Unplanned pregnancy and unhappy OH :(

[lozzy21]

Id been for my partner for 4 years, living together for 3 when i found out i was pregnant. He dident take it well to begin with, he never mentioned the A word because he knew he would have been told where to go but was generaly a dick for about 5 weeks untill we had a scan. I was only 8 weeks and all you could see was a little bean with a heartbeat but that changed everything. Shes now 10 months old and he worships her. He says shes the best thing that's happened to him and we should have had her sooner

He may well come round and accept the idea and be a fantastic dad or he might decide he wants nothing to do with the baby but and it might be harsh of me to say this but if he does its better he does it now and you realise what kind of man he is than in a few years time.

 

[Daisy Delayne]

Do what you feel in your heart, as cheesy at it sounds. On the one hand, don't let you're man's opinion make you do something you'll regret, and on the other hand, don't ever let anyone pressure you into going through with the pregnancy if that's not what you want. However, since you've said you're warming to the idea, it sounds to me like you want to keep it. Good luck and I hope you come to the best decision for YOU!

 

[Vickie]

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[dreamqueen]

Please keep in mind forum rules and TOS:

While BabyandBump tries to remain pro-choice on most subjects, out of respect for majority of our members that are either trying to conceive, or pregnant, we ask that you do not discuss topics on abortion and terminations outside of the 'Ethical Prenatal Losses' forum.

I didnt know that!
But we are just here to supprt this girl on her decision to keep her baby. She needs our support right now