Ultimate Venting Thread 2

[itakp]

So I know people make mistakes but... aaaaaaarrrrrggghhhh! I had yet another blood test done, this time to check my ovarian reserve. Was bled, sent sample off and checked results. The stupid lab had done a completely different test to the one requested!!! I mean, come on! Read the stupid labels, lab people! Now I have to phone my FS and try to get another lab referral and get bled again. Hopefully this time they manage to do the test requested!

 

[Just_married]

I have multiple rants today.

Dh is being so annoying today, keeps asking rhetorical questions and when I don't answer he says "I was talking to you". He's also been a prat towards my dd (his sd) by moaning to her about anything and everything. He complains about money yet he's spent over £50 on musical instruments etc. He goes on and on about problems with his bandmates as if it's my problem too.

Dd aged almost 17 has become a quite cheeky, constantly sarcastic and appreciated nothing.

I tried soy this cycle and don't even think Ive ovd at all so I don't know when to expect af. Not only that, soy made my hair come out in clumps and I feel like I'm wasting money on preconception vits, coq10, vit c, preseed and tests every month for nothing.

Also a close friend of mines is being weird with us. I'd arranged to share transport with him to a mutual friends wedding in 2 days so I told bride not to spare me a seat on coach, and he & his df were to stay over at ours after wedding but have short text saying sorry for short notice, making our own way there and back and not staying. No explanation. Dh is an usher so I'll be travelling alone quite a distance, will cost a fortune in taxi as too late to book coach seat.

Also having back pain for no reason.

I don't know if people are actually flipping irritating today or if it's just me.

 

[Armywife84]

Well said, HopeandPrayin!

I find that those patronizing Pollys spout off this positive advice, when they're indeed pregnant themselves. Well of course it's easy for you to say that when you're pregnant!!! Cows.

JM- We will have no mercy for people this cycle!! I will spare no one!

Rant:

I too have DH issues. Idk if he's been on man AF or what these past couple of weeks, but I'm about ready to pack his bag and tell him to stay at his mate's house! He moans about every niggling thing!

On a brighter note, he's no longer going away for training. Due to him not having a military driving license, we won't miss this cycle. Although I may have to put a sock in his mouth, if he doesn't stop his endless whining.

 

[BobDog]

ok this is a bit of a mish mash of rants.

first of - TESCO are a bunch of knob cheese twats! i applied for a job yesterday with tesco, (they have 19 jobs available and they store are crying out for staff as they are painfully short staffed, i know this because i have 2 friends who work there) any way i am pretty much guaranteed a job there as i've already spoken to the store manager. anyway i sent the application in late last night and i woke up to a rejection email!!!!! not from the store, but from the head office!!! they don't even let the store decide who get an interview! they just get sent the list of people to interview and then they send off their findings and head office decide who to invite back to start a job.

well i'm sorry but that is a really shitty way to do business! the people who make decisions on who to employ don't even meet the people interviewing! well EFF YOU!!! rejection with out an introduction.. well isn't that respectful!

second rant - my body is still playing games!my chart is messing me about! tomorrow will be 4 weeks since i ovulated and i can't help but think something now quite right. so i guess i'm messed up in so many ways i can't keep up.

third rant... hubby is home, yay! but i think i might have thrush up in my hoohaa, cos sex is painful and i had to fake it so dh would finish faster. :'(

 

[itakp]

Just a series of small niggles today, sorry in advance.

Thank you, my dear colleague, for showing me your future granchild in a scan photo. Pleased for you, sad for me.

Period due. Cramping. Grumpy. Husband bought crap wine.

I have a damn hair growing on my nipple. My head hair is falling out but I have enough hair in me to populate my nipple. Great.

 

[Armywife84]

Just a series of small niggles today, sorry in advance.

Thank you, my dear colleague, for showing me your future granchild in a scan photo. Pleased for you, sad for me.

Period due. Cramping. Grumpy. Husband bought crap wine.

I have a damn hair growing on my nipple. My head hair is falling out but I have enough hair in me to populate my nipple. Great.

Crap wine . I'd send DH back to the market!

Eh, I get nipple hairs too. I just pluck them.

Rants:

I work nearly 40 hours next week, but I need a bit of time to run a document to the Veteran Affairs counselor...of course I work during the times she's available!! Dh won't be able to give it to her either since he's got courses to complete next week. There is just never enough time in the day! Suppose it's going to have to wait until Tuesday.

I also wish DH would get off his arse and take the windshield to get repaired. Of course we can't trade the truck in looking like that. I mean we're already not going to get very much out of it, as he hasn't really been taking good care of it. Car shopping is incredibly stressful.

As I was leaving the bookstore at uni today, I saw a heavily pregnant girl waddling out of the Records office. Ugh.

 

[Armywife84]

Rant/Airing out my thoughts/Confession(?):

Sometimes when people talk, I don't care to listen. I did this to people at work all day (in my defense, I don't really like any of that lot). At times I find myself doing it to DH, when he goes on about complete and utter garb.

Now don't get me wrong, I do listen to people's problems on BnB and my dear friends. Other people? Not so much.

One more petty rant, I do wish my face would clear up. It's quite embarrassing to have acne when you're nearly 30! I've tried dermatologist creams and such. The oral medication will clear it up, but it's not safe for those TTC. Ugh..if only I could conceive!!!

 

[Just_married]

Rant/Airing out my thoughts/Confession(?):

Sometimes when people talk, I don't care to listen. I did this to people at work all day (in my defense, I don't really like any of that lot). At times I find myself doing it to DH, when he goes on about complete and utter garb.

Now don't get me wrong, I do listen to people's problems on BnB and my dear friends. Other people? Not so much.

One more petty rant, I do wish my face would clear up. It's quite embarrassing to have acne when you're nearly 30! I've tried dermatologist creams and such. The oral medication will clear it up, but it's not safe for those TTC. Ugh..if only I could conceive!!!

You made me laugh as I do this every day with dh. Mostly when he starts talking about guitar accessories of band stuff I zone out and think about tv or something. Almost been caught out a few times but don't really care hehe!

My rant, wedding of the tear was utter torture. I was snubbed in ways I didn't know were possible. Humiliated blatantly & then patronised in the worst way....yet I said NOTHING. I just said to myself 'tomorrow I unsubscribe you on FB, and you and you'. Thankfully dh could see it all and was disgusted. He did his usher duties impeccably but agrees with me that's it for us when it comes to this couple. I'm pleasantly surprised at him. Maybe he's not a prat after all?! X

 

[wannabemummyb]

I'm so pleased that dh could see what they were doing but what a crappy way for people to behave

I'm on cd75 but got another bfn! I give up!

 

[timeforababy]

my rant: c'mon AF!!!! I can feel you, stop being late and show up. 12 months of bang on AF and now you decide to piss me about.

 

[Armywife84]

Rant:

I'm going to kick down my neighbor's door. I keep on hearing the wanker cackling over who knows what in the middle of the night. STFU! Does he not have a 9-5 job like the rest of us?

 

[wannabeprego]

Rant:

I'm going to kick down my neighbor's door. I keep on hearing the wanker cackling over who knows what in the middle of the night. STFU! Does he not have a 9-5 job like the rest of us?

Ugghhhh.. I hate noisy neighbors!!! My first place was an apartment and I swear everynight in the middle of the night the people above my apartment would sound like they were bowling above my head all night!! It was so obnoxius, that a couple of times I was going to walk upstairs and cuss them up!!!

I hope your neighbor shuts up soon!!!

 

[itakp]

Uggghh! Tamoxifen, stop messing me about! You make my hair fall out (except from my nipple!!), you give me hot flashes and make me exhausted. Now you´ve nicked my period! If for not the BFNs I might think otherwise but I know better... And a note to my body: please just do as you should, for this once. Thanks a lot.

 

[Armywife84]

Maybe we should start a skint club?

-I just dropped nearly $300 in uni textbooks. Luckily, one of my colleagues is going to let me borrow her A&P book.

-We also have to shell out to get the windshield replaced on the truck.

-DH forgot to pay the mobile bill last night! That's the only one he's in charge of. I yelled at him last night asking if he can handle paying it, or do I need to take full control of the finances!

-I'm off today, but have to slave away the rest of the week at that shit hole for next to no pay.

-I'm worried about getting into nursing school. Not to toot my own horn, but I am fairly smart. It's just that it's so competitive and I have the worst luck.

 

[itakp]

-I'm worried about getting into nursing school. Not to toot my own horn, but I am fairly smart. It's just that it's so competitive and I have the worst luck.

Best of luck with nursing Army, I am sure you´ll get in (if I did, so can you!)! Still skint after years of work, though, but it´s rewarding and worth it!

 

[StephieB]

Not been in here for a while, so forgive me for popping up, but my vent?

The existance of other people. AF is in full gear and I'm in agony, third failed clomid round and I'm pissed at the world!!

 

[Armywife84]

1.. DH is acting like a wanker, as I sent him to the store for some seasoning I forgot in a recipe. I'm slaving away over dinner when my feet and back hurt, the least he could do is get off his arse and go to the corner market!!

2. Head wanker at work scheduled me to work on the days I'm at uni. Idiot.

3. I wish I didn't want to be a mother so bad.

 

[Armywife84]

Rant:

I don't have the energy to work or deal with people today. Maybe I'll just mentally check out for the duration of the work day.

Going to try something different and offset some of my negativity with some positive facts:

1. Without trying, I've dropped a dress size. Suppose it's due to the stress I've been under lately.

2. My lovely, red Cambridge Satchel backpack will arrive in time when I start uni next week. I got it engraved with my initials.

 

[Just_married]

Rant:

I don't have the energy to work or deal with people today. Maybe I'll just mentally check out for the duration of the work day.

Going to try something different and offset some of my negativity with some positive facts:

1. Without trying, I've dropped a dress size. Suppose it's due to the stress I've been under lately.

2. My lovely, red Cambridge Satchel backpack will arrive in time when I start uni next week. I got it engraved with my initials.

Loads to complain about here too, but I like your style J! So here's my positivity: our landlord is moving to Florida so he's going to rent his gorgeous home to use relatively cheaply.....plus dh was helping groom sort out highlandwear for that flipping wedding, and the shop manager noticed how much knowledge he had about it, they got talking and he wants to interview dh for a FT job in a nearby town! (dh is a musician, unpredictable income, ft job would be amazing). So as that's 2 major areas of life about to change I am anticipating a third (always comes in threes!) and I'm praying it's a baby!

 

[StephieB]

Loads to complain about here too, but I like your style J! So here's my positivity: our landlord is moving to Florida so he's going to rent his gorgeous home to use relatively cheaply.....plus dh was helping groom sort out highlandwear for that flipping wedding, and the shop manager noticed how much knowledge he had about it, they got talking and he wants to interview dh for a FT job in a nearby town! (dh is a musician, unpredictable income, ft job would be amazing). So as that's 2 major areas of life about to change I am anticipating a third (always comes in threes!) and I'm praying it's a baby!

Great news Cat!! Good luck with the move, and heres to the 'third' positive to come! (if it's a lottery win, will you chuck me a tenner? )

My rant for today:

I'm supposed to be 'working from home' today, but got called into work at 7am to deal with a new furniture delivery for one of the lecture theatres, only to arrive at work at 8am and be told the delivery isn't until 3pm. WHAT? I could have stayed in bed!

I can get in with some of this positive points malarky, might put a smile on my face!

- Even though we don't have a baby, I feel very content with life at the moment. My DH is simply amazing, and being back home close to friends and family is beating the sadness of infertility down!

- I get my first wage from my new job next Wednesday, I just missed the cut off last month, so they owe me a lovely 7 weeks wages. Hello holiday deposit!

- Its going to be a brilliant weekend weather wise, it's DHs birthday on Sunday so we are going on a birthday picnic adventure in the Yorkshire Dales tomorrow to be at one with nature

Hmmm, it appears life isn't all doom and gloom after all!