Ultimate Venting Thread

[frustrated20]

I'm new here, but I have a vent. My cousin updated his Facebook status to, does anyone want a 10 year old boy? I can't deal with him anymore. I have been trying for over 2 years so this made me very sad.

 

[wonderstars]

1. Argh, today is Day 11 and we should be having sex. But we're much too tired after loading the moving truck and driving half the day. DH also took a bath and I didn't even argue, as I have no energy to put up a fight.

Argh, can't wait to get out of here!! No more having to hear about babies, fertility, nieces, nephews, etc.. I can't wait!

1. Turkey Baster method?

2. So excited for you and moving out! I can't imagine how much stress that's going to take off of you.

frustrated, that kind of stuff always irks me. Definitely worth a vent.

 

[Armywife84]

1. Argh, today is Day 11 and we should be having sex. But we're much too tired after loading the moving truck and driving half the day. DH also took a bath and I didn't even argue, as I have no energy to put up a fight.

Argh, can't wait to get out of here!! No more having to hear about babies, fertility, nieces, nephews, etc.. I can't wait!

1. Turkey Baster method?

2. So excited for you and moving out! I can't imagine how much stress that's going to take off of you.

frustrated, that kind of stuff always irks me. Definitely worth a vent.

Turkey Baster method . Knowing me, I'd probably spill sperm all over the place or forget to sterilize the bowl.

Relocating is incredibly stressful, I'll be so glad when it's over. We're packing the last little bit and tomorrow's moving day. The only gripe I have is that we have to haul it up 3 flights of stairs. We're stuck in a small apartment as everywhere else (rental houses included) is full from soldiers coming back from deployments.

 

[frustrated20]

I guess new people aren't welcome to this website!

 

[wonderstars]

NM

 

[trying hard]

Hi Ladies. Too many BFP announcements on my normal thread to bring up my doom and gloom attitude right now. So my OH came home to tell me tonight that this stupid slapper cow he used to work with is now 7 weeks pregnant after having unprotected sex once to a guy that told her that he didn't want to hang out with her anymore if she wasn't going to put out. ONE TIME!!!!

I HATE TTC!!! I just wish we could afford IVF right now!

 

[BearsMummy]

I have logged into fb this morning and seen 3, yes 3 seperate people on my facebook who had their 20 week scan today!!

I am also shitting myself as I have my FS appointment in 8 days, 1 hour and 25 mins.

And the bloody dog home, still hasn't rung me back.

 

[wonderstars]

Dammit, I want some of what those women are drinking.

I hear you on affording IVF trying hard. They throw that at everyone as the only solution but it costs so so so much.

Hope your evenings are going well ladies!

Edit: Motherf*cker, 8DPO and I'm spotting. Clomid didn't do a damn thing. Aargh. I was so happy and hopeful when I posted earlier this evening.

 

[trying hard]

bears mummy... I now HATE FB there are just too many pictures of bumps and scans and babies for my liking, most of the time when I go on now I go straight to my family and close friend section it is just easier.

Wonderstars That sucks!!! Clomid made my cycles heaps better (longer) you may just need a slightly higher dose or some progesterone. Were you monitored at all?

If not maybe next month get your hands on some progesterone cream and a b6 complex.


We just did an IUI but after 5 months of clomid crazies I needed to just step back a little before I lost my mind. In a couple months we will try another 2 IUIs and then we will need to stop treatment until we can afford IVF. Our insurance doesn't cover infertility and we aren't covered under the public system so it will be super expensive

 

[wonderstars]

Ugh, I hate that IVF isn't covered, trying hard. Crossing my fingers that the IUIs do it for ya. Are they going to try you on injectibles instead of clomid?

I'm unmonitored unfortunately I have two more months of 50mg clomid but with being unmonitored I don't want to bump it to 100mg. I should have my fertility specialist appt in Jul/Aug so hopefully we'll be able to cross clomid off the list and head right into injectables+IUI.

Vent:

Highschool kids on the bus are annoying as hell.

 

[wannabeprego]

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[wannabeprego]

F**K it.. I give up on LTTC for now.. it sucks and infertility has won.. i am just going to work and make money and spend it on all of the bull shi* i want.. and be obsessed with my career and being able to sleep in on the weekends and come and go as i please.. Party and enjoy being baby free..... Maybe in a few years i will revisit if but for now.. i just give up.. i am going to enjoy life, be selfish and do whatever the hell i dam well please.. screw having a kid..


I'm just over it... i am done... there is nothing left to give.. no more hope left..

 

[wonderstars]

I have no magical words for you wannabe. Just a lot of hugs. Sounds like you need a long break for your body and mind.



I must say, you are one funny lady though. I couldn't stop laughing when I read this.

OMG.. look at my baby..it moved it's leg... it took a sh**...it winked at me...blah blah blah...

 

[eternaldream]

I can't stand fb anymore. Everyone bragging about getting pregnant and all the cute little things their kids do. It especially makes me upset when its people who don't even deserve to have kids.

 

[BearsMummy]

F**K it.. I give up on LTTC for now.. it sucks and infertility has won.. i am just going to work and make money and spend it on all of the bull shi* i want.. and be obsessed with my career and being able to sleep in on the weekends and come and go as i please.. Party and enjoy being baby free..... Maybe in a few years i will revisit if but for now.. i just give up.. i am going to enjoy life, be selfish and do whatever the hell i dam well please.. screw having a kid..


I'm just over it... i am done... there is nothing left to give.. no more hope left..

I said this exact same thing to my OH a few days ago!!

We'll have money, a nice car, nice things, all the newest gadgets and I'll turn into a mad dog woman.

It still hasn't made me feel any better though.

And, it's friday 13th, af is due any time now, and I'm sure she's going to rear her ugly red head today

 

[StorkStalker]

AARRGHHHHH!!!

4 PG announcements in 2 days!! 3 births.. 2 1st bdays...

Almost 4.5 yr mark...

Friday 13th...

I thought I was coping better.. I am not.

 

[wannabemummyb]

to the ladies having a tough time! I am finding myself getting increasingly dispondent about everything atm. We have loads of other crap non ttc related, but it is making ttc even more difficult because df is stressed to the limit and i am starting to get depressed again, so neither of us are feeling sexy.

I was made to sit through an hour long home video of when my step son was a baby last weekend, i was already really down and it nearly pushed me over the edge! Mil2b realised what she had done but couldn't really stop it.

My friend found out the gender of her baby today, i am so happy for her but it meant everyone was talking about what gender they would what. I joined in for a bit and then someone made a comment and i flipped a bit and said "to be honest, i wouldn't care if i had a boy or a girl, right now a f***** baby would be nice! Right now i don't know if i will EVER have one!" damn i am going to regret that next week! I should mention, this all happened at work! Oh well my cards are totally on the table now!

I give up!

 

[wonderstars]

I think everyone's cards eventually come out on the table, it's just too much to handle sometimes. I told my coworker (we share an office) about it all because if I'm in a bad mood she'll know why.

Can we blame Friday the 13th for all this.......

Well, I guess Clomid cut down my spotting by a few days but the witch still showed up. I'm tempted to stop trying until my FS appt in July/August. Sigh.

 

[wannabemummyb]

Only if it's friday the 13th every day

 

[BearsMummy]

I was a miserable bitch yesterday....

My day went from bad to worse, the only good thing was af didnt show, but is that a good thing? Because now I have my hopes up!

I had really bad pains yesterday, so OH made me a hot water bottle for my back and the bloody thing exploded all over me. Luckily I managed to jump up and strip my pyjamas off quckly before I got too burned, only to realise all the lights in my house were on and my blinds were not pulled, so all my neighbours had a fantastic view of my jumping around naked!

On the upside, I have my first accupuncture session booked for 1st May.