TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[Mrs. Burch]

Ren-Gald dh is home with you, I can't wait for you to get your rainbow! I love watching everyone's story and seeing their happy ending!

 

[Smommy013]

Ok ladies I need some advice: today I am cycle day 37. The longest cycle I've had since the mirena is 44. The last cycle was 38. I spot the day before AF arrives. My luteal phase is 14. I have not spotted yet today ( still could though, just haven't). When I ovulate my nips hurt the day after this puts my O day at cycle day 22-24. However, I think more like 22-23. I've had no cramps that I can speak of.

Should I test if not spotting?

 

[Renaendel]

You are at worst 13 dpo, more likely 14-15. You will test accurately unless it is a test with terrible sensitivity. What kind do you use?

 

[Mrs. Burch]

So today you would be 14dpo if you O'd on cd23 right? If that is the case and you don't see any spotting today then I would test with fmu. I would check internally too just to see if your cm is pinkish or brown cause that would be a sign that she is coming, if nothing then test in the am. Do you have cheap ones, like from walmart for .88 or dollar store test? I would use those first and if you get a faint line then use a frer.

 

[Smommy013]

I'm probably 13dpo. And I will have to go buy a test. And
I have checked internally several times through out the day. No even a hint of color. The last time I tested was Tuesday morning which could have been 11dpo

 

[Mrs. Burch]

I would say go buy a few cheapies and test in the am, if no spotting by then!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ok now I have a question...I have a massage apt scheduled for the 14th, if I O on Sat I will be 4dpo, do you think I should go or cancel? I did have a massage on April 12th when I was in the tww and we all know that ended in a cp, now if the massage had anything to do with it who knows..... What are you guys' thoughts? I know some say no in the first trimester and some say it is fine. Just don't know what I should do, am I making it a bigger deal than it needs to be??

 

[Smommy013]

If you were 4dpo your body wouldn't even know your pregnant. Would have even implanted. The scheduled message may have helped you look forward to something and relaxing!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Yeah last time I was 9dpo so I am sure you are right.

 

[Smommy013]

Just take it as an opportunity to relax and enjoy yourself! You deserve it.

 

[Renaendel]

My understanding is that there are certain places they can push on the body that are more likely to stimulate contractions. Because of this, it is best to just make sure if you a could have implanted to make sure the masseuse is certified in prenatal massage. If they are certified and understand, then you can use them through your entire pregnancy.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

That is what I read so I think I will just tell them I am pregnant and go with that and if they don't want to do it then ok and if so then it should be fine!

 

[Smommy013]

So if people don't mind the question how old is everyone! I'm 23 will be 24 in august

 

[Mrs. Burch]

I am 28 1/2 lol my bday is in Nov! I didn't get married until last sept, but we jumped on ttc right after we got married. Dh will be 30 in Oct!!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-I had massages both pregnancies. I have a bad back and when pg its excruciating.
Im 36...too old to have more??

 

[Smommy013]

Haha ready you are not too old! I'm just curious

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ready-if you are too old then I will be too, I'll be in ur shoes and I don't think it's too old!! We want to wait about 5 years between kids so I'll be very close prob 34 or 35 when we ttc #2 and no telling if we have 3!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

I don't feel too old I just hope my eggs feel the same way. I'm on month 6 and starting to feel discouraged. I know I shouldn't and I feel bad saying anything as I'm blessed with 2 children already. Af is obviously lingering in the background as I feel like I could burst in to tears at the drop of a hat.

 

[ab75]

I'm 39 next month!! Had dd1 at 36 and dd2 at 38!! You are all just young chicks xx

 

[ab75]

Dd2 at 37, lol my brain is old xx