mine were cut, tied, and coag. 3 of the older ladies were coag with shorter tubes than mine. I have 5.5L and 6R. So there is hope!