This is going to be very hard to believe, but I have been employed by my work for a little over 2 years now, and during that time, there has been 16 pregnancies, one of them being myself, (m/c) 3 of them are from the same woman, (1 m/c) and another 2 by a different woman. The rest are all by different women. So, 13 different women have gotten pregnant in 2 years, none of them trying, and all of them surprised. The famous saying at my work is, "Don't drink the water!" So, I just heard, while I'm on vacation this week, that there is yet ANOTHER friggin pregnancy, making that 14 different women, 17 pregnancies!! I flew off the handle. I think it bugs me the most, because this girl is 21, does nothing but party and drink every night, and has been on birth control since she was 14. She came off of it only because her doctor told her that it was what was causing her cysts. Then the first time she had sex with someone she met at a bar, she got pregnant. And she is sooo miserable about it, saying she doesn't know what to do, she's not ready, and she doesn't want it. It just makes me sick to my stomach!! I don't understand how someone can be soo irresponsibly stupid, and unaware of the beauty of what is growing inside of her. I just know, if she does decide to carry, she will be one of those people that very possibly will not give up drinking and partying, despite a baby being inside of her. I mean, I feel like if it weren't for her being pregnant, I would just smack her for her ignorance!! Here I am, trying so hard for a baby, then I get pregnant, and lose the baby, then I try again for what seems like forever, and nothing, but it seems like once a month there is a newly pregnant coworker. When will it be my turn??? Sorry to rant and rave, but I really needed that! Thank you, I feel better now