TWW Support group to help get you through the nitty gritty...and beyond

[PeachDaisy]

My little sister called today to tell me she's 7 weeks pregnant. It was a hard pill to swallow. I'm overly happy and excited for her. But it does hurt a little. As the older sister and have been through what I have, I just always felt like I should be the one having children first. And this is silly...but she's always had it easier than me. So why should this be any different? I hate to be emotional...it's my sister for goodness sakes. I should be able to push these emotions aside. It's just so hard. At least I will be an aunt. I never thought she would have kids bc she didn't want kids growing up. And my husband is an only child...so this gives him the chance to be an uncle as well. I know I'll get past my emotions. But it's still fresh so it's hard.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Oh peach I'm so sorry. I know the feeling all to well. My sil is 4 months along and when she told me she was prego I just about cried as she was telling me! Plus she goes "it ONLY took one try" which was like putting alcohol in an open wound!! Hope you feel better soon.

 

[PeachDaisy]

Oh peach I'm so sorry. I know the feeling all to well. My sil is 4 months along and when she told me she was prego I just about cried as she was telling me! Plus she goes "it ONLY took one try" which was like putting alcohol in an open wound!! Hope you feel better soon.

If it were anyone else in the family it wouldn't be as hard. But the fact that it's my one and only sister...it eats me alive. I'm truly happy for her but it's hard not to be jealous and upset. I'm sorry you've had to deal with the same.

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-mil is 64 so not young and I don't know what her deal is other than she lives in this bubble of ideals. Everything has to be just so and her expectations are unrealistic. I tell myself that im being paranoid and bitchy but then something else happens or is said and I'm again thinking she is trying to steal my child lol.
And no temping again, just fake temps.
Peach-my thoughts are with you. It doesn't matter who it is but when u r trying and have had a loss the pain is deeper. It will happen for you and while you wait for that time you get to be an aunt. My nieces are like my other children but I get to send them home when they drive me crazy. Lol

 

[Smommy013]

Ready that would make me beyond mad. I do not like people that do that.
It's crazy and soo ridiculous.

Let's make a vow not to act like that!

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Deal Smommy, that is actually one of my biggest fears! lol I just think there is NO way I could be that crazy!! lol

So af should be here by Friday, temp dropped today. Good news we won't be having a Christmas baby. Always a positive right...! lol Today is my Thursday, yay I am off for Good Friday! Super excited!!

 

[Smommy013]

I'm so sorry peach!

 

[Renaendel]

I am so grateful to have wonderful parents and fantastic inlaws. My largest complaint is that my mother in-law was overly afraid that she wouldn't get grandchildren because of my surgery. She just wants more to love. I am so darn lucky.

Pre-op went well, my O is really really late. it has never been this late and I HAVE to have it by Monday or they have to start my cycle manually so I am on schedule for surgery. I look 18 weeks pregnant right now and am so ready to be done.

 

[Smommy013]

In glad it went well overall. I hope things speed up for you ren

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Ren-I hope it all goes well for you. That's great that you love ur in laws. It makes life so much easier.

 

[PeachDaisy]

I am so grateful to have wonderful parents and fantastic inlaws. My largest complaint is that my mother in-law was overly afraid that she wouldn't get grandchildren because of my surgery. She just wants more to love. I am so darn lucky.

Pre-op went well, my O is really really late. it has never been this late and I HAVE to have it by Monday or they have to start my cycle manually so I am on schedule for surgery. I look 18 weeks pregnant right now and am so ready to be done.

I've missed a lot of things it seems. What surgery are you having? I'm happy to hear pre-op went well!

 

[Renaendel]

When they did my HSG to check if my one tube is clear they found a shadow where my uterus should be. Instead of the regular triangle with spaghetti attached it looked like just spaghetti that was a little fatter on the end, the triangle wasn't there. So I go in on the 7th to have the shadow taken out. She thinks it is a benign uterine fibroid tumor. But that is why my only pregnancy happened in my tube. I can't implant in my uterus at the moment. The tumor is large enough to start me pudging out a bit. I thought I had just been eating too much!

 

[Smommy013]

That's scary ren. Glad you found out sooner rather than later

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Hey gals, hope you are all having a wonderful day, today is my Friday so I am super stoked about that!!

Ren-glad they are taking care of you! Hope you feel better soon!

Smommy-Do you think you O'd yet??

Ready-how are you holdin out? Drinks this weekend??!!

Peach-how are you doing, where are you in your cycle?

AFM-af should be here tomorrow, no signs of her yet, no signs of anything really. Oh well wait I was pretty irritated last night, so maybe she will be here tomorrow! lol I have been pretty busy with work and we are putting in a new heat and air unit and got told that we need to upgrade our breaker box and wiring. :-/ Joys of home ownership I guess. I got a quote today on the electrical work and holy freakin cow it was $1500, excuse me while I go have a heart attack!! But good news is MIL will be on her own meter now so one more thing that we wont have to share. I am thrilled about that. I am happy that we will have central air finally. Our home was built in 1939 and was last updated in the 60's-70's so we are slowly updating everything!!

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs-I'm having some wine right now and plan to have more over the wknd.
It sucks to pay out so much cash but it will be lovely to have central air. Maybe af won't come and a baby is growing??
We really need some bfps on here.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

So there is def a line, just not sure if it's an evap or not. Also opk was blaring positive. What do u gals think?! Supposed to start today but no signs. Boobs are a little tender but not constant.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Opk and hcg

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Here's another pic.

 

[Mrs. Burch]

Here it is inverted

 

[ReadynWaiting]

Mrs.-Omg!!!!!! Thats a clear bfp!