TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[Smommy013]

Well bfn today

 

[sn0wbunnie]

Well bfn today

Same here... Well, I think. I don't know. I did a CB test & people are saying those tests show lines regardless. UGHHHHHHH

 

[n.miller]

New here. Just found this page. I'm at the very end of my TWW. Planning to test today (didn't this morning as I was fully expecting AF). Although I have some symptoms, temperature dipped this morning, so expecting BFN.

 

[Smommy013]

Snow- how many dpo

Hi n.miller! Welcome!

 

[n.miller]

Smommy013 - Thanks.

I'll be waiting with you all till tomorrow. Spoke with ObGyn this morning and she wants me to wait till tomorrow to test first thing in the morning. "Try to relax today" she said. Ha. I'm paranoid. Everything is a symptom. How do you ladies keep your mind off it?

 

[Smommy013]

Lol I don't think many of us do keep our mind off of it to be honest.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

ready-You are fine, your eggs are fine, it is just not the right time right now! I know that sucks as we are all going through it! It will all work out, I have faith!

Smommy-sorry about your BFN, I didn't get my BFP until 15dpo! Any signs of af today? Maybe you didn't O when you thought?

Snow and Miller- welcome and sorry about your BFN's too. They do suck! Hope af stays away for both of you and you get your BFP soon

Ren and Peach-how are you two doing today? Ren feeling any better, has the pain lowered? Peach has she left the building yet??

AFM-still no positive opk...at this point I am just pissed!!! I am done testing, I am mad! So whatever I am sure we will miss it and just whatever! Here is to Oing at the end of May first of June I guess! At least it is freakin Friday!!

 

[Smommy013]

HahHa maybe you will O soon mrs! Just keep calm. Or throw things. I throw things. Keeping calm is never in my nature

Ren- how you feeling? Hope your doing better.

No signs of af whatsoever. Cervix is super high and closed. I'm guessing I Od later. Which puts me at least at a 40 day cycle. So thrilling. I had ewcm at what I thought was 2dpo(clearly not). My first cycle after mirena 2 days after ewcm showed up is when i ovulated. Which means maybe I'm 12dpo? At this point who the heck knows. Either way I've only had 3 cycles in 5 months. I'm calling the doctor next week. I only had the mirena for two months...

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Hi ladies!
Welcome newcomers...I hope to see ur bfps soon.
Smommy-sorry about the bfn. Your symptoms sounded promising.
Mrs-tell ur body to start cooperating! These head games are bullshit.
Ren-I hope u r feeling better today!
Peach-r u in the clear yet?
Ab-that makes me feel better. I don't feel older than 22 but I start thinking maybe my eggs feel differently and thats why there has been nothing in 6 months.
Afm-I didn't even test this am as I expect the witch tomorrow. It will be awesome as I'm going to a baby shower with my friends and there are 5 of them all pg. Im 99.9% pos she's coming cuz I can't stand dh right now and have snapped at him twice already today and its not even noon yet. Lol poor guy!
Happy Friday ladies!!!

 

[PeachDaisy]

Welcome newcomers! We keep this thread nice and busy

n.miller - We don't keep our mind off of anything TTC related....ever. Ha!

Ready & Mrs. - She's still here This is day 5 so hopefully she's gone tomorrow. It's been a rough one.

I think I'm going to enjoy my weekend and have a drink or 10 Not really 10, but I'm going to try and have fun before the BDing starts back up. Haha!

 

[Smommy013]

Wow peach! I'm sorry girl.

And thanks ready, I hope your shower goes ok! I know it won't be easy. My Facebook is full of people I know with their babies or baby bump. About 6 of those are unplanned

 

[Renaendel]

Feeling better today. Today without Vicodin is what yesterday was like on it. I am a little puffy and crampy, but the bleeding has stopped!! Since it has been like a year since that has happened I don't think I feel comfortable going without a liner. This is so weird....

Peach, I hope she gets out of there soon!

Smommy, I would say it is time for doctor intervention. It is going to be very hard to get pregnant with your cycle like this.

Mrs burch. Urg to your OPKs being dumb. My first cycle after mc was a weird one too. It started to try to go about three days late, then a week after that I finally ovulated.

Welcome new folks!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ready-Hope your shower goes ok and just take a few drinks before and rub it in to all of them!! lol

Peach-I think I may drink this weekend too, since O is not insight!!

Smommy-I don't throw things I just freakin cry which makes me even more mad that I am crying! lol Vicious cycle! hahaha I agree with Ren, I would talk to your OB. We only tried for 4 months and I went in and turns out I did have an issue, a big one lol we would have never gotten prego if I didn't go!

Ren- I ma so happy for you, hope your pain goes away SOON and glad you can start bding again! Hope you catch the egg and you get your rainbow!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Here is something for you gals to ponder! This is about 20 miles north of me! crazy stuff. https://www.newstalkkzrg.com/pages/18978766.php

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-thats crazy! How does that even happen?

 

[Mrs. Burch]

I know that is what I said! How do you not realize someone next to you is dying!!! Or no one reported the person missing??!! So crazy! My sister and I are going to the movies tonight and I am kind of nervous! lol Oh and keep in mind last year someone was shot and killed in this same theater. I don't live in a high crime place but just crazy! I am not saying this to be mean so please don't any one take it this way but I live in a VERY poor town. It seems that they all have a weird mentality and don't think straight and everyone is out to get them! Like I said don't take that wrong, dh and I do well but we work hard for the stuff we have. In our town we are considered "rich"! Only because we own our home, we live on 10 acres, we have two cars (an 04 and 07 so not new) and we own a boat. BELIEVE ME we are NOT rich!! lol Just crazy stuff

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-what movie r u seeing?

 

[Mrs. Burch]

I saw the other woman! Pretty funny! I went with my youngest sister and we had fun! No one died while we were there that I am aware of! Lol poor guy. I have a busy day tomorrow. Dh has to fix something on my car, my niece has a tall game at 11:30 by nephews 1st bday party is at 2 and I have a friends kiddo bday party at 4 but don't know if I'll go to it. Then Sunday we are hoping to go to the lake! What do u gals have planned??!!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Ok so now it's a big FAT neg on the opks the line has gotten much lighter. Maybe I O'd on cd 14! My temps have been high but I just thought it was cause I was moving (in my sleep) a lot before I took em. Guess not so I'm sure we're out this month! Oh well dh didn't want to anyways!! Hope you all have a great weekend!!

 

[MoldyVoldy]

Hi all

I told myself I wouldn't voice my "concerns" in here but I honestly just need some support. This is a long one - so whoever gets through it gets 10 house points

I have on average 33 day cycles.

March 16 I had a period.

DH and I use the pullout method but we aren't necessarily preventing - it's more of a reflex habit and we would love another baby if an "oopsie" happened. We are relaxed about it, I guess I should say If it happens, wonderful and if it doesn't - we will actively try soon.

In April, my period was a day later than expected and I experienced a gush of blood on the first day, as opposed to my normal spotting the day before it's due and then waking up with it.

The bleeding lasted approx 4 1/2 days and it wasn't heavy but wasn't what i'd call light, either. Just a wonky period, I thought. (Normal period is spotting day before full blown AF, normal flow, and lasts 7 days in all). No period symptoms really, except a day before the gush I had tender nipples. (That went away the day after the gush).

I figured it was just stress, as at the time DH and I were told we had to move out of our townhome because our landlord wants to move back in next month.

So about 2 weeks ago I started having cramps. No big deal, I get cramps at weird times anyways. But then I started experiencing tender nipples off and on...and then I started feeling something similar to the let-down tingly feeling in my breasts, particularly my left breast. (DS completely weaned almost 4 weeks before with one last session). So I thought maybe it was linked to that. I also had a pinching feeling in the right side of my pelvis. This is when the cramps started.

The tingles come and go. Heaviness in the breasts come and go, same with the tenderness in my nipples. I've been having regular cramps - both in the front/groin aches and lower back aches. My joints have been very sore in my arms, hands, and knees. My sternum has started hurting this week (wtf?). I'm hungry but nothing sounds good. I also have a constant pressure on my rectum (tmi sorry lol).

A little history: I tested negative on urine tests with my DS until I was 16 weeks, and I guess when they were + they were so faint 2 bloods were ordered and that's when I showed for sure pregnant.

I am so worried that if I AM pregnant, that I will miss the first trimester again. I also want to SEE a positive on a test for once!

If I am pregnant, I don't know how far along I am. Surely no more than 6 weeks (almost 7).

ANYWAYS, i'm waiting to see if AF comes...she's due in 12 days.

So I just wanted to come in here, tell my story, and wait it out...so i'm not alone.