NavyWife84
Wanting a Navy Baby
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So, this probably shouldn't be a vent, but it is...
I just had my last test done last week...the verdict is that my reproductive system is "textbook perfect". I should be really excited about this, but I just feel defeated. I have gone through months of tests and doctors making guesses about what is wrong...endometriosis, andometriosis, PCOS, blocked tubes, polyps on my uterus...are all things I have been told and have cried over believing them to be true until they do a new test to prove that theory wrong. All to find out that there is nothing wrong and I am "unexplained". I guess I am just frustrated. I feel that if I knew what the problem was, I could have either fixed it or gone on with my life knowing I could never have children...not so much. Oh well. I really do need to appreciate that I am "healthy". Then, the doctor told me that the IUIs I am doing aren't really that effective and they are just the same as intercourse...so why the hell am I paying $150 a month to have them done? WTH?! Ugh.
And now I have yet another UTI...I am very prone to them and have been told by doctors that I need to urinate and clean up immediately after BD...well that really isn't possible if I want to sit with my legs up, etc. Lately I haven't even been proping myself up but still just laying in bed...Unfortunately, that means a UTI every other month or so. So, I've been handed clinical depression for the past decade, infertility, and chronic UTIs...am I throwing myself a big enough pity party right now? Sorry, I am just really frustrated.
P.S. This Clomid is making me have crazy hot flashes at least every half hour! They are insane! My students watch me shiver one minute (my classroom is very cold because it is one of the only rooms in the school whose air vent works so I am pumping for the entire school) and then strip off all of my clothes the next. I get all flush and lose what I am saying. They probably think I am crazy. Along with that though, I get crazy mood swings. This month has been better, but last month I really hated myself because I was a real b*tch and couldn't hold my temper...not good with a classroom full of 5 and 6 year olds!
I just had my last test done last week...the verdict is that my reproductive system is "textbook perfect". I should be really excited about this, but I just feel defeated. I have gone through months of tests and doctors making guesses about what is wrong...endometriosis, andometriosis, PCOS, blocked tubes, polyps on my uterus...are all things I have been told and have cried over believing them to be true until they do a new test to prove that theory wrong. All to find out that there is nothing wrong and I am "unexplained". I guess I am just frustrated. I feel that if I knew what the problem was, I could have either fixed it or gone on with my life knowing I could never have children...not so much. Oh well. I really do need to appreciate that I am "healthy". Then, the doctor told me that the IUIs I am doing aren't really that effective and they are just the same as intercourse...so why the hell am I paying $150 a month to have them done? WTH?! Ugh.
And now I have yet another UTI...I am very prone to them and have been told by doctors that I need to urinate and clean up immediately after BD...well that really isn't possible if I want to sit with my legs up, etc. Lately I haven't even been proping myself up but still just laying in bed...Unfortunately, that means a UTI every other month or so. So, I've been handed clinical depression for the past decade, infertility, and chronic UTIs...am I throwing myself a big enough pity party right now? Sorry, I am just really frustrated.
P.S. This Clomid is making me have crazy hot flashes at least every half hour! They are insane! My students watch me shiver one minute (my classroom is very cold because it is one of the only rooms in the school whose air vent works so I am pumping for the entire school) and then strip off all of my clothes the next. I get all flush and lose what I am saying. They probably think I am crazy. Along with that though, I get crazy mood swings. This month has been better, but last month I really hated myself because I was a real b*tch and couldn't hold my temper...not good with a classroom full of 5 and 6 year olds!